"I won't help you take care of your children now, and I won't have to serve you when I'm old." This was what Wang Li said, but before she could get old, she slapped her in the face
Wang Li is 38 years old this year. She is very beautiful, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, small cherry mouths, and her skin is also white. The only thing that is, she is not tall, and she is only 1.56 in height.
Wang Li’s hometown is a rural area in Anhui. In the second year after graduating from university, she came to Dalian to work with a classmate.
Wang Li met Yao Hui in Dalian. Yao Hui is Wang Li’s colleague and he is two years older than Wang Li.
Because Wang Li is a newly graduated college student and has no work experience, Yao Hui often helps her at work, and Wang Li has always been very grateful to Yao Hui.
So, gradually Wang Li and Yao Hui’s relationship became better and better, and in the end they became lovers.
Wang Li's parents found out, they firmly opposed her dating in Dalian because they did not want Wang Li to marry.
But Wang Li herself was willing. Even if her parents persuaded her hard, she would not listen. Her parents were so angry that they simply ignored it.
Yao Hui's family is not from Dalian City. His family lives in a city not far from Dalian.
Yao Hui's father died of illness when he was in college. His mother has retired. Yao Hui and another sister are already married.
A few months later, Yao Hui took Wang Li home, but unexpectedly, Yao Hui's mother also opposed them being together.
Her reason for objection is very simple. Wang Li is good-looking, but she is too short. Yao Hui is 1.78 people and is not a perfect match.
Another thing is that Wang Li’s family is from another place and the conditions in the countryside are not good, so I can’t help them in the future.
Although Yao Hui's mother opposed them being together, Yao Hui did not listen to her mother and insisted on being with Wang Li.
Yao Hui's mother went to Wang Li twice and said that it was not suitable for them to be together, hoping that she could break up.
For this matter, Yao Hui almost cut off his relationship with his mother. Later, Yao Hui's mother had no choice but to agree even if she was dissatisfied with a hundred dissatisfied.
A few years later, Yao Hui and Wang Li are going to get married. Yao Hui's mother didn't buy them a house, she only gave Wang Li 40,000 yuan in betrothal gifts. Wang Li and Yao Hui got married.
When we got married, Wang Li's parents came from their hometown, and Yao Hui's mother did not entertain them. Wang Li's parents have been staying in a hotel, and they paid for the money for staying in the hotel themselves.
Wang Li’s parents knew that Yao Hui’s mother disagreed, and they always worried that Wang Li would be angry with her mother-in-law. When Wang Li got married, they gave her 50,000 yuan as a dowry.
Wang Li and Yao Hui have been renting a house in Dalian since they got married. Yao Hui told his mother twice that they had 100,000 yuan in hand, and hoped that his mother would help him get some and get enough of the down payment to buy a house.
But Yao Hui's mother kept saying that she had no money and would not give it to her. Yao Hui knew that her mother had saved a lot of money over the years, but she just didn't want to get it for them.
Wang Li advised Yao Hui, "Don't want it, let's work hard for a few years, save money to buy it yourself!"
Wang Li originally wanted to work hard with Yao Hui for a few years, and after buying the house, they would have children again.
Unexpectedly, Wang Liyi became pregnant unexpectedly in the second year of her marriage and had not bought a house yet, so Wang Li didn't want this child.
But Yao Hui said, "I have to ask for it sooner or later. Since you already have it, please stay! Anyway, my mother has retired. You can just go to work, just ask my mother to help me take care of it."
Yao Hui told her mother that Wang Li was pregnant. Yao Hui's mother was quite happy at the time and said, "You are not young anymore, it's time to have a child."
Yao Hui saw her mother say this, thinking she would definitely help take care of the child.
Wang Li was working during her pregnancy and did not take maternity leave until half a month before her due date. During Wang Li's entire pregnancy, her mother-in-law did not come to take care of her.
She has already taken maternity leave and her mother-in-law has not come either. At this time, Yao Hui was anxious because he was worried that Wang Li would not be able to be at home when he was at work.
So he called his mother and asked her to come and accompany Wang Li early. Unexpectedly, the mother said, "Isn't Wang Li still half a month? I'll go there for a few days, no one will take care of your sister's child."
Yao Hui's sister's house runs a factory, and her second child is almost three years old, and they are all raised by her mother.
Yao Hui said: "Isn't my mother-in-law okay, just let her take care of her! "But the mother said: "The child will not follow his grandmother. "
Yao Hui's mother didn't come either. She saw that Wang Li's due date was still one week before she came. The night she came, Wang Li gave birth to a boy.
Yao Hui's mother took care of Wang Li's confinement. Before Wang Li could be full moon, she said, "Your sister's child has a cold and is hospitalized. Your sister can't run it myself, so I have to go back. "
Yao Hui said: "Let my brother-in-law and his mother go. Wang Li is not yet full month old, and I am going to work again. What should I do if you leave? "
The mother said, "You can take a few days off. Your sister's child will follow me. If I have been away for so long, the child will definitely get angry, otherwise he would not catch a cold. "
Wang Li also hoped that her mother-in-law could take care of her for the full moon before leaving, but she saw that her mother-in-law was very firm, so she didn't say anything.
