In the relationship between men and women, the most important thing for two people to get along well is verbal communication. If we look at it at a deeper level, it is the inner wisdom of a woman. If you look at it from the surface, it is a woman's language art. What a smart woma

In the relationship between men and women, the most important thing for two people to get along comfortably is verbal communication. If we look at it at a deeper level, it is the inner wisdom of a woman. If you look at it from the surface, it is a woman's language art. What a smart woman says will comfort a man's heart and make him full of fighting spirit and confidence. To put it bluntly, smart women know how to control men. A woman with low emotional intelligence will often go in the opposite direction. Not only will her words fail to comfort a man, but they will add insult to injury and make him more tired. For example, when a man says "I'm so tired", women with low emotional intelligence often do the same!

First: You are tired, am I not tired?

In the relationship between men and women, when a man says "I'm so tired", a woman with low emotional intelligence will often not think about it from the man's perspective. Instead, she will feel even more aggrieved: "You are tired, am I not tired?" A man is expressing his emotional appeal. This may be the time when a man's heart is the most vulnerable. Saying such words at this time is undoubtedly adding salt to the wound! At this time, for a woman, just staying with him quietly without saying anything, or giving him a hug may make the man feel that he loves the right woman.

Second: Who is not tired in this world?

In the relationship between men and women, when a man says "I'm so tired", he will often act reasonable towards a woman with low emotional intelligence. It is said that women are naturally unreasonable, but sometimes women with low emotional intelligence tend to be reasonable at inappropriate times. In real life, we often say such a sentence, which is called empathy. For a man, when he expresses his emotional appeal, or when he is very tired, in addition to the so-called quietness, he also needs a woman to understand him at this time, rather than to reason with him.

Third: How tired are you? Anyone who is more tired than you is not called tired

In the relationship between men and women, when a man says "I am so tired", he will often compare women with low emotional intelligence with other people. For example, so and so! In fact, women may be motivating men in this way, stimulating men and making men more diligent. As everyone knows, such actions by women often make men feel cold and feel that women simply cannot understand their feelings. Many people may think that men are too pretentious. Actually, this is not the case. Everyone has different feelings about life, and we cannot draw conclusions based on our own standards. A smart woman knows how to follow the trend and understands what a man needs most when he is tired. Of course, you can live your own life according to your knowledge and ideas. As long as the result of two people getting along is good and the relationship between two people is good, this is the last word.