A year ago, 26-year-old Xiao Cheng met his wife Xiao Zhou. Xiao Zhou looks handsome and has a good family background. Xiao Zhou is young and beautiful, working as a cashier in a supermarket. The two fell in love at first sight and began to fall in love.
April's Day on April 1st, the two received their marriage certificates, and Xiao Cheng's family gave Xiao Zhou a bride gift of 66,000 yuan. After that, the two held a grand wedding. The neighbors praised the Cheng family for marrying a beautiful wife.
However, what the Cheng family did not expect was that after 7 days of marriage, Xiao Zhou said to Xiao Cheng: I want to go home to visit my mother. Xiao Zhou agreed to his wife's request, but he didn't expect that his wife would never return. Although Xiao Zhou's family went to invite his wife home many times, his wife was unwilling to come back. In desperation, Xiao Cheng asked the reporter for help.
Xiao Cheng said that his wife returned to her parents' home after 7 days of marriage. Half a year passed in a flash, and his wife refused to go home. And there was no conflict between him and his wife, and he didn't understand why his wife did this.
Xiao Cheng asked the reporter to read the chat records between him and his wife, and the two did not have unpleasant chat records.
Xiao Cheng's mother said that her daughter-in-law happily returned to her parents' home at that time and there was no unpleasant thing happening to her family.
Xiao Cheng's mother said that her son, daughter and husband and wife both went to the in-laws to invite their daughter-in-law back, but the daughter-in-law just didn't come back and did not give any reason. If you do something wrong, you can go and apologize to your daughter-in-law. If there is a conflict between the son and his daughter-in-law, you can take your son to apologize.
and the wedding is also held according to the requirements of the daughter-in-law. Wedding photos also cost more than 6,000 yuan. The daughter-in-law asked for a decent wedding, so her son invited a celebrity singer to hold a grand wedding. Speaking of this, Xiao Cheng's mother couldn't help crying. Unexpectedly, my family treated my daughter-in-law wholeheartedly, but was treated coldly by her daughter-in-law.
Xiao Cheng's mother
Xiao Cheng's mother said that if the family was harsh on their daughter-in-law, she would accept it if the daughter-in-law left. But the whole family is very nice to my daughter-in-law and there is no place to be sorry for her. It is really puzzling to do this.
Xiao Cheng said: If I do something wrong, I can correct it, as long as my wife can come back. But the wife didn't say what she did wrong. If your wife wants to live with her, live a good life. If you don’t want to live, you should also give yourself an explanation.
Xiaocheng
Xiaocheng brought the reporter to his mother-in-law's house. Xiao Cheng knocked on the door and called out to mom a few times, but no one responded inside.
Xiao Cheng called his mother-in-law several times, but no one answered. Xiao Cheng said that as long as he made a phone call, his mother-in-law would not answer the answer.
The reporter discovered that Xiao Cheng’s mother-in-law had installed a camera at the door of her house. Xiao Cheng said that this camera was specially installed by his mother-in-law. Every time I go to my mother-in-law's house and knock on the door, my mother-in-law will immediately stop talking.
surveillance
The reporter tried to communicate with Xiao Cheng's mother-in-law in front of the camera, so that she could express her grievances. But no matter how the reporter communicated, there was no sound in the door. My mother-in-law shouldn't be at home.
Xiao Cheng suddenly remembered that his mother-in-law opened a hair salon in a nearby market. So he took the reporter to find his mother-in-law. But the door of the hair salon was closed.
Neighbors around said that Xiao Cheng’s mother-in-law had something to do and the hair salon had not opened for several days.
Xiao Cheng thought that his mother-in-law was deliberately avoiding him. He was very angry and thought that his wife and he were married to him were a scam. He brought the reporter home. There are also wedding photos of the two on the wall, and the couple in the photo are in full joy. Xiao Cheng took the wedding photo from the wall and threw it on the ground in anger.
Xiao Cheng said that since his wife returned to her parents' home, she is very angry every time she sees wedding photos. The person left after getting the bride price.
Xiao Cheng and Xiao Zhou’s wedding photo
Xiao Cheng’s mother said that she gave the money to her daughter-in-law, but her daughter-in-law ran back to her parents’ home. She had no intention of living a good life with her son from the beginning, just to cheat the betrothal money. Now that people and money are gone, we have to pay off foreign debts.
Xiao Cheng said that he spent more than 200,000 yuan to get married, and gave his wife a total of more than 90,000 yuan, including the dowry gift. He also invited celebrities to the wedding, which was very grand.
Xiao Cheng pointed to a suitcase and said that when he got married, his wife's family got married, with a box containing several clothes. There is also a table and four stools. When my daughter got married, my mother-in-law didn't even give her a dowry to her daughter.
Xiao Cheng said that his wife works as a cashier in a supermarket in the city. In order to better understand the truth of the matter, Xiao Cheng took the reporter to the supermarket where his wife works. The reporter explained the situation to the supermarket manager and brought Xiao Zhou out.
Xiao Zhou said that she originally wanted to live a good life with Xiao Cheng, but her husband and family were indifferent to her. Since she returned to her parents' home, her husband has often made noises at her workplace. She works in the supermarket, and when she gets home from get off work it is already 10:30 in the evening, and no one cares about her when she gets home. Later, her mother asked her to live back to her parents' home.
When she first got married, her husband asked her for 11,000 yuan, but she didn't give it to him, and the two started to have a quarrel. Later, her husband asked her for an ID card on the grounds of starting a business and sending express delivery. She didn't give it to her, so her husband started scolding her and told her to get out. She went back to her parents' home. Her husband said she had not integrated herself into the family.
