How to make men like you all the time. The method I mentioned today is very effective. I have been typing for a long time. Must finish reading. In fact, men are also human beings, and being human beings means humanity. The good girl hasn't gone through too much. Maybe I don't understand these very much. Human nature is divided into good and evil.
When you are valuable to a person. His human nature is good. When you don’t care about a person, his human nature is indifferent. When you have a conflict of values with a person. His human nature is evil.
so, let’s start with value. I will teach you three tricks to establish completely in love.
The first point is to not establish a love-loving character without desires.
In fact, few people don’t look at the dishes. Do you know why you told , S, Wang Xiaofei, , she only eats shrimp peeled by men? Because she is very good at establishing a character. Big S has set himself a character of "I have been spoiled since I was a child". Once the person is set up, Wang must give the best. Peel the shrimp. Although he was divorced, Big S would definitely not lose.
It's like, you go out to talk about a partner. You dress very cheaply. You don’t show that you love yourself very much, you will find that no man is willing to treat you well. Give to you.
Why? Because men's thinking is rational. He is born to know how to wait for the price. So after weighing what you are, his efforts to you will be slightly more than the level you show.
You show that you just like a bag that costs 1,000 yuan. A man will never buy you ten thousand. If you show that you can peel shrimps, men will never peel shrimps for you. Do you understand? This is why I asked a good girl to establish a character.
Because I know good girls are more realistic. sensible. But I have also seen too many men bully who are really sensible. You can not ask what the man wants, but can’t you know your personality cheaply?
You must show that you are a delicate girl who grew up in love. Only men dare not neglect you. This is human nature. Don’t use your simple kindness to challenge the genes of human beings that have evolved for thousands of years. OK?
The second step is to increase the cost of sunk by men and magnify your value.
To put it really badly. Alas, what a man loves the most is the woman he gives the most, but he doesn't get it. Secondly, I love a woman who makes him give a lot of money but gets it. What he doesn't love the most is the woman he has given a lot for him but got it. Although this sentence is not absolute. But all girls think about the person they want but cannot. You will understand.
so, if you want this man to get you, he will still be nice to you. I like you. You must learn to make the cost of your investment.
I don’t support money worship. So I won't say it if it's too material. But in addition to material things, letting him devote his efforts, energy and time to you is the same.
is like in the pursuit stage. If you invite you to have three meals, you agree. This puts your value on those meals.
I just want to be together for a few meals. So you should learn to refuse. Release the possibility. Expressing favor is expression, but you have to reject the party. Tell the other person too quickly. After all, you are very serious about your relationship, so you need to contact us again. If you operate it like
, you will find that this boy is tempted to conquer. Being more and more enthusiastic about you will become more willing to invest.
You may say, Oh Yuchen, I really like him. It's necessary for him. OK, then if you do this to a man. Then you can take the initiative, but you must not confess your love. Do boys understand this confession? Don't be stupid.
Step 3 to enhance your emotional value.
appearance is important. But do you believe it or not? The immortal is here. I got tired of it after half a year. Whether the man can be held behind depends on the kernel.
The kernel I am talking about is not that kind of unconditional effort. Because men are in love. Most of them don’t care about women’s efforts at all.What 80% of men need is emotional value.
Emotional value is actually to coax people when it is time to be gentle. Be considerate when you should care. When it's time to be interesting, know how to chat. When it should be cold, I will show my face. When it is time to recognize and understand. When it's time to get angry, turn around and leave. This is the emotional value.
is actually not difficult to do. You find it difficult to do it because you don’t have a deep understanding of emotions, men, human nature, and psychology.
After you have a deep understanding of men, you will understand that no man likes you unchanged. They are all dynamic. And you just need to maintain this dynamic and fluctuate back and forth on the controllable balance line.
A man during the period of needing you, your value is very high once he gets your value. He will immediately reduce his enthusiasm. This is normal.
If you can't understand this kind of human nature, it's normal. Attempt to keep men enthusiastic and dedicated. That's if you are not normal. Many girls become anxious when they see men’s interest decrease after they determine their relationship. Then focus on finding your own problems and PPT yourself. I wonder if I am not good at it every day.
Want to keep men's enthusiasm by working harder. For example, cleaning, cooking, buying gifts, and caring about your well-being.
does not actually work. You should know that in the eyes of men, these are all things done by parents or nanny. He won't be grateful if you do it. So at this time, some maintenance skills are needed.
Just like what I just said, establish a character, increase the cost of sunk, and increase your emotional value. In fact, these three are enough. Just right. If there are more, it seems that you only have routines but not sincere. If you don’t have any more, you will only be sincere and have no choice. This is not possible.
But these three points are not very simple to do. It's like giving emotional value. This is not something that can be done by just being smart. Instead, you really understand and recognize the other person when you should understand and recognize him. This is a kind of cognition and transparency. Not a simple trick.
The last sentence: deep love will not last long, and extreme wisdom will be hurt. Only when the method is in place can you achieve the end.
Psychological test: Test the words your ex wants to say to you most
1. Do you quarrel over trivial matters when you are together?
Yes, I often feel very tired —2
rarely argues over trivial matters —2
Occasionally, but I can make up soon —3
2. Do you think you are a person who likes to reflect on yourself and is willing to correct your mistakes?
is —3
is not —4
3. Will TA take the initiative to tell you about your troubles?
often says - 5
doesn't say much - 4
4. Will you tell your parents about the process of your love?
, and often complain to my parents. —6
, occasionally, they will talk about it when they ask. —5
, hardly say it, there is nothing to say —5
, there is nothing to say —5
5. How much energy are you willing to spend to get what you want?
Everything goes with the flow, it’s mine after all, it’s mine —7
Work hard, maybe you can succeed —6
Try your best, I have to get everything I want —B
6. Is it because a third party appeared?
Yes—A
No—7
7. Has the other party contacted you actively after breaking up?
Yes—D
No—Ch
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