It is said that men have forty-one flowers and women have forty-one tofu. As they grow older, women's appearance begins to age. Although men also look older, men are around 50 years old and are already in a successful career. They don't have to be tired of life like young people,

It is said that men have forty-one flowers and women have forty-one tofu. As they grow older, women's appearance begins to age. Although men also look older, men are around 50 years old and are already in a successful career. They don't have to be tired of life like young people, nor do they have to worry about their bodies every day like those elderly people.

Their lives are stable, they have some spare money in their hands, and they are in good health. This kind of life is stable and comfortable, and the most comfortable. However, when men are about 50 years old, their lives are prone to breaking through. If they do not do well, they may suffer themselves and their families. Especially these two things are lessons of blood and tears.

The pain of extramarital affairs comes from Mr. Li’s narrative

My surname is Li, and I am 51 years old this year. Opening a food business company with an annual income of hundreds of thousands. Although the people around you are not very rich, their family is happy and they have some spare money, which is considered insufficient and more than the lower.

People reach middle age, all the circles around them are fixed, and their friends are fixed, and their lives are like boiled frogs in warm water, without any ups and downs.

Others envy me for my stable life, but I think life should have more colors. At this moment, a girl named Xiao Han broke into my life.

Xiao Han is young and beautiful, single. She understands the worldly style and observes the words and expressions. After getting in touch with her for a lot, I found that she is very smart and many difficult things are not a big deal when it comes to her.

, and she has a cheerful and lively personality. She smiles as soon as she speaks. There are two shallow dimples on her face, which looks very beautiful. I feel relaxed and happy when I am with her, and I often feel that time passes too quickly.

The reason why I took the initiative to pursue her is that she understands that it is not easy for me to work hard for my career, and gives me enough face in front of outsiders and says I am her idol. Moreover, she is with me, and she doesn't seek fame and rarely spends my money.

After spending time together for a long time, I think she understands me better than my wife and feels more sorry for me. She will remember the taste of my meals, make the meals I love, let me sleep for a while, and help me iron my clothes. We made an appointment to go shopping. I was late or couldn't leave if I had something to do, so she wouldn't be angry. She would also tell me to work first and be careful when driving.

I think being with her is life. I enjoy this feeling very much. The longer I time, the more I feel that she is more suitable to be my wife than my wife. So I plan to divorce my wife.

My wife was angry and helpless after learning about this. She cried and advised me to return to my family. For the sake of the children, she could leave the blame.

But I think I should teach my wife a lesson so that she can know that the real reason for my divorce from her is because she always disrespects me. As long as I make a mistake, I will not give me a good look even in front of others. She has a strong personality and I have to listen to her in many things. She rarely considers it for me and always complains that she has paid a lot for this family, but I don’t feel sorry for her.

I really hate this kind of life and don’t want to live with her for a day. My wife advised me to turn back, and I really had no choice but to agree to a divorce.

After the divorce, Xiao Han and I were in a close relationship and were together every day. However, the market conditions have not been good in recent years, and my business is getting harder and harder. I thought Xiao Han would be considerate to me, but she began to complain that I was useless, and she also said that when she was with me, she thought I could give him a better life. Unexpectedly, in just a few years, I couldn't give her the life she wanted.

She is very uncontrollable in spending money and likes to buy expensive things. As long as I disagree, she gets angry. She is also very generous in spending money on her parents and brother. Her brother's car was bought with my money.

We are together, and the annual expense is 700,000 to 800,000 yuan. Half a year ago, my friend and I were preparing to transform into other businesses. When I withdraw money, I found that the money I had was not enough to invest. I asked her where the money was spent, and she said she had bought luxury accessories.

We had a big fight, and the next day she proposed to break up and moved out of my house. After a few days, she was with someone else.

I realized Xiao Han’s true face and realized that she didn’t really want to live with me. Although my ex-wife has a bad personality, she is always careful in living with me. She saves as much as possible. I know that I don’t know how to cherish it.

