The reason why children are often frightened by adults is that their IQ and EQ are lower than those of adults. If the wisdom is high enough, the result will be reversed, which also explains why some older people are deceived. So what's the best way? Where does
wisdom come from?
1. Everyone understands the truth that the book is self-evident after reading it hundreds of times, but only a very small number of people can transform the knowledge into wisdom and use it freely. In addition to the influence of innate genes, many family environments, social environments and their own personalities account for a corresponding proportion.
Also read "The Story of Cinderella", why do some people find out: "Why after midnight, the others have changed back, but the crystal shoes that Cinderella has lost have not changed back?" But some people can only understand after others have discovered it.
" Romance of the Three Kingdoms " is one of my favorite dramas. Let's talk about my past doubts. People say: If you get one of the dragon, phoenix chicks, you can win the world. Liu Bei got both the slept dragon and the phoenix chick, why can't he win the world? When I was a kid, I felt it was a pity.
Feng Chu was shot to death by arrows in order to give Liu Bei an open reason to capture Xichuan.
Water Mirror Mr. once said that Zhuge Liang came out of the mountain and said, "Although he got the master, he didn't get the time", mainly based on the general trend and it is difficult for God to violate his will.
Later I felt that the four words "God's will is hard to violate" include more or less all the advantages and disadvantages that Liu Bei himself possesses. Liu Bei is famous for his kindness to treat people. When the benevolence and righteousness between brothers and brothers and the benevolence and righteousness between kings and peoples, he chose not to listen to the advice of the people and use the whole country to attack Sun Quan, and in the end he could only hold the orphans in Baidi City.
Liu Bei did not avenge his brothers as he wished, but also greatly reduced the national strength of Shu. If you want to work harder, God will no longer give you a chance!
Although we contemporary people do not need to make such a choice, we will also learn in life that we will weigh the pros and cons in everything. Why do you work hard? Some people get half the effort with twice the effort, and some people get twice the effort with half the effort? You may not work hard enough or you may not work hard enough or you may choose the wrong direction.
Many times we fix our thinking in a certain frame, and we can try to look at the problem from different angles through the later practice of , which helps to distinguish and dig deeper into the things behind or in a larger range. It cannot immediately make you "a hundred times more wise", but it is a road to wisdom.
2. Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles. Is it okay to travel thousands of miles? Why do many hikers have walked so many ways, and some people are not smart enough? Because some people just to exercise, some people to relax, and some people to hone...
All the difficulties, people and things encountered along the way are a process of slowly and deeply understanding the world. Seeing a larger world helps to interpret and analyze the sunshine and darkness in human nature.
3, Media dissemination
Everyone has too much time to watch their mobile phones every day, but most of them are for entertainment. The information spread by these media every day is massive, and even in such a developed era, information gaps will occur. Taking the essence and removing the dross is a focus on learning, but it does not mean that you will not understand bad things if you understand good things.
The world and all things alternate. No matter whether you want to accept bad things or not, they will always be there, so remember not to "work behind closed doors".
When I was chatting with others, I found that many people in their careers like to watch " News Broadcast ". They said that when they read it, what thoughts often pop up in their minds.
In my words, it is the process of a seed taking root and sprouting, and it is the process of the birth of some kind of wisdom!
4. People around you are inspiring
Sometimes parents, friends, and colleagues will give you some advice. When you feel that something that does not require special confidentiality and is in a dilemma, ask a few more people and find that the ideas between people are really diverse and worlds different.
Some wisdom comes from the pit you have stepped on, and some wisdom does not necessarily have to be your own experience. Other people’s stories can be used as a way for you to gain wisdom.
All the ways you can access are just to continuously increase your wisdom in practice. This is a process. If you want, you can try to make this process happier. What can I do after I distinguish
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First of all, it is impossible to see through a person completely, and you won’t even fully understand yourself, so we just approach that direction, at least we can understand how to do it to better protect ourselves.
Secondly, humans are emotional animals. Don’t let yourself live too tired. This is what is commonly said: See the mountains or the mountains, see the water or the water.
Again, it is also the top priority. There are people outside of people and heavens. When encountering people and things that cannot be distinguished, no matter what stage of wisdom you are in, remember three words: only view from afar.
I hope you can have a relaxed and happy life. If you have anything to say, leave a message to Pumpkin Princess Love Life!
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