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See this question: Should we treat girls well?
A boy fell in love with a girl and paid a lot for her, but what he got was her increasingly cold attitude, so the boy began to doubt himself. Did he do something wrong? Whether it is good to a person is wrong in itself.
It seems that we are always like this. It is easy to be full of uncertainty about love because of a person, a love that is not responded to, a failed love, and overturn some of the previous beliefs in love.
But in fact, when you calm down and think about it, you will find that some self-doubt is completely unnecessary.
It is necessary to be good to a girl. If you can't even be kind to her when chasing someone, then what do you expect her to like you? What is the meaning of chasing?
Isn’t it just to pursue someone to be good to her? Taking the initiative to care about her every day, chatting with her, asking about her well-being in daily life, and giving her considerate company when encountering things. These have become the standard for pursuing a person.
If you don’t treat her well, then how do you plan to chase her? Rely on one mouth or a face?
Nowadays girls are not that easy to fool. What they really care about is substantial efforts. They will not easily deceive by a person's sweet words, but will be immersed in some thoughtful details.
Of course, if you want to win a person's heart, being good to her is often the most basic thing. As long as you are determined, anyone can do it.
In addition to being nice to her, these are more important.
Show your strengths and unique personal charm
Zhang Ailing said: Women's love for men must always be a bit admirable.
Men may have different feelings for a woman because of pity, and will want to feel sorry for her and be kind to her.
Men have a desire for weakness. Sometimes the weaker a woman is, the more she can arouse men's pity.
is different. Women never love him because of a pitiful person, but they can't help but be attracted because of the unique charm of a man.
is actually very simple to be good to a person. As long as you are careful, you can always do it. The key is that besides these, what else do you have? What are your differences and what attracts you need to show.
let her see your difference and your personal charm, even if you are very humorous, have strong work ability, and are very planning for the future. These must be displayed in a timely manner, rather than just giving foolishly.
When you show your charm and let her see your unique traits, you will successfully open her heart.
Get to know her more, get close to her, and be the one who understands her
What girls care most about in love is the comfort and fit between the two of you, do you understand her memes, and whether you are soul-fitting.
Compared with some external manifestations, these can promote mutual communication and make it easier to get closer to her heart.
If you don’t understand what she says, you will only bury your head and give, you will know nothing about the things she likes and is only able to take care of her daily life every day, and she will probably not fall in love with you.
For these, you can do some homework. For example, if you know that she likes to play a certain game, it’s okay to try it in order to have a common topic with her. Even if you don’t have to be too proficient, at least let her see your efforts.
When you start to develop a strong interest in everything about her, it is easy for her to think of you when she does something.
When she encounters confusion, you can listen carefully and give some rational suggestions. I believe she will look at you differently.
Be sincere and be more patient with her
In addition to this, the most important thing is to be more patient and be more sincere. No matter how many routines there are, only sincerity is the ultimate skill.
is a little more patient, even if there is no response for the time being, don’t give up easily, let her see your sincerity. Girls’ hearts are often not that cold and are relatively easy to influence.
Love is too fast now. Many people often lack patience and act sincerely enough. They are completely casual, which makes many people more and more discouraged.
Sometimes she just hasn't thought about it yet, and you've stopped. She may just want to verify whether you are sincere or not, and your enthusiasm has been exhausted. How can you make her believe in the love you mentioned?
Don’t play tricks, no one is a fool, it’s true or false, you can see through it at a glance. Be more patient and don’t want results without giving. Such a person will never get the ideal love.
If you don’t get a response, you should stop the loss in time
In the end, there is no need to doubt yourself because she can’t get a response from someone because she is cold to you, doubting that you have done something wrong, and doubting that you are not useful.
After all, love is not something that can be achieved through hard work. Whether a person accepts you or not has nothing to do with how much you have paid. If you don’t like it, you don’t like it, and you can’t change it through hard work.
The one who is wrong is that person, but you are not suitable for each other, there is nothing wrong with giving, and nothing wrong with one person.
You have made a lot to pursue someone. If you try your best, just have no regrets. If you don’t get a response, then the last step is left to dignity and leave.
Next time, we will still be brave and enthusiastic about love. We can’t never try it again just because a love is fruitless. Love belongs to the brave. Only by loving bravely and passionately can we be full of true love.
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