As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to make a decision on family affairs, and every family has a sutra that is difficult to recite.
There are no right or wrong in nature in many family disputes, but the location of the station is different, so the perspective of looking at the problem is different.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a difficult problem since ancient times, but it is rarely heard that the contradiction between father-in-law and daughter-in-law is irreconcilable. Most of the time, it even plays a role of regulating and buffering between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
There are always exceptions in everything.
A woman in Zhejiang changed clothes in her house. When her father-in-law entered the house and was scolded, she was scolded: I am not an outsider
Xiaomei, after working in Zhejiang, met Zhang Yi, a young man from Zhejiang, and then married to Zhejiang. Although my husband's family is much better in all aspects than Xiaomei's family in terms of financial conditions, her family is also in the countryside.
But this doesn't matter. The couple lives a relatively happy and fulfilling life. The only drawback is that the relationship between parents-in-law and Xiaomei is more difficult.
Especially after two years of marriage, the other two people in the village who got married almost had children, but Xiaomei's belly was still not moving, which made the relationship between her parents-in-law and Xiaomei even more tense, and sometimes even caused chaos due to some trivial matters.
Not only that, my parents-in-law never seems to regard Xiaomei as their family. They say that this is my family and I will do whatever I want.
What Xiaomei couldn't stand the most was the differences and conflicts in lifestyle habits. Especially in the family, my father-in-law looked like a master, and he often called and drank to Xiaomei, who was married far away, so that Xiaomei, who was not afraid to speak out.
My mother's home is far away, and my husband goes out to work again. Xiaomei can only bear all this alone.
Just two days ago, Xiaomei changed clothes at home. Because she was just changing her outer clothes, she didn't want to lock the door of the room. It was because of her carelessness that led to an embarrassing scene.
When my father-in-law entered and left the room at home, he was reckless and never knocked on the door. Perhaps because of his living habits, he never asked if there was someone in the room.
So there is a scene in the article. Xiaomei was changing clothes in the house. The father-in-law who was rashly pushing open the door was shocked. Fortunately, it was just a coat, but it was still very embarrassing after all.
The grievance in my heart has been overcrowded for a long time. Xiaomei was angry at her father-in-law for the first time:
"Dad, why did you come into the house without knocking on the door"
"I'm changing clothes!"
Seeing Xiaomei angrily criticizing herself, her father-in-law responded dissatisfiedly, as if she had done nothing wrong:
"This is my home, I'll enter as soon as I want to, what door to knock on?"
"I'm not an outsider!"
tidy up her clothes in a panic. Afterwards, Xiaomei still plucked up the courage to say to her father-in-law:
"This is our own room"
"We also have privacy"
"It's not good if you don't knock on the door like this"
Maybe she felt that she was in a disadvantage. Her father-in-law didn't scold her too much this time, but she responded a few words with some unreasonable words:
"Day day by day, I know that she is dressed fancy, and I don't know who to wear it for."
After saying that, she left angrily.
Xiaomei, who was deeply aggrieved, couldn't say anything else, but she once again said with her husband that she wanted to go out independently and save money to buy a house in the county town.
Xiaomei's experience has also caused heated discussions among many netizens. After all, living in the same big family as her parents-in-law, there are many such things, and many netizens empathize with them and tell them their true experiences.
Most people’s advice is to make money, if you can go out independently, try to be independent. Under one roof, there will always be contradictions.
Some personal opinions
In the vast sea of people, two strangers can meet and get to know each other and become a family the most is the fate destined by God.
After becoming a family, the family atmosphere and even the rise and fall of the family will change from then on.
In reality, how many families are in chaos because of the stiff relationship between the family, and their lives are in a mess.
We also see that some people's families were originally average, but because of the harmony of family members, they lived a prosperous life.
For father-in-law, understanding the difficulties of younger generations and helping others is the style of elders in the family.
For children and daughters and daughters-in-law, they also understand the elderly, communicate more, and try to avoid head-on conflicts.
Family and everything goes well.
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