Introduction:
Since Liu Yujing got married, the work pressure has suddenly increased a lot. Before getting married, Liu Yujing was not motivated at work. Anyway, she earned enough money to spend by herself, but after getting married, this self-sufficiency life was broken. Liu Yujing was able to support her family alone. In order to make money, she spent the family, Liu Yujing became very hardworking and very hard at work.
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Liu Yujing's husband also works, but he never sees him get money from home every month. Liu Yujing has her own salary, and her husband doesn't give her money to her for household use. At the beginning, she couldn't ask about where her husband's salary went, so she had to pay her own money first.
Half a year after getting married, Liu Yujing found that her husband still had no plans to get his salary at home, so she asked him, "Why did you see you go to work, but you didn't see you pay your salary?" The husband said, "Before getting married, he borrowed some money from his friend, and now he is taking his own salary and owing his friends money." At that time, Liu Yujing heard her husband say this, thinking that in less than one or two years, her husband would pay back his friend's money and take his salary home.
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But one or two years later, my husband's salary card was still not taken home. Liu Yujing asked where the salary was. Her husband said, "Now, he can't make money by relying on stable work. He wants to do business, so he wants to save his salary as capital." Liu Yujing thought for a while and she should support her husband in her career, so she did not ask about salary more. Instead, she was determined to see when her husband started doing business.
, but I waited and waited. I have been married for 6 years. She has not seen her husband's salary at all. Moreover, her husband has never done business and is still in her original position. In the past 7 years, Liu Yujing felt that her marriage was not as good as AA marriage. Although AA marriage is very realistic, the man at least still has money. Her marriage is like an widowed marriage . Her husband rarely contributes to this family and does not pay at all.
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Liu Yujing had a fight with her husband and told her how difficult it was in this marriage. However, her husband never gave any responses as if he had never heard of it. He couldn't even quarrel, because the other party didn't take her words seriously at all. He asked where her salary went countless times, but in the end there was no further information. After other women get married, their husbands bear most of the expenses in their lives and live relatively easy. Why do they feel so tired after getting married? It’s like marrying a “dumb” husband. They don’t pay enough money and can’t rely on their efforts. Such a marriage once made Liu Yujing feel very tired.
Others get married because they own a home, and they get married because they own a burden. Liu Yujing decided to check where her husband's salary was spent. She used his fingerprint to unlock the phone while her husband was asleep. She thought her husband was spending money on other girls, but she found that the person she contacted most frequently on her husband's phone was her mother-in-law. Her husband transferred his salary to his mother-in-law every month. After reading it, Liu Yujing felt a chill. She never thought that her husband, who is almost 40 years old, is still under the salary card of her mother-in-law.
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Liu Yujing asked her husband again where his salary went. Her husband refused to say it, and Liu Yujing had to tell the truth: "I actually already know that you hand over your salary to your mother-in-law every month. Maybe you handed over your salary to your mother-in-law before marriage, but you are now married, and your salary should be handed over to your wife. After marriage, you can't continue to be a mother-in-law and go to find your mother-in-law to get your salary back." Her husband refused to go, no matter what Liu Yujing said, her husband refused to go, and Liu Yujing had no choice but to go to find her mother-in-law in person.
result disappointed Liu Yujing. It would be fine if her husband didn't act and pretended to be mute. Her mother-in-law said with confidence: "I raised my son. Who would I give him if he didn't give his salary card? Even if he didn't pay the salary card, wouldn't you come alone in the past few years?" Liu Yujing cried and said: "Others' marriage is shared by the couple, and I will bear everything I get married. Do you think such a marriage is very happy? Since your son is already married, then he has the responsibility to contribute money and work for the family, and you have to return his salary to him.”
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The mother-in-law said lightly: "I used my son's salary to buy a new house for myself. I raised him so big, and I am qualified to spend his money. If you don't have the ability to spend his money, you blame yourself, don't come to me. "Liu Yujing couldn't imagine that her mother-in-law was so unreasonable and so arrogant. Her husband is completely indifferent to all this, which makes Liu Yujing feel that this marriage is really ridiculous.
Over the years, Liu Yujing has always chosen not to pay her husband's salary card for the sake of her children, but the hard work of supporting her family alone has become more and more bitter over the long years. She hopes that her husband can take on the responsibility of this family, but her husband is like an outsider in this family, unable to see her hard work and indifferent to her confession. So she has suffered from marriage over the years She insisted on it, but there was no meaning at all. She finally stopped hesitating and filed for divorce decisively.
Conclusion:
It is a helpless thing to marry a mother-in-law. Her husband seems to be a child forever. After years of marriage, even the salary card has to be kept by her mother-in-law. No matter which woman has been in trouble, she cannot face such a marriage. Choosing divorce is the right way out for herself.
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