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at the beginning:
It is said that time is a killer, and no woman can escape.
However, the face will grow old, and the charm and confidence of a woman will settle down as time passes.
Many people will say that men love 28 girls the most. No matter what age they reach, they will only stay in their obsession with appearance.
However, those men and women who really have intimate relationships are never intoxicated by the attraction on their skin, but the more they get along with each other, the more they can become "one person".
is like, a simple word, a small action, an expression that is not easy to detect... Many outsiders cannot guess what it means, but they can easily capture each other's hints, and it is easy to understand the reminders given to each other.
This is because the emergence of love itself starts from all the details of daily life. The more the two people can merge, the more they can produce emotions that are "inseparable and unbreakable".
Under the seemingly careless appearance of a man, he also hides a delicate heart.
In life, you will find that some men do not think that this woman is their ideal partner at first, but when they come into contact, they will be attracted by the details revealed by the woman inadvertently and defeated by her beauty.
As the saying goes, loneliness does not mean that there are no companions, but that there is no one who meets the same frequency.
However, if a man wants to develop an intimate relationship with a woman, it is mostly her details that make him feel that they can "same frequency" between them, which makes him think that missing this woman is a regret in this life.
Especially, as long as you have one of the following three details, he will be very moved.
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is attractive, can enter each other's hearts
We live in an open society, and if we can enjoy the beautiful side, we will naturally have the cruel side.
Therefore, what everyone lacks the most in life is exclusion, comparison, prejudice, and indifference in human feelings, which makes many people wrapped in iron armor and silent in the surging crowd.
And the warmest thing about men and women is that they establish an intimate relationship, allowing two people to rely on each other in their souls.
People with spiritual connections are together, and they live like dark clouds outside the house and heavy rainstorms. When they push open the door of their hearts, they feel the warmth of the fire and their smiles are pleasant.
The love is born, and when you turn around, you find that is in the dim lights of . It turns out that person is always giving you a charming smile.
can attract the love of men, and that's it.
" Wind blowing in Banxia ", Xu Banxia and Zhao Lei were not all the same people when they first met.
Zhao Lei is middle-aged and has seen countless girls. He is surrounded by people and has very high requirements for choosing a spouse. Xu Banxia was born in a broken family, but fortunately, she is cheerful and generous, and has a smooth and thoughtful manner.
Their love is very simple. With a few eye contacts and several conversations, the two of them walked into each other's heart.
However, although there are few emotional scenes, it can make the audience feel that their souls are dependent on each other outside of their skin. Listening to their chats and conversations, whether it is ordinary chat or business, it can make people feel that the two have a tacit understanding and aligned with each other.
Perhaps, this "heart-minded" is the "little confidence" that this man has spent half his life and the "little luck" of a woman.
all say that an invincible person can enjoy loneliness, because the higher a person is, the more he will be "cold".
And the arrival of Pinxia is to lit a lamp for this lonely man's life, illuminating the coldness deep in his heart.
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can interact, be quiet and warm when together
years are mottled, as long as people are alive, there will be more "unfavorable" from others. You must have some psychological tolerance to slander, deaf ears, and disdain to respond to some abuse.
However, in an intimate relationship, two people must get along day and night. In this way, they can make a family feel a warm atmosphere and make their lives quiet and peaceful.
There is a friend around him who once had a girlfriend. The girl is very nice and cute, but she needs to act coquettishly anytime and anywhere.
Every time a woman can't contact him, she will make dozens of calls and send messages constantly. When she encounters trouble at work, she immediately needs a man to help her solve it. She herself waits in front of the computer for the man to send her the prepared documents, even if he was busy at the time and didn't care about her at all.
My friend loves traveling very much. Whenever he goes to the wild mountaineering, the girl is afraid of being tired but wants to go with her. So she complains all the way, saying that eating is not delicious, drinking water is not good for wind and sand. The man always coaxes her patiently, but the more she coaxes, the bigger the woman is next time.
In the end, the two had to break up.
all say cheap "good", such as confessing more and saying more sweet words, which can best touch women's hearts, but these often occur in the stage of each other's passionate love.
Man starts a family, and he considers that is much more complicated than women. It is not simply a chat, but can represent everything. What he wants most is that two people can get along.
After all, life is not about talking about love, but about living together, and having to survive the storms of life together.
So, he will like the "princess flavor" of women and enjoy the "spicy" of women, but what he wants more is a woman who will not always ask for emotional value from him and will not always need him to "feed back".
If a woman can’t even take good care of herself, then most of the time, she keeps asking for it, which will only end sooner or later.
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Kind heart, tolerant, and feel each other's "sincerity"
Best friend once talked about her experience.
When she was studying, the dormitory was very simple. There was a girl who always secretly used her shampoo, cosmetics, etc. on her back. She reminded her many times, but the girl still did not care at all and continued.
Later, she spread the word and said that the girl apologized on the spot and promised not to do it again in the future. Her best friend chose to forgive her. She also heard that she was pursuing a boy and gave her an powder kindly and told her: This matter will be kept confidential for her.
Unexpectedly, my best friend kept her promise, but the girl was vain and turned her back, saying that her best friend spread rumors everywhere. My best friend said: The evil of human nature, I felt the coldness of my back at that moment.
Later, after the truth was revealed, the girl and her male god also completely stopped.
It can be seen that character is the guarantee of a person's success and the confidence for a person to succeed in love. What a woman will live in the future is really not the fault of time, but whether she is kind inside plays an important role.
" Dream of Red Mansions " Cao Xueqin borrows Baoyu's words to describe a woman's unmarried, married, and old age. For example, the girl in the boudoir is a priceless bead, refreshing and transparent; a married young woman is deeply involved in trivial matters and no longer the color of a bead; and when a woman gets old, she becomes not a bead, but a fish eye.
Perhaps, this is what most men say about women in their hearts, although they are reluctant to admit it.
years old, and after all, the beauty is old, and the face will always be aging, wrinkles will grow, but the most sad thing is a woman who has become increasingly narrow, resentful and vulgar.
What men fear most is that women will become like this.
What can really make two people have intimate relationships is that they both exude "goodness" in their hearts, so they feel like they want to rely on each other. After all, no one wants to lie beside them who is always calculating themselves.
Before men and women, if they are less incest, less introverted, and less emotional considerations, it is difficult for them to love to get intimate.
In life, we always hear women complain: You are so poor, I still give birth to a child for you; you are really useless, look at other people's husband; I am really blind, how could I fall in love with you at the beginning... But, you must understand that the child is not only his, but also yours; life is shared by two people; this man is also what you chose for yourself at the beginning.
Therefore, kindness and tolerance are the foundation of being together in the relationship between the two genders.
Many women defeat her not the warmth of time, but day after day, becoming mean and vanity.
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Conclusion:
Life is short, and many men and women, perhaps at the beginning, were the love between Baoyu and Daiyu .
But at the end, it becomes in the so-called "human grace practice", which criticizes each other, abuses each other, and dislikes each other's hostility and rejection.
In a relationship, if there is a difference between each other, it is something that will definitely happen. The key point is that both of you can respect each other and understand each other, and show your inner sincerity and kindness, enter each other's life, and go deep into each other's soul.
It is very simple to have a relationship between men and women, and it is not that easy to have an intimate relationship.
Therefore, only when you are attracted can you understand your heart; only when you get along can you love it comfortably; only when you are tolerant and kind inside can you feel safe.
The love of a pair gives people the feeling of being determined and happy.
Finally, I hope every couple of lovers can meet the right person, know each other, cherish each other, and love each other for a lifetime.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
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