The next day, Yao Hui's mother went home. There was no way, Yao Hui could only take leave to take care of Wang Li at home.
Yao Hui thought that when her sister's child was ready, her mother would come back. Who knew that her mother said, "Wang Li is already full moon, so I won't go back. No one will take care of your sister's child. "
Wang Li was a little unhappy when she heard her mother-in-law say this. She said to Yao Hui: "Didn't you say that after the child is born, can mother help take care of the children? "
Yao Hui didn't expect his mother to be like this. He thought that his sister's child was almost three years old and he had a child. His mother would definitely come to help them take care of the child. Who knew that the mother was still helping with the child at her sister's house.
Yao Hui could only say to Wang Li: "You should take care of your mother for maternity leave first during this period. When the maternity leave is over, you will ask my mother to help with it. "
Although Wang Li was angry, she had to do this. Half a year passed in a blink of an eye. Wang Li had her maternity leave full and she was going to work.
At this time, Yao Hui called her mother and told her that Wang Li was going to work and wanted her to help take care of the children.
The mother also said that her sister's factory was too busy and she had no time to take care of the two children. She really couldn't leave and could not come to take care of them.
Wang Li was so angry that she had a fight with Yao Hui. She said: "I didn't want the children at first, and I wanted to wait until I bought the house before I wanted them. You said your mother took me to take it. Now that your mother doesn’t come and bring it to me, I can’t go to work, what do you think? Just rely on your own salary for a month, and in your lifetime, you can buy a house. "
Yao Hui didn't expect his mother to be like this, and he felt wronged. But what Wang Li said was the truth, and he could not refute it. Wang Li said he could only listen.
The mother-in-law didn't come to take care of the children, so Wang Li could only resign and take care of the children at home. Yao Hui earned money from work, they had to pay the rent, the living expenses of the family of three, and Yao Hui's salary was month-to-month.
When the child was eight months old, he had pneumonia and was hospitalized. Wang Li was too busy, and Yao Hui was on a business trip back those days and was not at home.
Wang Li called her mother-in-law and wanted her to come and help for a few days. But the mother-in-law said: "Your sister's child has also caught a cold these days, and she is given injections every day, I can't go! "
This time Wang Li was really angry. She said: "Don't my sister have a mother-in-law at home? They will help take care of her! Just care about your grandson, and don’t care about your own grandson.
You treat us like this, and you still don’t expect us to support you in the old age that day.”
Wang Li said this, but her mother-in-law said: “Don’t worry, I won’t help you take care of your children now, and I don’t need you to raise you that day. Your sister and the others can support me. "
After hearing what my mother-in-law said, Wang Li hung up the phone in anger. The mother-in-law didn't come, and Yao Hui was not at home, so Wang Li could only resist it by herself when she was hospitalized.
It's okay, but the child was the most tired every day when the child was given an injection. When the child didn't make a fuss, she could sit for a while. When the child made a fuss, she could only hold the child in one hand and hold the shelf in the other.
those days made Wang Li very tired. The child was hospitalized for a week and she lost five pounds.
After two years, the child grew up and went to kindergarten. In order to take care of the child, she made some money. Wang Li followed the child to work in the kindergarten. The salary of the kindergarten was not high, but Wang Li felt that it was better than not.
When the child was five years old, Wang Li's mother-in-law fell ill. She suffered from cerebral thrombosis and stayed in the hospital for more than 20 days. Yao Hui took half a month off to take care of her in the hospital.
Yao Hui's sister went there for a few days, and then she said that the factory was too busy and had no time, so she went to check it out occasionally.
Yao Hui's mother was unable to take care of herself after she was discharged from the hospital. But Yao Hui had to go to work and couldn't take care of her all the time, so he could only find a nursing home and send her to the nursing home.
The mother only lived in the nursing home for half a month. When Yao Hui and the others went to see her, she said that the people in the nursing home beat her and did not give her food. She cried and shouted that she wanted to go home with Yao Hui.
Yao Hui had no choice but to take her home, but he had to go to work and had no time to take care of his mother.
Yao Hui told Wang Li that she wanted her to take care of her mother at home. Wang Li was angry when she thought of everything her mother-in-law had done over the years. At first, Wang Li refused, but when she thought that Yao Hui had to go to work to earn money, she had to take care of her.
Wang Li resigned from kindergarten and took care of her mother-in-law at home. She was very self-conscious and fed and bathed her mother-in-law every day, and took good care of her mother-in-law.
After a while, one day my mother-in-law took out a card for Wang Li. She cried and said to Wang Li: "I have done badly over the years. I treated you like that. I didn't expect you to be so good to me.
There are 400,000 yuan in this card. This is all my savings, I gave it to you. You can use it to buy a house!"
Wang Li also cried when she looked at her mother-in-law, and she felt wronged. Thinking that she had taken care of her children in the past few years and no one helped her, she didn't know how she survived.
Wang Li took the card given by her mother-in-law. With her careful care, her mother-in-law recovered better and better, and later she was able to take care of herself.
They bought a house with the money given by their mother-in-law and the money they saved themselves. The mother-in-law also lived with them.