Zhang Yun and her boyfriend Zhu Zuohua have been together for more than a year. Both of them are not young anymore. Zhang Yun is 33 years old, Zhu Zuohua is 35 years old, and Zhang Yun has the idea of getting married.
Zhu Zuohua's parents have always been unwilling to accept Zhang Yun. First, they dislike Zhang Yun as an outsider, and second, they dislike Zhang Yun as being too old and worried that he will have an impact on childbirth.
Zhang Yun has been in this city for 10 years and has bought a house with his own efforts, but he still has hundreds of thousands of loans to pay. This also made Zhu Zuohua's parents mind very much, thinking that Zhang Yun just wanted to find a man to help her pay the mortgage.
Zhu Zuohua's family has 2 houses, one of which they live in, and the other one is rented out to collect rent. If Zhu Zuohua gets married, he will prepare to take back the rented house and renovate it as a wedding house.
Zhu Zuohua's mother was ill some time ago and was quite serious. His mother meant that she hoped Zhu Zuohua would follow the opinions of the family to go on a blind date and get married quickly. She was worried that she had an accident and wanted to watch her son get married.
Zhang Yun went to the hospital to visit Zhu Zuohua's mother and were turned away. She was firm in her attitude. This embarrassed Zhang Yun and she also had the idea of breaking up.
She is not young anymore and doesn't want to spend time with her boyfriend, especially her boyfriend's mother's current situation. She really can't hold on anymore. She doesn't want her boyfriend to be with her under this pressure. If something happens, it will become a knot in the other person's heart.
But unexpectedly, Zhu Zuohua said that he would rather break off relations with his parents than be separated from her. When she heard these words, she was not moved or afraid.
They have known each other for more than a year. No matter how deep the relationship is, how deep can it be, he can actually say what he gives up his parents, especially his mother is in the hospital for treatment. The situation is not optimistic, and such a person is too terrible.
His parents made a clear statement that if he wanted to marry Zhang Yun, they would sign an agreement and give up all the inheritance rights of property in the family , which means he would become nothing.
Zhang Yun could see that Zhu Zuohua wanted to express to her that he could be with her and that he could give up everything, but this was not the love Zhang Yun expected. The love and marriage she wanted were blessed by both parents.
Zhang Yun felt that Zhu Zuohua's personality was too impulsive, like a big adolescent boy, but he was already 35 years old and was still so immature in dealing with problems. Will they be happy in the future when they live together?
Zhang Yun thought of these and wanted to break up even more, but she didn't know how to say it, but she just told Zhu Zuohua that he would take good care of his mother first and talk about them later.
Zhang Yun is not a woman with a love brain, otherwise she would not have been married at the age of 32. She is excellent enough and does not need to rely on men. In this way, it will be difficult to meet a suitable partner, which is left, which makes her less willing to give in. She can't marry someone and reduce her quality of life!
Zhang Yun is a very rational woman. Her boyfriend's behavior made her feel that the other party was not a good match, so she had the idea of breaking up. After all, they were not young anymore, so there was no need to waste time with each other.
In her opinion, love is important, but she cannot give up her parents for love, especially her mother is still ill. The child's behavior of such a child is undoubtedly a heavy blow to her, which is too cruel.
The boyfriend loves her now and can abandon his parents. If he falls in love with others in the future, can he also easily abandon her? It is probably very likely.
And her boyfriend is with her with such a mentality of making such a great sacrifice for her. Is she still so grateful? But what did she get? Her boyfriend had nothing. If they got married, they would completely need her to pay for it. Not only did she not get any benefits, she would also pay for it. Instead, she would pay for it. She really didn't need such a marriage.
Female friends, when it comes to marriage, you really don’t have a love mind. A man can coax you around in a few words. Marriage is not just a combination of love, but also benefits, because the material foundation determines the superstructure. Poor and humble couples are sad about everything. The truth summarized by countless reality.
No matter what the other party says, if there is nothing in practice, then don’t be moved, because it’s purely just making a fortune. Marriage is not a joke, both men and women should be cautious and sincere.
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