As the saying goes, "A happy family looks the same, but an unfortunate family is different."
A mother-in-law in Yunnan posted a video of finding someone. She shouted in the video, hoping that netizens would help her find her daughter-in-law who ran away from home. What's going on?
According to this mother-in-law, there are two young children in the family, and she and her husband are in poor health. Therefore, the whole family needs someone to take care of. As for who will take care of them, of course, the daughter-in-law who ran away from home takes care of them. In the
video, the mother-in-law, who seemed not old, kept crying, "I hope my daughter-in-law will come back soon." At the same time, the mother-in-law also said, "The family of four is waiting for the daughter-in-law to come back to take care of her." After watching the video, some netizens guessed based on the appearance of the mother-in-law that she was not old, she should be in her fifties.
From this short video, two useful information can be extracted. One thing is that the family is waiting for their daughter-in-law to go home to take care of them. The other thing is that this mother-in-law can't figure out why the daughter-in-law can leave her two young children so cruelly and choose to leave? After
, a reporter came to interview the mother-in-law, and everyone knew the whole story of the incident.
It turns out that this mother-in-law was thinking about coming back to take care of the family and taking care of the old and young daughter-in-law, but the woman chose to follow her and live with her in-laws after her son got married. At the beginning, the family was still stable, but over the years, the problems that have been neglected have gradually been exposed, such as the mother-in-law who is in poor health and cannot take on housework, the father-in-law who needs someone to take care of due to disability, and the poor family situation.
In fact, as one sentence says, "There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time", from another level, long-term poverty life will accumulate a lot of problems. In other words, because of money, a family will have various problems.
For this family, the only pillar is the son who works outside and earns money. At the same time, due to the physical condition of his parents-in-law, his daughter-in-law is left at home to take care of the two elderly people.
Originally, life in this family was already very difficult, but with the birth of the first child, the family was even more difficult. Although both parents-in-law and husband were filled with joy for the arrival of this child, for the daughter-in-law who was left at home to take care of the elderly and busy with all the housework, there might be joy, but not many. Why does
say so?
Because, this will mean that in her already busy daily life, there is another task - taking care of the children.
Someone may say that taking care of your own children is a task for a mother? But in fact, for a woman who needs to take care of her parents-in-law and work on all the housework at this time, this is indeed more like a "task".
Of course, the daughter-in-law did not express any dissatisfaction with this. Until she was one year old and was pregnant with her second child, a certain emotion that was pressing into her heart completely broke out.
unexpectedly conceived with a second child, which may be a good thing for other economically relaxed families, but for this poor family, this is not a good thing, but perhaps it is really "the poorer the person, the more he wants to have a child". Under the persuasion of his parents-in-law and husband, the woman still softly chose to give birth to the child.
After giving birth, the woman didn't even have time to breathe, and she had to continue to take care of the whole family. The problem of caring for the newly born child naturally fell on the woman's head. Although the mother-in-law often helped her, most of the time, the woman was still doing things. After all, the mother-in-law's body did not allow her to work too much.
But it may be that bad luck only seeks miserable people. When this family was living in difficulty, the only son who earned money and labor was suddenly diagnosed as a terminal illness in the hospital. Perhaps his life was not long. After learning about the bad news, the daughter-in-law made a decision - to leave two young children and leave the family.
It is precisely because of this that the scene at the beginning appeared. The mother-in-law was looking for her daughter-in-law online, crying and saying, "The whole family cannot live without her care."
To be honest, from the perspective of this mother-in-law, she hopes that her daughter-in-law will go back without any mistakes, because once the daughter-in-law really doesn't come back, it can be imagined how miserable this family will be. But from the perspective of the daughter-in-law who runs away from home, perhaps her choice is understandable, and her husband's case has become a straw that crushes her last hope.
Many netizens sighed: They are all pitiful people!
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