Beautiful love is hard to come by, and everyone longs to meet the right person. It is undoubtedly happiness to be able to hold hands with the person you love and grow old with your child. However, the world of love is very complicated. Sometimes, you don’t get something in return if you give everything, nor do you get together when you are together. After all, after getting married, you need to take on your own family roles, face more trivial matters and pressure, and sometimes have to deal with complex relationships among family members. Therefore, both husband and wife need to work together and support each other to run their own small family well.
But people’s hearts are unpredictable. Some people are too selfish at heart. As long as money is involved, they will become careless and even plot against their lover for interests that are not their own. Writer Tang Zhifeng once said: Behind one person’s confidence in marriage must be the other person’s constant humiliation without dignity. Instead of trying to please and give in, expecting the other person to change for an uncertain future, it is better to resist before being hurt in order to safeguard your own interests.
Xu Ya's marriage was like this. She and her husband met through a blind date and did not have deep feelings for each other. It was just that they had reached the marriageable age and their parents were always urging them to get married. The two people fell into the same situation and started a flash marriage. Less than half a year after they knew they were getting married, Xu Ya had already made plans. Now that she got married, she would do her best for the family.
It’s just that there is always a slight gap between ideals and reality, especially when you don’t know enough about a person, you blindly enter into marriage, and it is destined to be difficult to live the life you imagined after marriage. In the two years of marriage, her husband has never turned in his salary.
After having a child, her mother-in-law said she was not in good health and could not come to help. Xu Ya had to resign and spend all her energy and time at home on family and taking care of the children. As time went by, Xu Ya felt financial pressure and had to ask her husband for money, but her husband said: Didn't I give you a gift of 50,000 yuan when I got married? Just take it out and use it first? When Xu Ya heard this, she immediately became angry. She had been responsible for the family expenses all these years, and now she just wanted her husband to contribute some money, so he started to shirk her. Xu Ya was so angry that she had a big quarrel with him.
In the end, her husband directly requested the AA system. Xu Ya was also helpless, but she could only compromise for the sake of living. Then she said: In this case, from now on, the expenses for the family and children will be half for each person. You should hand over this month's living expenses first. Unexpectedly, the husband said: I don't care about the child, whoever gives birth to it is responsible. After hearing this, Xu Ya completely exploded and angrily said: OK, I gave birth to the child and it has nothing to do with you. Then just divorce and I will raise the child by myself.
After hearing this, her husband panicked, and his attitude softened, and he finally agreed to give him 3,000 yuan a month in living expenses. Although Xu Ya won, she also lost hope in this marriage. She only wanted to stay away from this selfish and unfeeling man when her children grew up.
Money is not a measure of love, but it is difficult to maintain a stable marriage without money. After all, poor couples will only suffer from everything. The economic foundation determines the superstructure . Therefore, for women, do not give up work easily at any time. Otherwise, if you lose your source of income, you will lose your voice and initiative at home. Especially when you meet selfish people, conflicts will arise one after another when money is mentioned.
In marriage, a woman can only be happy after marrying the right person. Therefore, if you want to get married, you must be cautious. Don't enter marriage easily for temporary favor or because of your age. If you don't have enough understanding of your partner and you sincerely trust someone else, you will often be wronged. #Marriage##Emotional Office##Emotion#
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