A good marriage relationship requires both husband and wife to maintain and manage.
The traditional family model in Chinese society is generally the male lead to the outside and the female lead to the inside. Men rarely let their wives show up in public and make money. In addition, supporting a family is actually a man’s responsibility and mission.
Sometimes men are under greater pressure in this society. They not only bear the heavy responsibility of supporting their families, but also pay back mortgages, car loans, and are responsible for elderly care, etc.
But the case we will talk about next is also very funny!
This man was actually lazy and asked his wife for a breakup fee of 10,000 yuan. Even after the divorce, he broke in late at night and claimed that he had to come twice a week.
The lazy ex-husband
This middle-aged woman named Yi Haiyan is also suffering. She was so annoyed that she couldn't eat because of her ex-husband who had no connection with her. She and her ex-husband have been divorced for several years, and the reason for the divorce is that they are lazy.
Speaking of the ex-husband's lazy personality, Yi Haiyan is full of anger. When she got married, she found that the ex-husband's disagreement was completely different from the hard work she showed before marriage.
Yi Haiyan used to do midnight snack business, so she made some money.
Ex-husband Zhang Yifeng was driving motorcycles in the city and making money. But compared to Yi Haiyan's ability, his ex-husband Zhang Yifeng is quite strange. Sometimes he can't even make money from his own fuel after a month. He often complains that he has to reach out to get money from his wife Yi Haiyan.
Because of her lazy food, Zhang Yifeng and his wife Yi Haiyan quarreled many times, and finally even ruined Yi Haiyan's business. His wife Yi Haiyan was completely disappointed and left alone to work alone in Beijing.
I originally wanted to end their marriage like this, but Yi Haiyan didn't expect that Zhang Yifeng would go all the way to Beijing. She thought the other party was reforming and realized her mistakes, and was willing to give the other party a chance to perform again.
After reconciliation, Yi Haiyan realized that Zhang Yifeng was such a lazy person in his bones, and there was no change at all. The couple has been quarreling over this incident for so many years, and later the ex-husband took the initiative to file for divorce.
Yi Haiyan was naturally very happy. In order to cut off the relationship with her ex-husband, Yi Haiyan gave her ex-husband a breakup fee of 10,000 yuan. Regarding the child between the two, the court ruled that the daughter was raised by his mother Yi Haiyan and the son was raised by his father Zhang Yifeng.
Ex-husband who broke in late at night spent the night
Yi Haiyan thought she had completely ended her grudges with her ex-husband, but she didn't expect that her ex-husband shamelessly came to her. After spending the breakup fee of 10,000 yuan, Zhang Yifeng approached his ex-wife and stubborn. The purpose was obviously to ask for money.
Yi Haiyan was able to provide some help at first, but after a long time, she was unable to do so. As an ex-wife, she really had no obligation to support her so-called lazy ex-husband.
However, his ex-husband is a reluctant person. He and Yi Haiyan have always lived in the same demolition transition area, so the family is very close. Therefore, Zhang Yifeng often knocks on his ex-wife Yi Haiyan's house in the middle of the night, and threatens his ex-wife to have sex with him, and is free to come and go to his ex-wife's home.
Yi Haiyan hadn't thought about resisting, but the door lock of her home was really not strong, and she might kick her ex-husband Zhang Yifeng. Ex-husband Zhang Yifeng was extremely arrogant, as if he thought that he and his ex-wife Yi Haiyan had not divorced.
Every time I break into my ex-wife's house, I even tell the village committee cadres in person: "I will go to my ex-wife's house at least twice a week."
Faced with such an arrogant and bold ex-husband, Yi Haiyan has thought of leaving. But because she had contracted a small canteen with her friend before, she was still waiting for the small canteen to arrange food and accommodation for herself before she could move in with her daughter.
Yi Haiyan said that he had done his best to his ex-husband Zhang Yifeng. He likes gambling and is lazy. He still lives by his parents' unemployment insurance of 3,000 yuan. From time to time, he has to help him, and even his son can't afford to support him!
Not only that, but what made her even more a headache was that her ex-husband Zhang Yifeng liked to play cards but did not do anything, but instead turned the blame for her like to play cards. What's going on!
The author has something to say
A man stands tall and stands up to his responsibilities and missions, be the pillars of his family, and support the sky of his family. Because of their physical advantages, men are more suitable for supporting their families than women.
This is a natural dividend in the process of social development in China for thousands of years, and it is also a qualitative rule that has always existed in society. A lazy man is not able to support himself by mud and does not deserve anyone's sympathy. Men like
are really selfish. They only care about their own enjoyment and do not consider the lives of others at all, and even become a dependent on their parents, cruelly and shamelessly.
People who have lost their spiritual fighting spirit and high spirits must have no bright future. Such people should be far away from them, so as not to be dragged into the quagmire, and it is difficult to explain clearly.
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