To be honest, there is nothing scary about divorce by a person. What is scary is scheming. After the divorce, many people no longer believe in feelings. Even if they meet someone who treats them sincerely, they are often full of scheming.
Children are our flesh and blood and the closest people we are in this world, but some people do not want children at all. Such people are extremely selfish and only themselves in their hearts. It is difficult to be treated well with such people.
When in love, Chen Shan knew that Wang Tao was a second-married man, but in his opinion, second-married men often know how to love others better, and had a failed marriage. I believe that the other party should know how to cherish feelings better.
In the previous marriage, Wang Tao had an 8-year-old son. Logically speaking, the son should have lived with his father, but he didn't know what happened. Everyone around him said that Wang Tao wanted children alive and no matter how he was, and in the end the child could only live with his mother. Chen Shan didn't think much about this matter.
After getting married, Chen Shan thought that Wang Tao should take care of her more, but she was wrong. After getting married, almost all the expenses were expenses by Chen Shan alone. Wang Tao also often asks Chen Shan for money and tells Chen Shan that after saving his salary, Chen Shan will only pay for his daily expenses.
An accident, Chen Shan's mother was admitted to the hospital and had to pay 100,000 yuan for the surgery. Chen Shan didn't have that much money at all, so she asked Wang Tao for help, but Wang Tao said that she had lent her money to someone else and only gave her 2,000 yuan.
Chen Shan cannot interact with the opposite sex, even if she is in a normal conversation, she cannot do it. Because it was raining outside, a male colleague sent Chen Shan home. Wang Tao made a big fuss about Chen Shan's unit because of this. Chen Shan was very confused, but Wang Tao said that he cared about her because he cared too much.
A physical examination was conducted. The doctor told Chen Shan that there was a major condition in her body. Chen Shan was very panicked, so she asked Wang Tao to discuss countermeasures, but Wang Tao said coldly, "I don't have money, you can do it yourself." He looked like he was not concerned about himself. Seeing Wang Tao's expression, Chen Shan was very sad. He never thought that this man was so unreliable at a critical moment.
Although it was discovered later that it was just a false alarm, through this incident, Chen Shan also understood Wang Tao's character. When something happened in the future, it was impossible to make Wang Tao support the sky.
When divorced, how good can a man who doesn’t even want his own children be to others? Those beautiful fantasies once turned into vain, Chen Shan couldn't help but start to worry about her future life. In this marriage, she didn't know how long she could last.
In our lives, there are always many self-righteous ideas. We should try to accept reality and stay away from those beautiful bubbles. For people who are second-marriage, it is far less beautiful than we imagined. Because they have experienced a riddled marriage, their relationship is no longer so pure. Therefore, when you are with people who are second-marriage, you must make psychological preparations. Perhaps you will give more than the other party. Or maybe you give everything but still won’t get the other person’s sincerity. This is the problem that people who are married to second-marriages will face. If you don’t think about it, you should still be careful.
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