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says "a man chases a woman across the mountains". For many men, chasing the woman they like is as difficult as building the 0,000-mile Great Wall .
But in fact, chasing women is not as difficult as many people think. The reason why some men's emotional journey is always frustrated is not because women only like handsome and rich men, but because they have done something wrong from the beginning.
If you want to chase a woman, the first thing you need to do is to understand her deepest emotional needs, and then formulate a way to pursue it.
Don’t stick to each other, and you can’t confess your love in a hasty way, otherwise you will only leave a reckless person in the heart of a woman.
accurately grasps a woman's psychology, and even if it is targeted, she may really take the initiative to pursue you.
You will find that there are many men around you who are very close to the opposite sex and they can easily catch up with the woman they like. Even if the two of them don’t go to the end, the other party will not speak ill of him.
After all, if a woman wants to pursue you in the opposite direction, you must do these things well.
First of all, the image must be passed, and no women like sloppy people;
Secondly, the morality must be passed, so that she feels that there is no hidden danger to be with you;
Finally, if you still have some talent, it will be even more added on the cake.
See how three men with good luck in love do what they do in their relationships. I hope you can learn some experience:
Xu Leqian, 26 years old, self-media author: I value the first impression of men, I prefer the refreshing and sunny type, which will add points.
To be honest, there are also differences in aesthetics between women. Men who my friends think are very handsome may not feel anything to me.
Because everyone’s aesthetic views are different, there is no standard handsome guy’s answer, but it depends more on feelings.
But women have a common standard for choosing a spouse, that is, they must look refreshing and refreshing, and their dressing is not exaggerated or overly dull. This is what women value more. Before
, my family introduced me to a male doctor. With the mentality of matching us, we let us have a meal together.
Although it has good conditions in all aspects and has a high education, it is indeed not the type I like.
His outfit is very ordinary, even worse than my dad, and he has long nails. This is the point I dislike the most, and I think it is too unhygienic.
So, although he showed kindness to me, I was really not interested at all, and ended up in vain.
I prefer men who pay attention to personal hygiene. They don’t have to put on makeup, but they clean themselves up and wear them cleanly. If you talk about
, it’s natural and simple. This is a point that hits me very much.
Most women also contain this item in their requirements for the opposite sex, which is a plus point for men.
Zhang Jingzhi, 27 years old, editor: Women nowadays are not in love brains. When choosing a partner, they will look at the other party's moral character. If the moral quality is not high, they will definitely not continue to develop.
In my opinion, morality is something more important than appearance. Appearance will pass by time, but the inner things will be renewed over time.
Personally, I attach great importance to men's filial piety. If I am not filial, I will never come into contact with it.
I think a person's filial piety is the background of morality. If you don't even have the most basic filial piety, then morality will be flawed.
I used to have a friend of the opposite sex and had a bad relationship with my family. I can actually understand the conflicts.
But what he showed in front of me was that he was a little extreme and even said some rebellious words, which I personally cannot accept.
I gradually became distant from him, and I didn’t want to listen to his negative energy, and I didn’t want to have too much contact with this person.
Deciding whether a person can be together for a long time is not only a character-friendly person, but also depends on the moral bottom line of that person.
In " Know ", Minglan said this:
To see a person, you have to see where his lowest point is, that is a woman's trust.
If a man’s moral bottom line is very high, he will never do anything that hurts you especially, and this is the standard for identifying a man.
Look at the inner things more and don’t focus on the house, car, or money, then you may not be able to live a happy life even after getting married.
Li Wenya, 26 years old, accountant: I like those who are a little more talented. When I stand there, I feel that he is different from others and his conversation is even more extraordinary.
I am a science subject. When I was studying, the boys around me were all straight men. They are of better brain function but not so good at speaking.
Maybe after staying in this environment for a long time, I wanted to find a man with a more polite and high emotional intelligence to better take care of my emotions.
More importantly, when he was speaking on stage, I felt that he was shining and would make me feel admiration. The new legal service in the company is the type I especially like. I can't help but feel shy when I see him.
In private, he has a particularly elegant personality, speaks softly and knows how to take care of other people's emotions.
And when he preached to us on stage, the feeling of being able to pick up the scriptures and citing classics made me very fascinated.
I think he is really talented and knows a lot of things. Unlike me, I have been smoothed out by my work and rarely read books.
Where he appeared, I was like a little fan, staring at him with a particularly admired look.
Even my friends said, I was crazy, but I really couldn't resist this type of man, and I would laugh happily when I thought of him. This kind of man should be the type that most women like.
Time Emotional Class:
If you want women to take the initiative to chase you, it must be because you have outstanding features.
If you dress properly, your whole person will look refreshing; or you are very skilled and have high moral qualities; or you are talented and talk about things, then it is not difficult for women to take the initiative to flirt with you.
After all, most women do not have too high requirements for men when choosing a spouse. They are nothing more than a man who lives seriously and has a down-to-earth and reliable character.
If you have these three traits, then I believe that the woman you like will notice you soon.
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