There are two girls, one has a good figure, a good background, and a good look. The other has lost her parents since childhood, she has an ordinary appearance and a thin figure. If you were a man, who would you like?
You may say that of course it is the one who looks good. Of course, you may find it difficult to choose. After all, appearance is one aspect, and other aspects of girls are also very important, such as personality, upbringing, etc.
There is a girl who does look average and is very poor. She lost her parents since she was a child and was fostered at her uncle's house. However, because her uncle passed away early, she was often abused by her aunt. When she was ten years old, she was sent by her aunt to a boarding school that was not at all good. It can be said that she really has nothing but herself.
However, such a girl lives the life that many girls who are born noble and beautiful are wanted. Not only did she have the complete love of a man, she also formed a happy family with him, and most importantly, this man is a rich and attractive man.
Seeing this, I wonder if a girl will appear in your mind? I wonder if you will remember who she is?
She is Jane Eyre, the heroine in the classic novel "Jane Eyre".
Jane Eyre has a bad background, is not good-looking, is helpless, has no one to care about, and has been living under others since she was a child. But she got the heart of Mr. Rochester and became a person Mr. Rochester could never let go of.
So how did Jane Eyre do this?
If you have read the book "Jane Eyre", then you will know that although Jane Eyre has a bad hand, there is a place in her that deeply touched Mr. Rochester's heart. This place is her heart that always knows how to respect herself.
Jane Eyre is a tutor in Mr. Rochester's family. Through their several conversations, Jane Eyre gradually fell in love with Mr. Rochester, but she did not look down on herself because of this. On the contrary, when she found that she was not important at all in Mr. Rochester's eyes, although she would be sad, she would quickly adjust herself. She would not let her feelings be wasted on those who did not value her.
She kept telling herself in her heart that she should have full self-esteem and know how to respect herself. She must not lower herself just because she likes someone and forget herself.
When she really thought Mr. Rochester didn't like her and planned to marry a rich and beautiful girl, she made up her mind to leave Mr. Rochester's house. In her eyes, although she was unknown, thin and poor, she was not a machine without emotions. She had souls and emotions. She was equal to Mr. Rochester, so she would not watch her beloved be with other women.
This is Jane Eyre. At any time, she has her own principles. She will not treat herself and others with her background and appearance. What she likes is a person's heart, a person's thoughts and soul.
She told Mr. Rochester that she is a free person with independent will and that she must fully respect her inner thoughts.
A girl with nothing, facing a man she likes and still has money, she can reject him without hesitation, raise her head fearlessly, declare her rights and freedom as a person. Such a girl will really touch a man's heart.
Mr. Rochester actually did not intend to marry another girl. He just wanted to completely win Jane Eyre's heart through this method, because Mr. Rochester knew very early that Jane Eyre was a unique girl, a girl who would not be easily influenced by others. Although such a girl is not conspicuous at all in the crowd, because he understands her heart and knows the most valuable thing about her, he is moved by her and it is out of control.
If the aforementioned are enough to touch Mr. Rochester's heart, then her subsequent behavior is really very charming.
Mr. Rochester proposed to Jane Eyre, and Jane Eyre agreed to him, but on the day of their wedding, Jane Eyre knew that Mr. Rochester was not single and had a wife alive. This was a bolt from the blue for Jane Eyre, who locked herself in the house and stayed alone.
If you were Jane Eyre, what would you do at this moment? Do you forgive Mr. Rochester for his deception and continue to be with him? After all, Mr. Rochester's wife is a lunatic and can be regarded as non-existent.
Mr. Rochester knew that he had hurt Jane Eyre. He explained the truth to Jane Eyre. Jane Eyre even felt that he could forgive him. Moreover, Mr. Rochester showed a very real relationship with Jane Eyre at that time. Jane Eyre had no doubt about the authenticity of this relationship.
However, in the book "Jane Eyre", Jane Eyre said to herself: "If I forgot myself, forgot the teachings I have always received, and repeat the mistakes of these poor girls under any excuses, reasons and temptations, one day, he will treat me with the same mood that blasphemed them when recalling this moment."
Because Mr. Rochester explained to Jane Eyre his original marital status and because of his unhappy marriage, he had many lover experiences, so Jane Eyre felt that if she was soft-hearted and continued to stay with Mr. Rochester, then one day she would be no different from those women in Mr. Rochester's eyes, which was not what she wanted.
Although Jane Eyre knew that she would have nowhere to go after leaving, and after losing her job, even supporting herself became a problem, she still chose to respect her heart and left resolutely. However, just because she did this, Mr. Rochester could no longer let her go, and even though she left, she was still missing her and waiting for her.
So, from Jane Eyre, we can clearly know that Only by respecting women can we truly touch a man's heart.
Many people are prone to lose themselves when they are tempted, so they make mistakes in one step. Such women usually cannot win the sincerity of men. Just like many girls, they clearly fall in love with someone they should not love, but they still feel that they are because of true love.
"Jane Eyre" can really help many women live their lives well, especially when facing some major choices. If you think of Jane Eyre, you will not choose the wrong path or take detours.
Jane Eyre eventually won the heart of Mr. Rochester, and when Mr. Rochester's wife left, the two of them really united and lived a happy life.
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