Recently, a video of "The mother-in-law who doesn't have a house does not agree to get married" on the Internet became popular. In the video, the mother-in-law said that she didn't want her daughter to marry someone without a house.
This video has aroused heated discussions among many netizens.
Some people say "Mother-in-law also loves her daughter"; some netizens joked that "the house is the love between us"; some parents even think that this love cannot be lost to marriage, let alone to house!
When I saw this video, my first reaction was "I'll go, how can I get married without a house?"
Indeed, there is no equation between house and marriage.
Because marriage requires two people to run together, couples need to take on responsibilities in family life together after marriage.
If you get married because you don’t have a house, then this marriage will definitely be questioned and opposed by many people.
I think parents’ love for their children is very great but also very selfless!
They do not ask for rewards but only think that their children can be happy.
So I hope everyone will clearly recognize this problem before getting married so that they can get along better.
1. If you get married because you don’t have a house, then the two of you should work hard to buy a house together
. This should be the most agreeable, after all, “only you have a house can you have a home.”
You got married because you couldn't afford a house, but as long as two people can tolerate each other's shortcomings, it means that you will definitely be able to live a happy life.
After you get married, you two must work hard to buy a house and a car together, because buying a house is a big deal and requires both of you to pay.
So I think it is very necessary to have plans to buy a house before getting married.
2. When getting married, don’t worry too much about buying a house;
I think women should see their conditions clearly when getting married.
I believe that as long as you have a house, you will consider whether the other party is suitable for marriage. If neither of you has the ability to buy a house for each other, then there will definitely be many conflicts in this marriage.
In my opinion, if both parties can accept each other well and both are willing to change themselves for each other, then there is not much confusion about buying a house.
After all, two people have a common goal, and working hard for this goal together is enough.
So I hope everyone must be clear when getting married whether they want to buy a house for the other party in their marriage. If not, then refuse decisively!
3. Both parents need to sit down and talk about the house. Never affect the relationship between two people because of money;
If the relationship between two people is really affected by the problem of buying a house, then this man must not be worthy of entrusting his life.
Because after getting married, you can choose to take on family responsibilities with your wife, or you can choose to share some family pressure with your father;
But don’t affect the relationship between two people because of the house problem.
Nowadays, many girls will use buying a house as a measure of whether their relationship is deep.
But once you enter this stage in your marriage, you must adjust yourself in time!
4. If the other party’s parents make a request, then you need to consider the pros and cons.
Personally, I think that if the other party’s parents make a request, they must find a way to solve this problem. After all, this is a big deal, and their starting point must be for the good of their children.
If you get married just without a house, it is very likely to affect the time two people live together in the future.
Because if you don’t have a room, the other party will not give you a bride gift.
Then the two families will have some disputes about this matter, and may even lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
I think as long as both parties can look at this problem rationally, this problem can be solved well. #Emotional Emotion##Love#
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