I want to remarry my ex-wife, but she is still hesitating. I just hope she can see my sincerity as soon as possible and forgive me. If she marry someone else, I will regret it for the rest of my life.

I have completely understood that lovers and wives are really different. If you don’t have to accompany each other in your old age, you should help each other and tolerate each other in your life. A wife can accompany you to endure hardships, and a lover can only accompany you to enjoy happiness. If you don’t cherish your wife, when we have no money, there will be no one around you who will take care of us.

I hope to use my experience to advise those who are the same age as me and are not at home, not to think that when they are middle-aged, they will be drifting away if they have some money in their hands, and their lives are as dull as water. This is the true happiness. If you have to make life stir, it will be too late to save it.

The ending of losing bet comes from Mr. Wang’s narrative.

My surname is Wang, I am 49 years old this year, and I am fifty years old. My wife and I run a restaurant. The business is very good, and the profit of a year is 300,000 to 400,000 yuan.

After my son got married, my wife and I were busy running restaurants every day. Occasionally, we would eat and drink with our friends, or occasionally go out for a trip with our wife.

Many people envy me for being comfortable living in middle age, and I feel the same way. I have two houses, my son has started a family, and my daughter-in-law is at home to take care of the children. My wife and I can’t spend all the money we earn every year.

Friends all advised me not to work hard. I have been struggling for half my life and should learn to enjoy life. I think it makes sense, so I occasionally play cards with my friends to spend time. At first, I lost some money, and as long as I couldn't say I could not afford to lose the money.

I want face and it’s hard to walk away. As time goes by, the bigger the bets get bigger. The most lost time was that I lost 200,000 yuan in one night. My wife cried and advised me not to bet. It is not easy for us to work hard to make money. If we have no money in the future, how can we live our lives?

But I think the money I have earned has been lost, so I should be gambled even if I don’t make money, I have to pay back my capital. I didn't listen to my wife and continued to bet. I didn't have high requirements. I could win back the money I lost before, but the result was that my two houses were gone, the restaurant was closed, and I still owed a lot of debts.

My son and daughter-in-law were unwilling to help me pay it back, and I was embarrassed to bother them, so I had to go out to work alone, but my ability was limited, and it was difficult to repay the money I owe. My wife couldn't bear to endure hardships by myself, so she had to help me pay it back together. My wife is 53 years old and has to go to a restaurant to clean dishes.

Before, many people envied my wife for being lucky. She often could wear good-looking clothes, do beauty treatments, and dress herself up very fashionable.

Now, in order to save money, my wife no longer goes to the beauty shop and rarely buys clothes. She also has to endure the discussion and ridicule of her by people around her. A few days ago, I found that my wife had a lot of white hair. I felt distressed and guilty when she saw her like this.

Our lives were originally very rich, but because of my reasons, our family suffered with me. I hope my experience can alert everyone to live a good life and stay away from gambling.

is written in the end

people reach middle age. Most families have successful careers, happy families, and their children have grown up and their lives are stable. But the more middle-aged a person is, he will have no worries about life, and the more he should be prepared for danger in times of peace and plan for the future.

After all, when people reach middle age, they have old age and young people. If they do something wrong, they will not only make themselves suffer, but also cause their family members.

Especially middle-aged men, after their career success, they will face many temptations, such as the colorful world outside, such as the instigation of friends. Maybe you think you are just a stunning test and you can withdraw in time when there is a problem, but you don’t know that when you step into the abyss, it will be difficult to withdraw again.

After a middle-aged man has a successful career, remember the hardships his wife has endured with you. Don’t dislike her old age and despise her. She has dedicated her great years to you. Why do you enjoy her youth but dislike her when she gets older? It is not easy for a husband and wife to work together for half a lifetime. It is precisely because of this that we should cherish this fate and work together to make a good story in the eyes of friends and relatives.

At the same time, remember that making money is not easy and thrifty. It is easy to go from frugality to extravagance to frugality. When people get older, there are many places to spend money. Don’t live in a high profile and show off your wealth. Only by being low-key and doing things can you go long-term. What do you think?