When people reach a certain age, you will find that what you need is no longer a passionate love, but a person who will not leave you. Deep affection is not as good as a companion, and love is not as much as you like.
Because there are really too many things in life that go against your wishes and many unexpected things, only the person who is by your side, who never leaves you, understands you, cares for you, and always thinks about you is the person worthy of your life's follow.
Many things in life are destined. Who you can meet and who you are with are all arrangements in the dark.
So, if you meet someone like this, please cherish it. Not everyone is so lucky.
1. Understand you
. The most rare thing in this life is that someone can understand you, understand your desire to speak but stop, understand your silence, understand your grievances, understand your difficulty, and understand your thoughts hidden in your heart.
As long as you have a look, he can guess your thoughts. From your expression, you can tell whether you are really happy or whether there is sadness behind your smile.
You don’t need to explain too much, nor do you need to hide your sadness, and you don’t have to be angry with the other party, because you can see everything about you, and even the emoticon you sent, you can understand what you want to say.
All your joys, sorrows, sorrows, sorrows, pains, loss and helplessness, and are willing to love you in the way you need, support everything for you, be your blocking the wind and being , warming you all year round.
Understanding is more important than love.
is with people who don’t understand you. No matter how you tell your emotional needs or how you communicate what kind of life you want, the other party will not understand you and you will not be willing to understand, because those who are unintentional will not teach you.
And those who understand you can give you long-lasting companionship and warmth, give you understanding and comfort, fight with you in life, and follow along with you through ups and downs.
2. Take care of you
The person who loves you, as long as he is by your side, you can be yourself. You don’t have to be so sensible, and don’t have to pretend to be strong. He is your strong backing, giving you strength, and protecting you all the way.
He has his own principles and temper for others. He only considers your feelings and emotions everywhere to you, and always tolerate you with gentleness and patience.
He will accompany you and support you when you need; share with you when you are happy; when everyone questions and accuses you, he will still stand firmly behind you and tell you that you have me and I will accompany you.
Even if everyone stands on your opposite side, he will not leave you alone and take responsibility with you. He will use actions to protect you for your whole life.
3. Thinking about you
The person who truly loves you will think about you no matter how busy he is.
Just like a colleague of mine, her husband has endless meetings every day and often travels on business trips, but every day he takes time to talk to his wife on the phone, and contacts every morning and evening, and has never stopped for 10 years.
Talk to her about work, lunch, and weather today at noon every day, and then video chat with her and his daughter when she gets home at night.
is never a reason to be busy, it is just an excuse.
Whoever has a day is not 24 hours, and whoever will never touch your phone in a day. Only those who really care about you, no matter how busy they are, will take time to send you messages or come to you.
The person who thinks about you is to buy it for you when you see what you like; when you see any opposite sex, the person who comes to mind is you; when you are on a business trip, you will keep in touch with you and think about bringing specialties to you; when you can't help but think of you, it would be great if you were there.
The most luxurious happiness in life is: someone is waiting for you, being missed by others, and someone is accompanying you to watch the summer cicadas and winter snow.
Haruki Murakami said: "You must remember those who hold umbrellas for you in the heavy rain, those who help you block out things from outside, those who silently hug you in the dark, those who make you laugh, those who chat with you all night. Those who take the car to visit you, those who cry with you, and those who accompany you in the hospital always put you first. It is these people that make up the warmth of your life, and it is these warmth that makes you a kind person."
In this life, meeting the right person is like the warm and gentle breeze in spring, like the feeling of bathing in spring.
You must love someone who is willing to give you time and action for you to accompany you, give you warmth, give you love, think about you, understand you, be stingy with you, keep you in your heart, hold you in your palm.
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