I have heard a saying: "Matching is the best state of life."
Many things are like this. True joy comes from the matching of strength and opportunity, the fit of thinking and reality, and the matching of each other's feelings.
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Strength is matched with opportunities to succeed
Many times, some people always attribute their failure to bad luck, but they do not know that behind the opportunity and luck is the same strength.
Before starring in the movie " No one can be missing ", Wei Minzhi was still a rural kid who knew nothing.
With her characteristics of fitting with the movie role, she successfully starred in the work of director Zhang Yimou . This experience changed her, and a "director's dream" was planted in her heart.
In order to get into her ideal university, she transferred to a middle school in Shijiazhuang. raced against time to learn knowledge, practiced Mandarin repeatedly, but failed the first art exam. But she did not give up and continued to make up for her cultural shortcomings, practiced during the day and studied at night. When the lights were turned off, I reviewed in the quilt, and for this reason, I broke 3 flashlights. Finally, he was admitted to a university in Xi'an with a score of 200 points exceeding the art exam.
She did not relax in college and kept trying her best to learn new knowledge. Her efforts were seen by Chen Ergang, a professor at Brigham Young University in the United States, and he took the initiative to help her apply for study abroad qualifications, provided that she had to master fluent English.
But at that time, Wei Minzhi's English level was not high. In order to pursue her dreams, she spent 2 years studying English and successfully entered Brigham Young University . There, she hosted concerts, read more than 400 pages of English scripts in 3 days, and worked in various tasks in the director's major... Finally, she realized her dream of director.
Many people say that Wei Minzhi is lucky, but in fact, behind this luck is achieved by her continuous efforts and strengthening her strength.
Luo Zhenyu once said in his New Year's Eve speech "House of Friends ":
"A person's wealth basic base has two components. First, your own ability; second, your ability to connect with others, and the latter is the amplifier of the former."
If you are not strong enough, even if the opportunity comes, you can only look up to it and eventually miss it.
When there is a gap between your ability and your dream, you must constantly improve and polish yourself.
's strong strength is the capital to talk equally with opportunities and a guarantee of success.
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Only by following the reality can you break through
In life, many people are obviously working hard, but in the end they get nothing because they trap their thinking in their own small world and are not in line with reality.
If you want to succeed in anything, what you need is not only hard work, but also thinking must meet actual needs.
100 years ago, "high mortality rate for newborn babies" was a global problem. Scholars have made efforts toward a channel and carried out countless research, but they have never been able to do so.
By chance, obstetrician Stephen Tani, an obstetrician and gynecologist, saw chick incubator , and suddenly had a whim, could this technology be improved and applied to newborn babies.
After continuous disassembly and experiments, he innovatively developed a baby constant temperature box with the help of the incubator . This invention has been popularized in European and American countries, greatly reducing the mortality rate of newborn babies.
After the Indian Ocean tsunami, the International Rescue Organization donated 8 baby thermostats to Indonesia to help it overcome the difficulties. However, three years later, eight constant temperature box failed one after another, but because the parts were not common and the repair technology was complicated, it made it difficult to repair the equipment, and these 8 devices were idle.
After Stephen Tani learned about it, he began to study a constant temperature box that is not constrained by technology and parts.
He tried a lot, but there was no progress. At this moment, he observed that cars were already circulating all over the world and were very common items.So, he changed his mind and connected the R&D with the local reality. He replaced the thermostat parts with auto parts that could be seen everywhere, and designed a new baby thermostat, which is later called the "baby breeding device". After improvements to
, as long as there is a car repair factory, the "nanny tool" can be repaired and made.
From a baby thermostat to a baby nursery, Stephen Tani continues to start from reality, breaking through the boundaries of thinking, and ultimately bringing welfare to newborns in the world.
Only by changing perspectives in a timely manner and adjusting thinking to a mode that matches reality can life be full of infinite possibilities.
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Only when we share the same emotions for a long time can we last
The most comfortable state of getting along between people is that we share the same emotions.
This is especially true between lovers. Only when they are in harmony with each other can they live together for a long time.
Writer Xiao Qian and his wife Wen Jieruo , because of translation work.
In life, both good and bad times are present. No matter when, they always resonate and support each other emotionally, and live a happy life.
Wen Jieruo retired from her workplace, Xiao Qian was already 80 years old. She wanted to translate " Ulysses " known as the "Book of Heaven".
Xiao Qian felt sorry for his wife's hard work in translating alone, so he took the initiative to come forward to help. The two got up at 5 o'clock every day, looking for comments and inspiration from books, and persevering for 5 years.
Although the work is hard, they can always find pleasure in encouraging each other and enjoy themselves in the harvest.
After Xiao Qian passed away, Wen Jieruo placed his young photos in the living room. When he was translating books alone, Xiao Qian in the photo looked at her with a smile, continuing to nourish her with love, so that Wen Jieruo, who lives alone, did not feel lonely.
NetEase Cloud has a hot comment: "Two souls that fit will always surpass the so-called distance and timeliness."
It is not difficult to meet people, but the difficult thing is the three views. This emotional resonance and matching allows the two people to solve the problem well even if they have differences in their thoughts.
More emotional fit will lead to less friction in reality.
Only by standing from the other person's perspective can the relationship go further.
Conclusion
French writer Camus said: "I hope that when I encounter difficulties in life, I can be his opponent."
Everyone is equal in the face of opportunities, and only by being equal in strength can you break out of the siege.
Only by opening the window of thinking and sticking to the actual path can you find the way to solve the problem.
The emotions that fit can create two happy hearts and last longer.
Click "Look again". May you match everything in peace and quiet, live the way you want.
Author profile: Jin Qingluo, I only wish to wash away all the bad luck, but I will still be a teenager when I return.
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