at the beginning:
Zhang Ailing once described a story in a novel.
A girl, only fifteen or sixteen years old. On spring nights, she would stand at the door, holding a peach tree, a crescent-colored shirt, reflecting the moonlight. The young man opposite came over, stood still, and said to her: Oh, are you here too?
More than a few years later, the girl was abducted by human traffickers and was resold several times. Until one day, the girl became old. In her heart, she still remembered the words that the young man said to her softly: Oh, are you here too?
There is no passionate love, no intimacy, and no marriage. It’s just that after swimming in her heart, the woman never let go and misses her all her life.
In life, there is always some close love, but it is just a small thing that I have experienced in a long life. There is no vow or a certain life, but some people will remember it for the rest of their lives.
Love, this thing is somewhat "spiritual". The emotions that always have inadvertent events seem to happen inadvertently, but in fact, they make people accompany each other forever and fall for life.
Just like, Li Bai once wrote:
"Enter my lovesickness door, I know that my lovesickness is bitter. I miss you forever, and I remember you forever, and my short lovesickness is endless. If I had known this, how could I not know you were like before."
A free and easy poet who smiles so proudly in his life, drinks three hundred cups in one drink, shouts that the road to Shu is difficult than that of the blue sky, will also be exiled to the immortal in love, and the autumn wind blows overnight, and thousands of melancholy.
can be seen. There are many stories about the emotions in this world. They do not happen between men and women in marriage, but they are also full of deep affection, which makes people unforgettable for a lifetime.
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Strong love is the "unforgettable" that you can't forget in this life
Life is a past, no one can stop, and in a hurry, the past walking hand in hand may become a strange road now.
I still remember watching a movie.
In the war era, the heroine was liked by two boys.
It’s a pity that the war is ruthless and the home is in danger. The girl and one of the boys are forced to separate. The man went to the battlefield, and the woman waited day and night, but not long after, the news came that the man unfortunately died of illness.
Two years later, she married another boy. They lived a dull life and rarely quarreled.
More than a year later, a peaceful era came. On the vast streets of people, she met him again. In addition to being surprised, she also sighed in her heart that now she can only watch each other from afar.
After all, at this time, there was another person around both of them.
Perhaps, love has missed many passing years by their side, and there is no reason to embrace each other.
The former lover can only pretend to be a passerby now.
The woman said to her friend: If I could have waited for , wouldn’t I have missed it?
Friend comforted: Then you may be losing your current husband, are you willing?
The woman smiled and shook her head.
Perhaps, this love has become as thin as paper at the moment, but when they were together in the past, the smiles bloomed on their faces, the scene of two people holding hands and walking under the tree is still in the screens one by one, allowing people to see the beauty of their once in love.
Maybe, at the moment, they can only pay attention silently and cannot disturb each other's life, but love has happened and they are already satisfied.
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The "regret" that I can't get is the "obsession" I have been thinking about for the rest of my life
There are always some people who, once they fall in love, will be immersed in their own world and cannot extricate themselves.
only because, if you can't get it, he will think it is the best, he will think about it for the rest of his life, and it will become his lifelong obsession. But it is very likely that this love is just a brief intersection between two people.
is like, when we meet under the moon, after staring at each other, one side takes a horse away, while the other side is persistently waiting.
I have read a novel.
A poor girl fell in love with a rich young master.
Two people are so inseparable from each other. The man was cheated of all his money and was tied up by his father. When the man left, he swore to the woman: he would marry her in this life.
Who knew that when the man left, there was no news. He married and took concubines in another city, gave birth to a bunch of children, and his father lied to him. The woman was dead, and the man had never asked about the woman.
However, the woman was pregnant in another city without marriage. After giving birth to a child, she was forced to start a romantic business because she had no income and was despised throughout her life.
In order to wait for the men, she struggled to guard the house they lived with, shed tears in the city, and spent the rest of her life in her unremitting struggle.
tragedy is not worthy of praise at all.
In the relationship, how many people, when they first met, were likely to be the "end".
Many people are afraid of parting because one turn will last for a lifetime. Therefore, the more intense love a lover has, the more worried that one day he will sing that sentence: When love has become a thing of the past.
How many couples, when they break up, they don’t pester and cry and nostalgia, but after the breakup, every day, they fight against their inner thoughts in their hearts: Don’t look back.
But life is short, if you can’t get regrets, let it go with the wind.
No matter how deeply this love is in your heart, you must learn to heal yourself, turn it into a scenery, and turn it into a thank you: Thank you for the arrival of that person, which will teach you to say goodbye to the past at any time.
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The silence after betrayal is the "open-minded"
It is said that if there is betrayal in love, there must be no love.
However, the silence after the betrayal is actually full of deep affection.
We always see some books. Some people will describe past love in a long way, and they want to make the past happen, earn gimmicks, and describe themselves as a good person with deep affection and friendship. Another protagonist in the story is directly pushed to the forefront.
fell in love, no respect, only selling points to show off. This kind of love is mostly a topic of conversation for him, a joke in others' mouths, without any true feelings.
all say that after parting ways, one's character and true feelings are best seen.
is indeed the case.
met a couple. When they were studying, the two of them kept going out. After graduation, they met their parents, but later they broke up after work.
Everyone imagined countless versions of the reason for the breakup. Some people even asked the boy directly, but the boy only replied: She is a good woman.
The emotional matters are complicated, but a man's words can tell that they have really loved him and can also feel his open-mindedness in his heart.
In love, no one has let down anyone, only who is reluctant to leave anyone.
Only passers-by will eat carrots and worry about asking for gossip. Like a screenwriter, it is interpreted into each episode .
Damnation and destiny, many feelings are a gathering and a separation. There will always be one party who wants to leave, and the other party struggles to get involved, but the ending will still be unable to leave and have a good time, and everyone will have their destiny.
But, every person you have loved will teach you how to love someone.
Silence is a kind of demeanor, an explanation to myself, and it is also a proof that I once loved deeply and did not waste my time.
Conclusion:
The road of life, if you can meet each other in one go, you will support each other from now on, and there are too few people who enter marriage.
Most people are searching for their own "couple match".
How many people have loved each other strongly and suffered for half their lives; how many people have been missing for half their lives because of a short intersection; how many people have wandered around in the whirlpool after betrayal, unwilling to leave...
But, love is beautiful, and even if you never see each other again, it is an experience.
Immortal couples are just links in the novel. In this world, only ordinary people who can live in the firewood, rice, oil, salt, and fireworks every day.
So, say goodbye to the past and cherish the people by your pillow.
Perhaps, that person will still be settled in a corner of your heart and will not want to leave. Then, don’t worry about it and seal it.
The big waves wash away the sand. One day, you will let go indifferently, calmly pick up the tea in your hand, and give everything in the past a joke.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
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