Author: Not all uncles are called Bei Shu Source: Bei Shu Youyou (ID: beishu2016) There is a saying: "Language is a bit pale and powerless when expressing love; however, it is sharper than a knife when hurt." I feel deeply the same. Language can warm people and hurt people, espec

Gu Lei didn't want to attend accounting class, so he didn't explain to Xiaoqin, and skipped classes and gave up the exam to resist. Every time he encountered a problem, she didn't say that she only hid in the house with her father and sister for a small meeting.

Xiaoqin felt that Gu Lei treated her as an outsider. Gu Lei complained that Xiaoqin had too many tubes, and the two of them had conflicts. In a fierce quarrel, Gu Lei rolled down the stairs and died unexpectedly.

A good relationship is never arbitrary, but a discussion on everything and a mutual understanding of one's heart.

There will always be something like this and that that needs to be faced and resolved together. Calm down, listen to each other’s views more, think about each other’s position more, and discuss more, the relationship will be warmer, and the marriage will be stable with more respect.

Talking well is the most powerful sail to sail the ship of marriage to the other side of happiness.

often praises

is a catalyst for emotional harmony

psychologist William James said:

"The deepest need of mankind is to feel appreciated."

For women, the recognition and appreciation of a partner is better than all expensive skin care products, making people happy and radiant in body and mind;

For men, the encouragement and praise of lovers can relieve the fatigue of all burdens of life, make people full of strength and feel happiness.

The most advanced romance between close lovers is undoubtedly knowing how to praise.

I remember that in " Longing for Life ", Huang Lei's eyes could not hide their love when they looked at Sun Li's eyes. Even chopped a chili, Huang Lei also praised her pamperedly: "Sister Li, you are so capable!"

And Sun Li's eyes were full of admiration when she saw Huang Lei's skillful cooking, and she praised every dish he cooked and looked satisfied.

Couples are due to love and have long been recognized.

Know how to appreciate each other's strengths and praise them in time. This is also the secret of Huang Lei and Sun Li's relationship as sweet as before for more than 20 years.

Good feelings are praised. Smart partners know how to put their expectations in every word of praise, so that the other party can listen comfortably and be willing to give.

Over time, you will find that she is becoming more and more gentle by being recognized, and she is becoming more and more outstanding by being recognized. Her two hearts are getting closer and closer by complimenting each other.

When you are not stingy with praise, life will be happy; if you know how to appreciate, your feelings will naturally be full of affection.

chatting without getting tired of

is a preservative for harmonious life

I really like a sentence written by Liu Tong:

"Comfortable feelings are that when you talk about any topic, the other party can continue to chat, not because the other party is knowledgeable, but because the other party is extremely interested."

The trivial things in life, the worries and worries at work, what you see and hear in daily life, you speak vividly, and he listens with relish.

Two people are relaxed together, not tired of getting along with each other, never tired of chatting, bringing each other peace of mind and warmth, which is the most harmonious happiness in fireworks life.

I have a friend's love, which was lucky to chat on WeChat.

At first, he just wanted to find A netizen occasionally chats to relieve her boredom, and unexpectedly meets her who has similar interests. Every time she opens up, she is out of control and has a lot of chat records.

After marriage, they maintain the habit of chatting at any time as usual, sharing insignificant things in life, from three meals a day to weather changes, from songs and movies I have heard to the things I have encountered, they can all become interesting topics of conversation on this topic.

Both of them are not bothered or tired of, and enjoy it.

In front of their lover, they can speak as much as they want. This is The most comfortable way to get along in life.

Really love someone means sharing it with you endlessly. You are happy to respond to me tirelessly. In the interaction of words and words, the feelings flow slowly and the years are fragrant.

Love should make people feel warm, not sad.

A happy marriage, sweet love, and a happy life all need to be managed, and an effective way of managing is to speak well.

has a long life. I hope you and I can be a person who can speak, accompany you with your heart, walk with love, speak warmly, and live up to your deep affection.

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