Zhou Guoping said: "The sense of proportion is a sign of maturity and love. It knows how to abide by the necessary distance between people." Some people tend to lose their sense of proportion as soon as they fall in love, thinking that the two people are love, but they don't know

Zhou Guoping said: " A sense of proportion is a sign of maturity and love. It knows how to follow the necessary distance between people."

Some people tend to lose their sense of proportion as soon as they fall in love. They think that the two people are in love, but they don't know that this is just a normal reaction to hormone secretion.

Foresighted people will control their own ideas and avoid doing things that go beyond the boundaries. Those who cannot control themselves may suffer losses.

On the Internet, a girl's behavior became a hot search.

The girl came to find her boyfriend and successfully applied for her job at her boyfriend's factory. The factory includes food and accommodation, and her salary and benefits are also good.

It was originally going well, but at night there was a problem. Someone called the supervisor: "Come and take a look. There is a girl who stayed in the male dormitory and didn't leave. What should I do at night?" The supervisor of

felt incredible and hurried to the male dormitory. Sure enough, a girl was sitting there, the new employee who had just applied for it.

"Why are you here? The girls' dormitory is next door. It's time to go back. Everyone needs to rest." The supervisor said it more tactfully, saving face for the girl.

Who knew that the girl's words made him stunned.

"I don't want to live in a girls' dormitory, I just want to live with my boyfriend, I don't want to be separated. "

"This... this doesn't meet the regulations." The supervisor said: "You have to sleep later. How inappropriate you are here? You can meet during the day, so can't you overcome it?"

"I can't overcome it. We haven't met for a long time, so we have to live together ." The girl was confident and made the supervisor angry.

"If I don't let you live here, so what?"

"Then I won't do it!" The girl was very determined.

Supervisor smiled: "Do you think we lack people? More than 200 applicants have come, and I have only hired more than 20. It is already a blessing that you can be stayed. It is so difficult to find a job now. You may not be able to find a better job than this when you go out. If you work hard, the two of you will earn nearly 20,000 yuan a month. Wouldn't it be nice to go home for the New Year?"

Seeing that the situation was a little stiff, I lie down. The boy playing with his cell phone in the bed straightened up and discussed with the supervisor: "I let her sleep inside, can't I sleep outside?"

Supervisor smiled: "Brother, it's not me that I'm talking about you. You really want to live together. There is a hotel across the street. Wouldn't you go to open a room?"

"I don't have money, I've spent all the money." The boy lowered his head.

"You know your girlfriend is coming, why don't you keep some money in your pocket?"

"Where is enough to spend it? I usually eat and drink, and the money is spent."

Seeing that my boyfriend was in a dilemma, the girl actually asked the supervisor for help: "Can you lend us some money? Let's rent a house."

The supervisor was also defeated and agreed: "Okay, I'll lend you a thousand. You can go out and live. Remember, you have to learn to live when you go out to work. If you earn two, you have no future."

His words were pun, and I don't know if the girl understood it.

Netizens were talking about it and found it difficult to accept it.

• "I lost my parents' face. If I slapped me."
• "I don't know my shame and borrow money to rent a house. Is it difficult to recruit two more people?"
• "How sad this girl's parents would have seen it, it's really embarrassing."

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  According to the two people's thinking, you can see what may happen in the future.

  The girl is pregnant and her boyfriend has no money. If you want to be together, the woman's family can only accommodate her and let the man marry her daughter easily.

  But even so, the girl may not be respected by the man. When she gives birth to a child, she will know how difficult life is. Poor and humble couples are sad, and conflicts are one after another, and there is no end.

  In life, such a girl is not an isolated case.

  Do you still remember the girl who got married in a cotton jacket?

  The girl has been pregnant for more than 6 months and her belly has obviously bulged. The wedding day that she had agreed on can only be advanced.

  The man's family took the opportunity to make a request, and if there was no money to give a bride price, if the woman was willing to marry, she would hold the wedding as soon as possible, otherwise, she would wait for them to raise the money.

  

  Where can the woman wait? She can only agree to the marriage. What's too much is that the man is reluctant to buy the bride's wedding dress. The mother-in-law said with confidence: "There is no money at home, so you can save as much as you can."

  The bride only wore a white cotton jacket, and it looked like she had no sense of ceremony to hold a wedding ceremony. It made people wonder, is it just enough to rent a wedding dress?

  The answer is no. The in-laws' family doesn't have enough money for a wedding dress. They just deliberately embarrass the girl. . You are already pregnant. You are rushing to marry my son like this. It makes my son look so outstanding. It belittles the bride and highlights the man's status.

  This is the consequence of losing the sense of responsibility in doing things. If you have a girl at home, you really need more attention to guide you.

  A mother did a good job and wrote a letter to her daughter who was about to go out to study and told her three points.

  First, you can fall in love, but you can't live together easily.

  It is normal for young people to feel moved when they meet someone they like.

  But sometimes the heartbeat is not necessarily love, it may also be just a hormonal stimulation. You have to give yourself more time to understand each other and see if each other’s values ​​are consistent. It’s not too late to get together.

  

  Second, after falling in love, you cannot lose yourself.

  Some girls fall in love with a boy and will give up their pursuit of themselves.

  I think that with a boyfriend, life will be attached. This idea is wrong. The relationship will change and the boyfriend may leave.

  Girls must persist in studying. If you have a job, you must also work hard for your career. Only by having a stable income can you feel safe.

  No matter when, girls must be independent kapok, not clinging to the trumpet.

  Third, you must avoid pregnancy before marriage and learn to protect yourself.

  If you believe that the other party is trustworthy and the two are in love, you should also pay attention to protecting yourself and not getting pregnant.

  Girls have only a few years of youth. If you get pregnant early, it means giving up the opportunity to grow up and become a mother too early, and your life will change.

  You can completely master your life. Pay attention to a sense of proportion when you are in love, and get married after your career is stable. In this way, both parties will be more mature and will be able to manage a good family after marriage.

  This mother said it very well. There are many girls who are too careless about love. If you like someone, you are willing to do whatever you want for the other person and push yourself into marriage early. Before you understand what's going on, you become a mother.

  

  Once the identity changes, you need to face the trivialities of food, food, oil and salt. In addition, the boy's mind is not mature, and he has no intention of working for his family at all, and his life is messy.

  These problems could have been avoided. As long as girls can be more rational and know how to refuse unreasonable demands, they can protect themselves.

  There is a girl in the family. You must teach her a sense of proportion and avoid love brain so that you can be less passive in life.