It can be seen that true love is those irregularities beyond the routine. He has no precise definition, but when you meet that person, you will clearly know in your heart that love is coming.

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What is love?

Love is when those rules and regulations you set are no longer counted the moment he appears;

Love is when you stand in the ice and snow, as long as he is standing next to you, you still feel like a spring breeze;

Love is when he "disappears from everyone", but you can still see him at a glance in the crowd.

It can be seen that true love is those irregularities beyond the routine. He has no precise definition, but when you meet that person, you will clearly know in your heart that love is coming.

Now that you know what love is, you can know what love is not.

If you have ever been deeply loved by someone, you will definitely feel it at the first moment when he does not love you back.

Originally, nothing in this world is eternal. People's hearts are easy to change and love is easy to disperse.

This is probably what Bai Juyi wrote in " Jian Jian Yin ":

Most good things are not strong, and colorful clouds are easy to scatter and glass is brittle.

When you find that this relationship is no longer love, or that he is no longer the person you love, you have to stop the loss in time, because there is no need to cherish something that is not love, and there is no need to hold on to it.

Of course, just as love does not happen in vain, it will not disappear in vain, and everything has its traces.

In this world, before anything happens, there are actually signs. It’s just that many people are wishful thinking and making excuses for all kinds of unreasonable things.

But deceiving oneself and others often does not bring happiness, but greater pain.

Don’t wait until your love has truly come to an end before you suddenly realize that “it turned out that you no longer loved me at that time.”

You have to know that when these three signals light up, it means that your love is about to disappear.

Dislike of the other person

When people describe their feelings for a person, the most commonly used expression is "eye compatibility". In layman's terms, it means that they are in the right eye. Because they are in the right eye, love arises. If they don't like each other, love will naturally disappear.

When you feel that the other person doesn't like you, or the other person doesn't like you, there is no need to think about why, and there is no need to ask why. The reason is very simple, that is, you don't love them anymore.

Only when you no longer love will you feel that no matter what the other person does, you will not be in your eyes. Only when you no longer love will you feel that nothing about this person can satisfy you.

When you love the other person, when the other person sneezes, you will think that he or she is sick or feeling unwell, or you will think that his sneezing

is really cute. When you don't love the other person, when the other person sneezes, you will only feel how many bacteria his sneeze will produce, and why it suddenly makes such a loud noise...

The opposite is also true. When the other person does not love you, everything you do is not in his eyes. Sometimes you will reflect on what you have done wrong. In fact, you have done nothing wrong. It is you who are wrong.

Losing the desire to share

The desire to share is the beginning of a love. When you have a desire to share with someone, it does not necessarily mean that you have fallen in love with him, but it definitely means that you want the other person to enter your life, or that you hope the other person can understand your life.

Because you want the other person to enter your life, you constantly share what you see, hear, and feel with the other person. Even if it is a foxtail grass on the roadside, you want to take a picture of it for him.

In the same way, if he loves you, then he will also have a strong desire to share with you. He also hopes that you can feel every flower, grass, and tree in his world, and he also hopes that you can enter his life.

If the desire to share is the beginning of a love, then the loss of the desire to share means the end of love.

When you both don’t want to tell each other about your lives, and you don’t want to tell each other what happened in your lives, then the love between you is equivalent to coming to an end.

Don’t care about each other’s emotions

One of the most common words used in conflicts between couples is "cold violence". What is cold violence? To put it simply, there is no communication or communication.

If a man is unwilling to communicate with you, it means that he does not care about your emotions and does not love you.

Maybe he will find an excuse that he is not good at talking, but you have to understand that not being good at talking does not mean that he does not open his mouth to speak. As long as he cares about you, as long as he does not want to make you sad, he will definitely take the initiative to communicate with you, and will ask you directly if he doesn't understand. He will never remain silent.

If your sadness, happiness, and anger are ignored by him, it means that your love has come to an end, because he does not care about your emotions, which means he does not care about you as a person and the relationship between you.

Similarly, if his sadness, anger and happiness cannot make you feel something, it means that you no longer love him, his emotions can no longer move you, and your love for him has come to an end.

Time and Emotion Classroom:

Love begins with looking at each other, the desire to share, and caring, so it ends with displeasure, loss of desire to share, and indifference.

These feelings actually do not happen in an instant. They require a process to accumulate, so you should discover it in time and stop the loss in time.

When love comes, you should be brave enough to accept it, and when love disappears, you should also be brave enough to face it.

If you can't bear it, try to save it. If it can't be saved, say goodbye decently. Don't let yourself lose your dignity, and don't force the other party.

You have to believe that the person who is most suitable for you must be destined, and he will definitely appear at the most appropriate time.

In love, don’t restrain yourself too much and don’t fail to express your most urgent inner needs, because love is based on two people being honest with each other. Don’t overindulge yourself and don’t unscrupulously vent your emotions in the relationship, because love is also based on mutual respect between two people.

Managing love requires careful attention, the beginning of love requires careful listening, and the disappearance of love also requires careful feeling. But love is not everything in life. Even without it, you can live your life well, and you are still the best version of yourself.