Woman (picture has nothing to do with text)
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First tell you a real story that happened around me. The protagonist of the story is a sister who has a little blood relationship with me.
My sister is born in the 1985s. She was just in the time of national family planning, so she became the only seedling in the family and was loved by her parents.
Because she is a girl, her parents are even more spoiled. From childhood to adulthood, the best things given to her sister are always the best.
That's it. Under the care of my parents, my sister successfully entered the university.
During college, because my sister met her current brother-in-law, the two have been in love, so during college, my sister also relied on and protected.
The physical distance between my sister and my sister's family is very far, but it still failed to stop the pace of love. After graduating from college, my sister and brother-in-law went to the big city to fight until they got married and had children.
After my sister got married and had children, she also quarreled with her brother-in-law in life and had a quarrel and had a fuss, and almost got a divorce.
Fortunately, both of them love each other deeply. Although they encountered difficulties, they still supported each other and passed.
If I keep living like this safely and happily, nothing will happen, and my sister will rely on her brother-in-law for the rest of her life, guarding her two children, and having a job.
woman (picture has nothing to do with text)
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It’s a pity that my brother-in-law was not lucky and was deceived. He even touched the red line. He had to be kept in for several years before he could be released.
As a result, my sister's small family suddenly lost a pillar and a loss of income.
For a moment, my sister felt that her whole world had collapsed.
But my sister is a senior and a young man, and her parents-in-law can't help at all. She also needs to take care of her two children, repay her mortgage loans on time every month, and support her parents who have no pension. With her own income, she can't maintain it at all.
Later, in order to save money, my sister sold her car and took her two children and her parents back to her hometown. However, the family’s salary was not half that of a big city, and she still lived a difficult life.
At this time, my sister had no one to rely on and had to support the whole family alone. With the help of relatives, she still handled the affairs at home in an orderly manner.
However, the sister who has no mental support in , she was thinking all day long, suffered from moderate depression, and smashed things and used knives, which scared her sister's parents very much.
Fortunately, my sister went to the doctor in time and used drugs to control depression .
Women (picture has nothing to do with text)
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Why can my sister handle things well and suffer from depression?
The root of this is that it is too dependent on its partner, and suddenly no one can rely on it and can't stand it.
No matter what kind of identity you are, as an adult, you need to have the ability to stand alone. It is best to be able to rely on someone all the time, but when no one depends on it, it is best to be able to support the sky yourself.
My sister handled everything well, on the one hand, because she was forced to support her, and on the other hand, she was also because of the help of relatives.
But no matter how much relatives help, they are someone else. No matter how difficult my sister's life is, it will not affect the relative's life!
My sister suffers from depression, on the one hand, because of sudden material and mental stress, and on the other hand, she is thinking too much.
People who think too much often think randomly and overthink, which can easily lead to neurasthenia and depression.
But then again, a person who is accustomed to relying on others suddenly has to face all the difficulties in life, and it is understandable that he suffers from depression due to emotional disorders.
I hope that my sister will get better as soon as possible and my brother-in-law will go home as soon as possible so that my sister and children's lives will get better and better.
Finally, everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area, share your thoughts, and leave your "footprints"!
Woman (picture has nothing to do with the text)
Author introduction:
Ou Xiaoxi, I hope that through my words, you will experience the "human warmth and coldness" of the world.
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