I don't know what the specific situation of divorce in big cities is like. Anyway, we have rural society as the main body, and based on my experience as a lawyer for seven or eight years, more than 90% of those who come to consult and entrust lawyers to sue for divorce are women.

I don’t know what the specific situation of divorce in big cities is like. Anyway, we have rural society as the main body, and based on my experience as a lawyer for seven or eight years, more than 90% of those who come to consult and entrust lawyers to sue for divorce are women.

Since most of these divorces were prosecuted by the woman, some people believe that it was the increase in temptations in the new era of society, which led to the change of hearts of women. In fact, this is not the case, because they do not understand the real reason behind the divorce.

There are two main reasons why modern society proactively sued divorce is basically the woman.

First of all, the most common reason is that the man’s machismo is too serious and his character is seriously bad.

Many men are lazy and have a low sense of responsibility in their families. They don’t care about their families and children. Even if they have some money, they should be satisfied with their own food, drink, and have fun first. These men are afraid of hardship and fatigue when working outside, and think that their wages are low, they cannot do big things, they are unwilling to do small things, or they are unwilling to be governed by the employer, and would rather stay at home and have idle meals. I even met a man who lived at home for a long time and even abandoned the land, so he lived on the money his wife sent to his children. Some men not only have the bad habits they have in front, but even like to prostitute and gamble outside, and even beat women when they go home. These men not only have bad character, but also disagree with the divorce. So, when faced with a man like this, there was no way for the women to entrust a lawyer to file for divorce!

More than 90% of the parties involved in entrusting lawyers are women because women are not as strong as men. Men usually don’t have to sue when they want to divorce, because many bad men - bad men with rough temperament and weak legal awareness, who are not very cultured, are no longer loyal to their marriage, often go out to prostitution or gambling, eat, drink and have fun, and even beat women when they go home - domestic violence, women cannot stand these bad men, and generally agree to "peaceful" divorce with men - that is, to agree to divorce with the civil affairs department. So bad men don’t need to find a lawyer when they want to divorce.

However, women are different. They cannot control such initiative. On the contrary, they are controlled by men in the above ways.

Secondly, with the development of social, economic and cultural affairs, women not only gained economic independence, but also increased their feminist awareness, so they no longer fear divorce.

For the past, it was mainly for women in the last century - especially those in rural areas, divorce was basically impossible. Because at that time, people's survival was mainly farmers, and women's economic status was not independent. Although they might have contracted land in their parents' homes, "married girls, splashed rice soup". Due to the long-standing traditional dregs of thought and culture in rural China, they had to swallow their worries in the past even if they were full of their husbands' anger. At most, they would fight with their husbands for a while. If they really couldn't stand it, they would hang themselves, dive, etc. Because at that time, they seemed to be unable to find a place to go after they divorced, and their parents' home had become a home that they could not go back to, and they could not afford to be divorced - they were left alone. The original contracted land has been divided by my parents' brother and younger brother. So women in the past were particularly afraid of divorce. That's because the whole society has encircled them.

However, modern society and economy are developed, and various companies and factories and mining enterprises are everywhere. Women, especially rural women, can easily find jobs outside compared to the past - working in various factories and mining enterprises to survive, so their economic status is independent. They no longer need to rely on anyone. They can already say "no" to the men of machismo.

In the past, due to the bad custom of favoring boys over girls, girls usually read less books than boys since childhood, so women's overall culture was not as high as men.

In modern society, as the economic conditions are getting better and better, girls can read more books when they are at home. The cultural cultivation is much higher than in the past. In addition, the society is becoming more and more open, and the rule of law environment is becoming more and more fair and just, so the feminist consciousness is awakened.

Of course, it is not ruled out that after the economic development of social , as personnel exchanges increase, opportunities also increase, and some men or women have come into contact with objects that are more suitable for them outside and choose to leave their original partners.

So, don’t because the divorce cases accepted by the court are basically divorces that women prosecuted voluntarily as plaintiffs, they simply and roughly concluded that the woman had a new man outside first and became bad. On the contrary, this is the scumbag who forced a kind woman to Liangshan! Not all this, most of it is like this!

Author: Yang Jun, lawyer of Guizhou Zhongzheng Law Firm (No. 1, 15th Floor, Fangbin Jinzu Office Building, Kaixing Road, Qixingguan District, Bijie City, Guizhou Province)