text丨Love words: 30:00
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
"Those who are attentive don't need to teach, and those who are not attentive can't teach." This is the most common sentence in love. However, some women do not understand this principle and think that it is so complicated to be together, and add burden to them.
My friend Wang Xin (pseudonym) told me during a dinner that she broke up with her boyfriend who had been in love for half a year. When asked about the reason, Wang Xin said, "I met him on a blind date. When the two first met, they felt that they were very suitable for each other. They were together not long after they got along."
Speaking of this, Wang Xin showed a happy smile on her face. But next, Wang Xin's expression was very gloomy.
She said: "After half a year of getting along, his attitude towards me has become worse and worse. Even the tone of his speech has changed a lot. Sometimes, the two will make a big fuss because of some small conflicts. In the end, I couldn't stand it, so I chose to break up."
In fact, this is how feelings are. Many men, once they have gained the heart of a woman, think that since they have already obtained it, there is no need to maintain their feelings.
Little do you know that this mentality will not only lose this relationship, but will also cause great harm to women. Therefore, in order to avoid such a thing, women should know that in , only men who have lost their hearts will talk to you like this:
talk to you, and his tone is very gentle
"Some people teach you to be gentle and mature, but those who truly love you will teach you to be a child again."
Some people say that love is like a transaction, what one person gives happens to be what another person needs. This complementary effort and harvest promotes love. I personally agree with this statement.
Two people can be together, and the one who gives will definitely be accepted by the one who accepts it. To put it simply, if you love someone, you want to be nice to him, and you give him all your love.
In this case, he chooses to accept your love, which is an emotion. Of course, there will be rejection if you accept it. When he chooses to refuse, the love you give is naturally worthless.
Therefore, we can say with certainty that love is a mutual transaction. But the items traded in love are just love.
Those men who have lost their hearts know this truth in their relationship and understand that as long as they give their gentleness, they will exchange for your favor, or even love. Therefore, only men who have lost their hearts will treat you gently when they are talking to you.
Talk to you sincerely and will not lie to you
We said above, a man who has lost his heart knows the necessity of two people being together and exchanging their feelings. For things like feelings that cannot be seen or grasped, reflecting the essence of love often requires two people to communicate.
However, you have to be clear about it. Two people are in love with each other, which is what we expect. As for whether they will be in love, or how to have a heart-to-heart relationship, it depends entirely on the two people in the relationship.
It’s like when two people get along together, what way do you choose to get along with each other? This is your own business. Maybe to outsiders, your relationship is not very friendly, and there is even no result.
But for you two who are in love, as long as you think everything is fine, then other people's eyes will naturally not be taken care of.
It’s just one thing that women need to pay attention to. Men who are distracted will not lie to you no matter how you get along with each other, and will treat you sincerely.
In this material-flowing society, people blindly pursue money, but gradually forget the importance of emotions.Therefore, in love, only a man who has lost his heart will talk to you sincerely, and only you in the deep feelings can know the love in this.
No matter how angry you get, he is very patient
A man who is heartbroken will not say much, he will only give you all the gentleness.
In many of us, we think that it is normal for men to get angry if they have a temper. However, a man who has lost his heart will not do this.
He knows that liking is presumptuous and love is restraint. This restraint not only won’t let you do something you don’t like, but also will restrain your bad emotions.
Even if you face your emotions, he will choose a reasonable way of venting.
On the contrary, those men who are not interested will not care about your thoughts. As long as you do something that makes him unhappy, they will not consider your feelings and will be furious at you directly, and may also touch you.
So, in relationships, don’t always feel that the other person has given his sincerity. Many times, you should still see if he has lost his heart.
For men who are attentive, women should open their hearts and take the initiative to give their love. Only in this way can your feelings come to the end.
Love words:
The love shown in the relationship cannot be stopped by a man who has lost his heart. Many times, we think that as long as a man says love is love. In fact, whether you love this kind of thing depends more on some of your performances when you get along with it.
A man who has lost his heart will only give you all his love, no matter what he says or does. It is not easy for such a man, so you should cherish it!
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