In this materialistic and luxurious society, love is like picking up shells on the beach, picking up one by one and throwing away one by one. When you meet a more beautiful one, throw away the one you have played with for a long time.
The kind of long-lasting love that is unquestionable seems to be gone forever and has long become a past tense.
Modern fast-paced life makes love more impetuous, and people begin to pursue fast-paced and stimulating.
Therefore, the relationship is not very pure now, and breaking and reunion, separation and separation have become the norm.
I can’t wait to get married when I meet someone who is in love, but after marriage, I can’t stand the trivialities in life. The trivial matters are enough to ruin a marriage.
Everyone says that the wife at home is a bad wife, and the woman outside is charming and fascinating.
So there will be many men who cannot control their desires and cannot be loyal in love and marriage.
When the temptation around you appears, you can't control yourself, ignore your wife, turn around and be in love with other women, and be in love with you.
may just be unable to withstand loneliness, or it may be caused by desire, but "human hearts are complicated", and lovers are just a reason to pursue excitement and satisfy their own desires.
A lover can bring you the happiness you want, but she is just a shameful lover after all, not your open wife. You must understand that there is a difference between a wife and a lover.
1. Wife is sincerely caring for you, but lover is a play-and-scenes act
Wife is your partner recognized by law and is the person who wants to spend the rest of your life with you. From the moment she married you, he was tied to you, a grasshopper on a rope.
What she cares about is you. He will worry about your warmth and coldness, prepare three meals a day for you, will be your strong backing, and will be the person you silently accompany you when you are unsuccessful and down-and-out, and will not be arrogant and domineering when you are rich.
The person who cares about whether you go home or not is her, and she is also the person who takes care of you when you are sick. She also has to give birth to children for you, endure the pain of ten months of pregnancy and the pain of giving birth once.
It can be said that from the beginning of marriage, she keeps all your trivial matters and everything about you in her heart and thinks about you. Her life was bound to this home and surrounded you.
But what about lovers, she may appear when you first fell in love, and gave you warmth and care when you first entered the love scene, but she is just a passerby in your life.
When a lover is with you, her mind is erratic. As long as she is like her, she can leave you at any time.
Even if you care about you, it is just because you are useful to her. Once she finds a better man, you will be abandoned without hesitation.
So, after getting married, you must understand that a lover is just a relationship, just a person who vents your desires and seeks passion, just a show. And your wife is the one who truly cares about you and loves you, the one who wants to spend the rest of her life with.
2. Wife takes care of the family and keeps the money, and lovers will only squander your money
Many couples pay special attention to the other party’s material contribution to themselves when they are together. Especially most women often use money to measure the degree to which a man loves her.
For example, if you don’t give a birthday gift and forget to prepare a Valentine’s Day gift, the woman will feel that you don’t love her at all, but just hanging her, and will start making trouble and break up with you.
Gifts can indeed increase emotions, and material things can also make people feel particularly satisfied and happy. However, material things are not the only criterion for measuring love.
When you get married, you will find that your wife will not just squander the money you have earned. Every penny she uses is spent on you and in this family.
After having a child, she would not even buy clothes for herself, and the money was spent on the child and the entire family.
Moreover, she will try every means to save the money you earn for you to use later, and she will never spend it randomly.
But lovers are different. What she focuses on is material things. If you don’t spend money on her, she will look for another “financial owner”.
lover, she just needs a tool to pay, commonly known as "ATM".
When you have no value in use, or she meets a richer boss, you will definitely be abandoned and abandoned like a walk.
33. Wife is a long-term companion, and lover is just a temporary desire and passion
Lovers can be said to be just a passerby on your life path, and some communication has emerged because of temporary passion.
Lovers are just a temporary freshness and stimulation of men. Over time, the passion will dissipate and the freshness will pass. For lovers who have no new feelings, their feelings gradually disappear.
So, lover Zhu just stayed with you during that period of time. When the passion passed, this relationship would be gone.
But the wife is different. The wife knows each other and falls in love and then gets married. We came together after all setbacks, and you have given each other sincerity.
Wife is the person who wants to live together with you and spend your whole life together, and is a long-lasting company. So, cherish your wife, she will be your companion for the rest of your life.
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