Fan Mr. Dong is a second-marriage man, and his second-marriage partner is a woman he cheated on during the marriage. In his words, it was his true love. He thought that if he married true love, he would live happily. After getting married, he realized that the so-called true love

Fan Mr. Dong is a second-marriage man, and his second-marriage partner is a woman he cheated on during the marriage. In his words, it was his true love. He thought that if he married true love, he would live happily. After getting married, he realized that the so-called true love outside marriage was not suitable for being a wife, nor was it suitable for living.

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Mr. Dong and his ex-wife are college classmates and are typical campus romance. After graduation, both of them chose to stay in the city to work. The difficulties of two young people who have no foundation or access to have a place in this city can be imagined. At the most difficult time, the ex-wife followed him in a basement where there was no light, and she ate either steamed buns or instant noodles every day.

Two years after graduation, their living conditions changed and marriage was put on the agenda. He was lucky and met his father-in-law and mother-in-law who was a little sensible in the world. Not only did they use the bride price to make things difficult for him and his family, but instead discussed with his parents that the wedding would be held briefly, and that the flowers should be spent, and that the flowers should not be spent, and then he gathered the efforts of both families to help them build a home in the city so that they could work hard in the city with peace of mind.

The down payment for buying a house was made up by the two families. The second year after marriage, the ex-wife gave birth to a son for herself. Considering that his parents were in poor health, the mother-in-law quit her job to help them take care of their children. He remembered the efforts of his ex-wife and parents-in-law in-laws in his heart, and vowed to treat them well.

However, love is easy and difficult to get along with. In the day after day, the sweetness of the past disappears without a trace, replaced by mortgage, water and electricity bill, what to eat today, the child's homework, and the quarrel caused by bits and pieces. He is increasingly disgusted with such days.

Gradually, Mr. Dong found that he didn't want to go home after get off work, and he didn't want to face the nagging wife at home. Later, he got together with his female colleague in the unit.

She is the same age as herself. She got married once and had a daughter with her ex-husband. After the divorce, she was raised by her ex-husband. She is also a woman who has experienced marriage. Her colleagues have a calm mind and are dressed up in a fashionable manner. She has no yellow-faced temperament in her every move. This makes Mr. Dong very moved and is inexplicably attracted by her.

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In Mr. Dong's view, a female colleague is a woman who understands both work and life, and such a woman is exactly what he needs. Although she is in her thirties, her female colleagues are particularly good at acting spoiled, which makes Mr. Dong feel like he is needed and relied on.

Although he is addicted to extramarital affairs, Mr. Dong did not think about divorcing his wife. He knew that his wife was very good and took good care of him and his family. Facing his virtuous wife and his parents-in-law who were wise and helpful to him everywhere, he really didn't have the courage to file for the word divorce.

But he underestimated the woman, and even underestimated a woman who was willing to be a mistress. When he was in a dilemma and hesitant, his female colleague shook the matter between them in front of his ex-wife. The ex-wife could not tolerate such betrayal and resolutely divorced him, and he naturally married a third party after the divorce.

After marriage, Mr. Dong handed over his salary card to the current employee. At first, he felt very happy because the current person is different from his ex-wife. She is a woman who cares about life taste. From food to clothing, she reflects exquisiteness everywhere. It was not until he saw one credit card bill after another that he realized that the so-called exquisiteness and romance and the so-called taste of life are all bought with money.

My wife never cleans the house, and she hired a hourly worker to clean the house. She never cooked, and she ordered takeaway food, but before he got off work, she transferred them from the takeaway box to the exquisite dishes she bought. She was dressed in a fashionable way, but she only cost hundreds of dollars in a piece of underwear. She is indeed well maintained, but a set of cosmetics costs tens of thousands of yuan.

It was not until this time that Mr. Dong realized that it was not that his ex-wife did not understand life, but that his ex-wife felt sorry for him that it was not easy to make money and was reluctant to live. It’s not that the ex-wife is not delicate or fashionable, but that the ex-wife understands that money should be spent in useful places.To put it bluntly, it is not that his ex-wife is not good enough, but that he does not have the ability to make his ex-wife live a good life.

He regretted it, but what's the use of regret? In order to maintain the current marriage, Mr. Dong tried to communicate with the current employee, hoping that she could think about her family and live a down-to-earth life. But she felt wronged and thought that Mr. Dong didn't say anything when she bought things. After buying them, she owed debts. Mr. Dong came to blame herself again.

said too much, and the two started to quarrel, and the current employee started to stay at night. Later, Mr. Dong found out that she had an ambiguous relationship with other men on her back. When Mr. Dong talked about her, she said that Mr. Dong didn't believe in her and said that she had a normal relationship with those men.

From her eyebrows, Mr. Dong saw that she was not ashamed, but instead felt that being ambiguous with different men was a charm.

Although Mr. Dong has not yet captured the exact evidence of his current marriage cheating, he understands that his current marriage cannot last long. He regretted it very much, regretted letting down his ex-wife and ruining his marriage with his own hands.

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Summary: Good marriages must be mutual understanding and contributions. Those who can be hurt by you must be the one who truly loves you, and those who hurt you must not take you seriously. No matter who you fall in love with, you will be in the moon before marriage, and you will be in love with me after marriage. After marriage, you will become food and food. The reason why the person outside is good is that she has not really participated in your life, she has not taken on the pressure of life with you, she only helps you spend money, but will not consider what to do if she spends all the money?

The gentleness and consideration of a lover is to establish that it only asks for and does not give to the above. If you treat your wife with an attitude towards your lover, you will find that she will be gentler than your lover. Don’t wait until you lose it before regretting it. Not all regrets have a chance to save them.