"Marriage, like a democratic system, is just a choice that humans have to weigh the pros and cons in many systems; the other side of marriage happiness is inevitable. "There is no absolute freedom in marriage. It seems that we can freely choose the object we will stay with for the rest of our lives, but in fact it is bound by many factors, especially in rural areas where ideas are backward, the older generation regards marriage as a tool for passing on the family line.
This old case that broke the shattered view in Anhui in 2006 allows us to see the casual and absurd attitude of the older generation towards marriage. The younger brother's bride was transferred by his brother on the wedding night, but his parents-in-law chose to turn a blind eye and let this marriage that should not have happened send a woman to the grave of the marriage. It is really hard to understand. So what is hidden behind this case?
Yue Mouqing was born in an ordinary rural family in Anhui. Although she had not read many books, she went to work in a big city after adulthood and also saw a bigger world. While having a broad vision, she also met Gui Mou, a woman she wanted to accompany her for the rest of her life. The two of them worked in the same factory. After getting along day by day, they quickly fell in love with each other. Not long after, they decided to have a relationship with each other.
Due to the stable relationship, the two of them had already begun to discuss the marriage matter, and Yue Mouqing took Gui back to his hometown with joy to meet his parents. Although Yue's parents were very satisfied with Gui's wife, their happy colleagues also showed a sad look. The reason was that Yue's younger brother Yue Lin was nearly thirty years old and had not yet married.
It’s okay if you were not as handsome as Yue Mouqing and had mediocre qualifications, but you are still lazy and have no ability. There is no good family in the village who is willing to marry her daughter to such a gangster. It has always been a headache for Yue’s parents. At present, Yue Mouqing, as a younger brother, got married one step earlier than his older brother. According to local customs, people would gossip, but the second son's intention was decided, and the couple had no reason to refuse, so they had to nodded silently.
The wedding day is set in May. When Yue Mouqing was busy with his marriage, the Yue family's parents could not focus all their attention on the marriage of their second son. After all, the marriage problem of the eldest son now gives them even more headaches. As the wedding date approaches day by day, the couple's mood becomes more and more anxious. "How great it would be if they were married to their eldest son!" Such an idea had already emerged in the couple's mind.
Thinking that the second son's conditions are so good, it will not be a problem to find a wife in the future. As for the eldest son, finding a wife by himself is simply a fantasy. The couple made a ridiculous decision: let the second son give the wife to the eldest son first, and as long as they use some means, they can only accept it when the raw rice is cooked and they are unwilling to do so. They simply regarded marriage as a joke, but they were still complacent about this "stunning" idea.
The couple first found various excuses to delay the marriage certificate. On the wedding day, after all the ceremony was successfully completed, they specially arranged for relatives and friends to get the two newlyweds drunk. After the guests dispersed, they forced the two to separate from the wedding bed, and worked together to carry the second son to other rooms, and pushed the eldest son in. In this way, the drunk Gui had sex with Yue Moulin, while Yue Mouqing, who should have been the protagonist, fell asleep all night.
It was not until Gui woke up early the next morning and saw clearly that the man lying beside him was not Yue Mouqing, so he screamed and sat up from the bed. At this time, Yue Mouqing woke up after hearing Gui's screams. He rushed into the room and looked at everything in front of him. He immediately understood what Gui had encountered. In anger, he immediately waved his fist and smashed it into Yue Moulin's face.
Yue's parents saw that the situation was not good, and promptly appeared and grabbed Yue Mouqing and told the truth one by one.Yue Mouqing looked at his parents who had no regrets in front of him, and felt full of pain and disbelief. Although he felt guilty about Gui Mou, he could not choose between his parents and his beloved woman. So he made a cowardly choice and left the home that disappointed him without looking back, leaving only the isolated Gui Mou.
Gui naturally would not accept being married to a man who had no feelings for him, but in the face of the hard begging and pestering of his parents in the Yue family, he was actually kept. She originally wanted to wait until Yue Mouqing came back and ask him for an explanation, but before Yue Mouqing could wait, she learned that she was pregnant. Gui was unwilling to kill the life of the innocent child in his stomach, so he had no choice but to give birth to the child in Yue's family.
It took five years for the child to stay. Yue Moulin, as the father of the child, has never fulfilled her responsibilities for the past five years. Gui is worried about everything. Fortunately, she never regarded Yue Moulin as her real husband, and naturally the two have never obtained a marriage certificate. When the child grew up day by day, Gui felt that it was time for him to leave, so he asked the local court for help, hoping to completely break up with the Yue family.
However, the marriage between the two of them is not completely voluntary when both men and women are not completely recognized by the law, and they have not received a marriage certificate. In other words, Gui has the right to leave at any time if he wants to leave, and is not subject to any restrictions. Because the " Civil Code " clearly stipulates that marriage must be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and no party is allowed to force or interfere with the other party.
However, the child born by Gui does not belong to her. According to the law, this child is born out of wedlock, and both parents have the obligation to raise him, which means that Yue Moulin, as the father of the child, also has the right and responsibility to raise him. Finally, Gui successfully left the Yue family in September 2011. Unfortunately, with the insistence of Yue's parents, she could not take away her children and could only be forced to accept the ending of being separated from the children. The case of
has come to an end here. Gui is undoubtedly unfortunate. It is really a pity to meet such an irresponsible man, get into such a ridiculous and ignorant family, fall into an unextinguishable marriage dilemma, and end up with such a tragic ending. I also hope that everyone can learn from this case. Marriage is not a transaction or a joke. A marriage that is difficult to deal with is destined to end well.
("Old case that shatters three views: The younger brother's bride was transferred by his biological brother, but his parents-in-law turned a blind eye" The case of this article comes from news reports/judgment documents, the parties are pseudonyms, and the plot is slightly polished; all (parts) are online pictures and have nothing to do with this case; original articles, please do not reprint and plagiarize.)
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