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Marriage is mutual understanding and tolerance, and is a life attitude of giving in to each other.
Marriage is a responsibility. Without the courage to take responsibility, you are not worthy of marriage.
Marriage is a new continent, with pioneering land, full of difficulties and hope.
In this fast-paced era, people's attitude towards marriage is like answering questions in the exam room. When you see a vicious doll handing in the paper, you will become more and more anxious. In the end, you have finished handing in the paper, and have been to a marriage that is very particular.
01 Marriage cannot be settled, because a lifetime is long
As the saying goes, "Love cannot be eaten as food, but you cannot be ignored." Everything can be settled, but marriage cannot.
You cannot let yourself be wronged, because your life is long, and you cannot affect your future path because of a failure.
When you open your mouth, your husband will think you are annoyed; two people will quarrel over trivial matters;
Except for eating together, the other time belongs to each other. Is there still happiness in such a marriage?
When you work for a day and drag your tired body back home, there is no hot meal, not even a word of concern, and you are out of place in your life. Do you think this is the marriage you want?
When you are wronged outside, you don’t even have a word of comfort. Will you feel like you are so heartbroken? How could you give it to him?
Marriage cannot be settled because you are still young and your life is still long.
02 Low-quality marriage is not as good as high-quality single life
In today's society, more and more older left-over men and women are. Some of them just make do with each other, but they get divorced when they have emotional problems. This kind of low-quality marriage is not as good as a high-quality single person, living a relaxed life and having fun.
At this awkward age, you should settle for someone to get married. This is the wish of your parents. You want to give your parents an explanation, but marriage is not a joke and you cannot settle for it.
At least two people need to get together, appreciate each other, and consider getting married on the basis of having love.
If you find someone with disagreeable values just to satisfy your parents, then you are very wrong.
Nowadays, many people are on the road of blind dates and are indeed not young, but they do not have the requirement of lowering their partner due to their age. They even thought it more comprehensively.
is now getting higher and higher divorce rates, and he is at this awkward age, so he has to consider being more comprehensive.
Nowadays young people have no understanding of the meaning of marriage and do not care about divorce.
Instead of getting married in a hurry and not getting a good marriage quality, it is better to live a high-quality single life.
03 Unhappy marriage, why not end in one's old age alone
Tu Lei said: "I would rather be single in this life than to settle down."
If the marriage is not happy, what if I live alone in one's old age alone!
Marriage is more about responsibility, not just a physical need, you can solve it by finding a friend, but marriage is not like this. It contains many things. If you get married just for the sake of form, most such marriages will not be happy.
In a marriage without love, it is unfortunate to continue the family line.
would rather be lonely than be content. Those who can enter my heart will be treated as kings, and those who do not enter my heart will be disdainful.
would rather be lonely every day than to relieve loneliness, to be alone, to be alone in a meaningless relationship, not to delay others or to waste one's own qualities.