Cao Dewang said in an interview: "I originally wanted to get a divorce. I met a confidante and went home to file for divorce. My wife made a request and asked me to give up the divorce."
Cao Dewang was born in Fuqing, Fujian in 1946. His ancestors were once the richest man in Fuqing , but the so-called wealth and honor were only three generations. Cao Dewang's family was declining and his family relied on farming to support themselves.
Cao Dewang went to study nine years ago, but at the age of fourteen, he was unable to study due to his poor family conditions. The family is already penniless and my mother is sick.
Due to his poor family, Cao Dewang studied many years later than other classmates. Until he was nine years old, he had not started studying.
In the end, Cao Dewang dropped out of school at the age of 14 because of his poor family. He went to the farm and became a shepherd. Not long after, she followed her father around and did business.
When the two of them first started selling cigarettes, they didn't make much profit, and later started to start the fruit business. This industry is very common from morning to night. No matter how hard they work, they cannot change this poor family.
Cao Dewang was extremely tortured in his youth, his body and spirit were greatly tortured, but he still persevered.
Cao Dewang's mother finally fell ill on the hospital bed due to excessive fatigue. They were all worried when they saw their mother getting thinner day by day.
The father discussed with Cao Dewang that he would find a wife for him and let him take good care of his mother at home. However, the old man didn't know that Cao Dewang had already had his lover at this critical moment.
Cao Dewang's father and mother found a country girl for him, that is Chen Fengying, Cao Dewang's second wife.
On the wedding day, Cao Dewang calmly said to Chen Fengying, "I won't bully the small with the big, don't bully the small with the big, let's stay together."
After getting married, the two of them had little common topics. Even those relatives of Cao Dewang came to visit their homes, Chen Fengying didn't say a word, but just watched quietly while holding them to eat.
The relationship between Chen Fengying and Cao Dewang is not good. She is also very clear that she is not educated and cannot speak Chinese. She is worried that once she speaks, she will embarrass Cao Dewang.
Cao Dewang goes out to work, while Chen Fengying stays at home, watching her mother-in-law and her child. She is a native countryman and doesn't know how to dress herself up. Even the clothes she wears are prepared for her by Cao Dewang himself. She will do the same as Cao Dewang wants.
Cao Dewang wanted to do business at the beginning, but because he did not have enough funds, his wife Chen Fengying found out and gave Cao Dewang his only betrothal gift without saying a word. However, due to insufficient qualifications, Cao Dewang started a short-term deal and was heavily in debt. When the creditor arrived at home, Chen Fengying didn't blame Cao Dewang, but just followed behind quietly, saying that he would pay back the money with him.
Chen Fengying convinced those creditors to give Cao Dewang a good opportunity to leave and let Cao Dewang make money outside. Cao Dewang is very tolerant and has left for more than ten years, once a year, and finally paid off all his debts.
Once Cao Dewang met a beautiful girl at a banquet. She was so wise, so generous and so knowledgeable. Cao Dewang's heart moved.
Cao Dewang talked and laughed with the woman, and seemed to have entered a state of love and love again, completely forgot his wife and son.
Later, Cao Dewang had the idea of divorce. Thinking of the scenes between himself and his wife, Cao Dewang was a little difficult to speak of. So, he decided to write a letter to his wife: "Let's break up, I'm already in love with another person."
Cao Dewang originally thought that his wife would have a big fight over this matter, but when he returned home, his wife was surprisingly calm and said, "I know I'm not your opponent, I'm leaving me sooner or later. I have no objection to you to leave, you can leave three children and that house."
Cao Dewang was a little surprised. His wife was not crying, not making noise, nor was she trying to divide the property. Cao Dewang was recalled by this sentence. At that time, Cao Dewang was a poor man. He was worried about whether his wife would leave, while his wife was a father, a mother, a child, and a mother-in-law. On the most difficult days, he even gave his wedding dress to Cao Dewang, allowing him to go in his company. It was so prosperous.
Cao Dewang shed tears of regret, and he suddenly understood the meaning of marriage. So he decided to break up with her and return to his family.
Cao Dewang finally chose to be calm. He asked 100 couples, including doctors, teachers, and civilians.
Cao Dewang finally concluded that none of the 100 couples are completely happy. They all moved from their initial passion to ordinary life, and only Only in this way can life be made better.
Cao Dewang broke up with his wife and returned to his wife's home. In order to make Chen Fengying feel at ease, Cao Dewang handed over all his assets, as well as the legal person of Fuyao Company, to Chen Fengying.
Cao Dewang did not hide his "extramarital affair", but wrote him into his "Heart Like Bodhi" to warn all men not to be impulsive. I dumped my wife and let them know what a prodigal son is like to turn back.
Cao Dewang has achieved what he has achieved today because he is loyal to his wife. Cao Dewang often warns everyone to understand "respect the heaven and love others".
Cao Dewang not only expressed gratitude to his wife, but also expressed gratitude to his country and people from all walks of life. Over the years, Cao Dewang has donated more than 16 billion yuan in donations.
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