What should I do if the third party not only does not quit voluntarily, but also provokes the original wife?
Faced with such a situation, will you choose to give in and be patient with a restrained personality?
Is it living in collapse and helplessness?
Can you only lose your temper at the man helplessly and expect the man to take the initiative to break with the other party?
Su Yue tells you that as long as men show signs that they cannot live without a third party, then they will not break, and the third party may become the leader!
So how to solve it?
Today Su Yue teaches everyone with real cases and learn these two aspects. Men must break even if they don’t want to break.
Ms. Wang has been married to a man for 11 years, and just last year she found that men had traveled more business trips, and even found a woman's used hair rope in his pocket.
The man bluntly said that he bought it himself, but Ms. Wang knew that she could not just make things happen.
Because next she found a lot of female products on men and in the car one after another, she would make a fuss with the man every time she found out.
But there is no way for a man to admit that she doesn't want to admit it. After all, there is no certain evidence, so she has suffered from insomnia and depression for a long time.
She couldn't help but find it. Su Yue came here and asked what the third party wanted to do? And how should she grasp the evidence and give the men and third parties a look.
In fact, it can be seen from the fact that men lie again and again that men do not want to break the extramarital affair, so Ms. Wang is best not to force herself.
This will not solve the problem of scheming third parties, and will also alienate themselves and men's relationship.
So Su Yue suggested that the other party understand the other party's reality and weakness, and use softness to overcome softness and hardness to overcome hardness.
First, let’s analyze the situation Ms. Wang:
She dared not leave her own traces around the man, so she chose to do these things to expose her existence, and while giving Ms. Wang a warning, she could also show her gentleness while the man was coping with her original wife, and take the opportunity to prepare for the superiors.
And most men obviously did something wrong, but at this time they would be angry with their wives. The more they quarreled with their wives here, the more they became, and the more they were coaxed by a third party there, physically and mentally comfortable.
slowly walked away from his wife and walked into the third party, and the purpose of the third party was achieved.
It is best to start from two aspects. The first is to stay calm and arrogant, and the second is to find out the opponent's weaknesses and take the initiative to attack.
Secondly, Su Yue will expand these two points in detail, and take Ms. Wang as an example.
Ms. Wang's next various tricks, suddenly became silent, no longer furiously and had conflicts with the man, but instead pretended that she had seen nothing.
At this time, the man felt relieved when he saw Ms. Wang quiet, because although he did not want to break up with a third party, he did not want to divorce, so he was happy to see it.
The third party is embarrassed at this time. What should I do if my wife doesn’t accept the call? If your wife doesn’t make a big deal, she will get ahead of her position?
So the third party directly found Ms. Wang, directly provoked the other party, told Ms. Wang that she was with the man, and at the same time found the man and asked the man to give herself a title.
The third party thought that Ms. Wang would angrily make trouble with the man again when she knew about this. Unexpectedly, Ms. Wang told the man directly about this and asked him to solve it.
This leads to the man starting to have conflicts with the other party after he found that the third party came to force him again.
Then when the other party was having a big fuss, Ms. Wang changed her normal behavior and became active with Su Yue's guidance.
She began to unify the front with men and shared her happy life with men on social platforms. Men are naturally very cooperative.
Even men think that marriage at this time is more tempting than extramarital affair, and their hearts of not wanting to divorce are stronger.
Ms. Wang came up with a new trick. She began to want to greet the man but refused, and expressed her idea of leaving, and gave the man some information about what he lost to divorce.
Compared with emotions, men care more about interests. He looked at the crazy third party and found that he would lose a lot if he divorced, and gradually began to sway.
So in the face of Ms. Wang's approach, he acted very proactively and intentionally cooperated with the other party to show his love. The third party felt very uncomfortable when he saw this scene, and the quarrel with the man even more intensely.
This is true. After a long time, if Ms. Wang does not need to continue doing anything, the man will break up with a third party.
After the man mentioned breaking up, the third party actually made a fuss at the men's company, which made the man very embarrassed. This step completely shattered the extramarital affair and also broke the man's desire to cheat again in the future.
The stage when the company was suspended from handling matters again, the man was really afraid of extramarital affairs and vowed to return sincerely.
Of course, Ms. Wang did not forgive directly, but asked the other party to sign a guarantee letter.
The man agreed helplessly.
Su Yue believes that in fact, the third party is easy to solve. Sometimes some of her methods and scheming can be discovered as soon as it is analyzed.
We can take advantage of the situation to return it and catch her off guard.
If you encounter a similar situation but don’t know how to solve it, you can directly follow Su Yue and send me a private message to me about your situation. I will give you the most professional guidance and help as soon as possible.
I am Su Yue, your marriage maintenance teacher!