Xiao Zhou
Later, Xiao Cheng went to his mother-in-law's hair salon to find Xiao Zhou, and Xiao Zhou proposed to calm down. Unexpectedly, Xiao Cheng was very angry and said:
Have you ever thought about it or not? If you think about it, go home with me. If you don’t think about it, just talk about divorce. How much does it cost to get married? I will make a list and just give it to me.
Xiao Zhou said that she was very angry after hearing what her husband said. In order to be angry with her husband, she lived at her parents' home and refused to go back.
Xiao Cheng said that these are excuses made by his wife. This marriage was originally a scam designed by his wife.
Xiao Zhou said that if he was cheating, he would never cheat near his home. Both families are in the same town. I will never let him know where he works. I originally wanted to live a good life sincerely.
Xiao Cheng said that 's marriage is a digging pit, waiting for himself to jump into it. He and his wife were married for 7 days, but his wife told him that he was pregnant and treated himself as a backup! My marriage is a joke! The wife also said that the child was not saved and she would not let her and her mother go there during the abortion, but just let her get the money.
Xiaocheng
Xiao Zhou cried after hearing her husband's words. She explained: It was a happy event to get pregnant, but her husband's family was not happy. I was busy at work, but I didn’t expect to see it. I went to the hospital to check if I had fetal heart rate . The mother asked the doctor to get a pregnancy injection at home, but her husband ignored her. She asked her husband for money, but her husband said: If you don’t have money, spend your bride price first. Later, the fetus was not preserved and the surgery was performed.
The two had no major conflict at all. If her husband apologized to her, he might have followed him home.
Xiao Cheng was very angry when he heard his wife's words. He said that when he was marriage examination, his wife was unwilling to have a marriage examination, so she got pregnant a few days after getting married, and then returned to her parents' home. All these things are a pitfall.
Xiao Cheng took out the premarital physical examination form for the two. All the items on his table have been checked, but his wife's is blank.
Xiao Cheng said that the two did not open the door when they went there that day. On the second, third and fourth days, he asked his wife to go to the marriage examination for three consecutive days, but his wife was unwilling to go there.
Xiao Zhou explained that he was busy at work and couldn't take time to go for a marriage examination.
reporter said that there is no big conflict between the two, and it would be a pity to divorce. She suggested that Xiao Cheng give his wife a soft conscience and make her happy, and maybe the two of them will make up again.
Xiao Cheng said that I have invited her home many times, which is already humble enough.
The mediator persuaded the two to apologize to each other, admit their mistakes, think from the perspective of others, give each other a chance to make a good relationship.
Xiao Zhou said that if the parents were not involved, as long as Xiao Cheng admits her mistake, she will follow him back. However, Xiao Cheng had already threatened his mother and it was impossible to make peace with him.
Xiao Zhou opened the surveillance video at home. The video showed that Xiao Cheng had gone to his house several times to make trouble, kicked the door with his foot, recorded videos with his mobile phone, and called her a fraudster at the door. He also threatened to post the poster so that the people of the city could know that she was a fraudster and a cheater, so that they could not stay locally. So much so that my parents didn't dare to live at home and even installed cameras at the door. Xiao Cheng's behavior has hurt her and her parents and also affected their normal lives.
Xiao Cheng said that it was just his angry words and he did not print posters. Because she went to find her wife, her wife was unwilling to communicate with him and said she wanted to sue her.
reporter criticized Xiao Cheng's excessive behavior. Xiao Cheng admitted that he did something wrong.
However, Xiao Zhou insisted that he could not continue living with Xiao Cheng.
Xiao Cheng said that if Xiao Zhou wants to refund part of his money, it is impossible for him to lose both his own people and money!
Xiao Zhou said that everything goes through legal procedures . The court ordered her to withdraw as much as she wanted, and she could not give her as much as she wanted.
reporter consulted a lawyer, and the lawyer said that the return of the bride price should be combined with the following three situations:
(1) Both parties have not completed the marriage registration procedures;
(2) Both parties have completed the marriage registration procedures but have not lived together;
(3) Payment before marriage and causes difficulties in life for the payee. If the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph are subject to the divorce of both parties.
Since Xiao Zhou and Xiao Cheng have completed the marriage procedures and have lived together, they do not meet the conditions for returning the bride gift. Due to the short life of both parties, the court may order the woman to return part of the dowry.
Finally, Xiao Cheng decided to go through legal procedures to protect his legitimate rights and interests.
Xiao Zhou and her husband ran back to their parents' home after 7 days of marriage, and they were gone forever, greatly hurting the relationship between her husband and family. It is not easy for others to spend more than 200,000 yuan to get a wife. When they got married, they also invited celebrities to give the woman a bride gift, which shows that the man's family attaches enough importance to his daughter-in-law.
Xiao Zhou didn't communicate with her husband about anything, and even got involved with her mother, which led to the conflict between the two sides getting deeper and deeper, and finally reached an irreversible point!
Xiao Zhou got pregnant just a few days after getting married, which is contrary to common sense. It is inevitable that her husband will suspect that her purpose is impure.
Xiao Cheng's approach is not appropriate, so he is not calm when encountering problems. When his wife did not communicate with him, he took extreme actions, stomped the door and made noise at his mother-in-law's house, threatened his wife and mother-in-law, and made noise at his wife's workplace, which would only make things worse and worse.
Couples should communicate more and communicate more. Escape and solve any problems, and will only intensify conflicts.
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