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Text: Shili
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"Hello Shili, I'm very confused recently! I have a female colleague who has been studying with me since she came to the company. In the past two years, I have been very good to her and she has been very good to me. I don't know if she likes me or not. Usually She often fights with me, and often pulls out my hair. When we eat together in the cafeteria, she always feeds me meat and brings me vegetables. After I catch a cold, she will buy me medicine and blame me for not taking care of my health. When I ask her out to play, she will dress up beautifully and won't refuse my hand, etc. But I confessed to her, but she rejected me, saying that she was very grateful to me, but this was not love, which made me particularly frustrated. Does she like me or not? "Two days ago, a reader friend sent such a private message.
I felt a lot when I saw this private message.
After all, when I was young, the author had personally experienced this scene, and I also experienced lack of confidence and self-doubt in love.
For this friend, in fact, he does not need to feel uncomfortable at all, nor does he need to dwell on the topic of whether the other person loves him or not.
Because that girl must love him, but for some reason, she didn't say it bluntly.
Maybe it’s because of reservation, maybe it’s because of other reasons.
As for this good thing, it is all gratitude, but it must not be sincere.
At the beginning, this good feeling may just be due to gratitude at work, but as time goes by, the rest must be love and love.
After all, no one will care and care about someone of the opposite sex that they don’t like in the long run.
At this point in time, the most important thing for this friend to do is to calm down first, not to act too hastily, and to let everything take its course.
As long as he can persevere in this love, the result will definitely be as he wishes.
After all, no woman can always refuse a man she likes.
In reality, people often ask me the same question: "How can I tell if a woman really likes me?"
After all, many men will misunderstand that a woman likes them, and they will always be pretentious and make things worse.
As a result, more and more men begin to doubt their own judgment, and then dare not love, thus missing out on true love.
In fact, whether a woman likes you or not, these three behaviors will not lie.
takes the initiative to have close contact with you.
They all say: "Women are reserved."
But when in love, even the most reserved woman will become proactive.
Because love can completely change a person and make him brave.
If a woman likes you, not only will she not reject physical contact with you, she will even take the initiative to approach you and take the initiative to have physical contact with you.
Whether a woman likes you or not depends on the distance between her and you.
In psychology, interpersonal distance is divided into four types, namely intimate distance, personal distance, social distance and public distance.
Among these four distances, the intimate distance represents the most intimate distance for interpersonal communication, which is often less than 0.5 meters.
means that if a person of the opposite sex is always within a close distance from you, then the other person is likely to like you.
Because only if you really like each other, you will not feel the distance between each other and get closer to each other subconsciously.
takes the initiative to show concern for you.
Whether a person likes someone or not may be deceived by words, but actions cannot.
True love must be attentive.
Only when you are thinking about someone in your heart will you keep the other person in your heart all the time and never get rid of it.
If a woman likes a man, she will really take the man to heart, and they will care about everything in the man's life.
She will take the initiative to pick up food for you, give you water, take the initiative to supervise you, and help you get rid of bad habits for your health.
They always do these things inadvertently, never showing any emotion.
When men are happy, they are happy for men together.
When men experience setbacks and hardships, they will also accompany them, use their own actions to care about and greet men, and truly accompany men to face them together.
Men must understand that if a woman doesn't love you, not only will she not care about you, she won't even give you a chance to continue getting along with her. She will directly reject you and then cut off all thoughts of you.
excludes contact with other members of the opposite sex in front of you.
Love is exclusive, I only hope that I can have it alone.
If a woman likes a man, she will pay more attention to the boy and reject contact with other members of the opposite sex.
For men, if a woman always deliberately draws clear boundaries with other members of the opposite sex in front of you, then there is no doubt that this woman must have a crush on you.
Her behavior is just to prevent you from misunderstanding and overthinking.
Her unique approach is actually her love for you.
Another woman who likes you will not only draw clear boundaries with the opposite sex in front of you, but also doesn't like you having contact with other members of the opposite sex.
Some of them may even get angry and lose control of their emotions.
After seeing this, if you still feel that these behaviors are not completely accurate, you might as well try taking the initiative to test them.
After all, the politeness that a woman usually shows may be fake, but as long as you encounter difficulties or are in adversity, and the whole person is in a low mood. A woman who really likes you will definitely care about you very much, try her best to comfort you and solve your dilemma.
The true sign of whether a girl likes you is actually her attitude towards you.
If you really like it, you can definitely feel it with your heart.
If you think she doesn't like you that much, then she just doesn't like you that much.
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Today’s topic: “Do you think it’s right?”
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