Netizens leave a message: I met my boyfriend at work, and my boyfriend is my colleague. I worked two years ago and was just two years older than me.
When I first graduated, I was really confused. My boyfriend extended a helping hand to me, and then the two of them were together naturally.
Because they are more traditional, the two did not act too intimately before marriage, which naturally led to the lack of deep enough understanding.
The third point of love, the two got married, and their father-in-law died early, and it was not easy for her mother-in-law to be alone. She originally wanted to manage a good relationship with her mother-in-law, but she didn't expect that her mother-in-law always targeted her.
Netizens wrote about 2,000 words in a row. Many people probably didn’t write so many words in writing essays. Most of them just gave some examples, how to treat their mother-in-law well. Not only did they not appreciate it, but they often made trouble for themselves.
Under normal circumstances, when everyone encounters this situation, they will definitely shout loudly to call this mother-in-law not good, thirty years from Hedong to Hexi, what should I do when she gets old in the future?
Indeed, the daughter-in-law took the initiative to show kindness, but the mother-in-law not only did not appreciate it, but instead made various troubles to her daughter-in-law. It really felt a bit ungrateful.
But why did my mother-in-law do this? Is it really nothing to do? I have to spend a good life, but I have to go to trouble for my daughter-in-law.
In fact, the answer has been told by this netizen long ago. My father-in-law died early, and my mother-in-law pulled her son to grow up alone, treating her son as her personal belonging.
When the son gets married and starts a new family, the son's focus must have shifted to his own small family, and the mother-in-law feels that she has been neglected.
She felt that her son was taken away by her daughter-in-law, so she disliked her daughter-in-law and went everywhere to trouble her daughter-in-law. This situation is very common in some single-parent families. There was a classic case before
. A mother also raised her eldest son alone, but after his son got married, he felt unbalanced.
In fact, when we were in love, we met each other later. Later, the mother-in-law agreed to marry her son and daughter-in-law by living with them after marriage.
s0s son and daughter-in-law thought their mother-in-law had figured it out, but they didn't know that this was the beginning of the disaster. The mother-in-law began to cause trouble for her daughter-in-law in various ways, and later it became more and more serious.
In the end, in order to protect his son, he even bought a murderer and killed his daughter-in-law. He personally led the way for the murderer and identified his daughter-in-law who had just left the house.
As a result, the murderer ran away because he was afraid of making a mistake. As a result, the mother-in-law saw that her daughter-in-law had not yet died, so she went up to make up for it a few more times, and finally continued to live with a calm look on her face.
Many people cannot understand why a mother-in-law has such a big hatred for her daughter-in-law? Moreover, the daughter-in-law also took the initiative to show goodwill to her mother-in-law.
is actually very simple. This mother-in-law regards her son as her personal belonging. As long as someone closes to her son, she feels that someone else has snatched her son.
And this idea is difficult to change because the prejudice in people's hearts is an insurmountable mountain.
is like many people who meet for the first time. If they have some bad impression of a person, unless something else happens later, this impression will be difficult to change.
is the same in the family. If one person has a prejudice against another person, if something big happens and suddenly changes the other person's ideas, this prejudice will probably be retained for the rest of his life.
Sometimes, don’t overly please those who have prejudices against us. You can try to change first. If you can’t change, live your own life.
Just like the netizen above, since the mother-in-law has such a big prejudice, she should just live with her mother-in-law to avoid greater conflicts between the two parties.
Be sure to explain the seriousness of the matter to your husband. It is best to let the husband mediate it, and you can also see how his husband is about this matter.
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