Recently I crush got a boy who fits all my fantasies about my partner.
So every time I chat with him, I can't help but imagine the scene of our marriage.
Yes, I kind of want to get married.
If love is a high fever, flash marriage may be the antidote to cure it.
However, after watching "Goodbye Love 2", I was a little hesitant again.
Now I am eager to know whether Zhang Song’s marriage is an isolated case, or is it the majority of people who have flash marriages?
So I found three parties involved in the flash marriage and asked them to talk about Is flash marriage an unexpected lifelong romance or an impulse adventure with a hot mind?
My husband and I are seamless.
I just broke up and he just broke up. We all look for a sense of existence on social software and share each other's sad history.
As I chatted, I felt that such a good boy has no good care of him, so why not I do it...
When we met, I was pregnant.
I didn't want it at the time and couldn't bear to fight. After discussing with my family, I asked me to get married quickly.
Before getting the certificate, the two families must sit together to talk about the dowry. My hometown is basically 100,000 yuan, Sanjin .
The result of my in-laws' family said that they would give 80,000 yuan and buy Sanjin when the child is born.
I am an only child and I am married far away. After hearing this, my dad slammed the table directly.
My husband came out to smooth things over, and his mother agreed.
At first I felt that my husband was very responsible. After I got involved in the marriage certificate, I realized that they took a small step back in order to take a big step forward.
The marriage I fantasy is a grand ceremony, surrounded by white roses, and I stood in the middle of the stage in the first-class wedding dress to receive blessings from relatives, friends and friends.
He hurriedly booked a star-free hotel for me for the wedding. He also brought a foundation from the owner on the wedding dress. Except for my parents, aunts and uncles, my friends and other relatives did not come.
Because we couldn’t live in a new house, we lived with our parents-in-law in the first half of the year.
In the past, my mother-in-law made money and was the leader of the family, which led to my husband and my father-in-law not being able to make a big fuck.
When I got married to him, I thought he was quite honest and had a good temper. Later, I gradually felt that he was too honest. Every time we quarreled, he kept his head down and didn't say anything.
I asked him to roll as far as he could, and he immediately disappeared from my eyes.
One day when I was pregnant, I wanted to eat pomegranates. He said that off-season fruits were not easy to buy, and the supermarket was closed. I asked him to go to a convenience store to check it out, but he was unwilling to go.
I just want an attitude.
Before he was in love, he told me that he often stood on the green train for half a night to find his ex-girlfriend. Why did he not even want to go to a supermarket when he got here?
When I watched "Goodbye Love 2", I was particularly able to empathize with Zhang Wanting , especially when she belittled his husband in front of everyone.
Why do everyone thinks he is good? It’s because I have a bad temper and I’m not satisfied. The more others think of this, the more angry I get.
When I feel that I have been let down, it is difficult for me not to launch an attack.
Which family is happy? A woman with a harmonious couple is willing to be a resentful woman every day?
My wife and I have been married for five years. In the two years we had just gotten married, we basically had a divorce once every six months.
We met in the music festival exchange group because we both had the same interests and were very good at chatting.
I am three years older than her. When I started dating, I thought her childish temper was quite cute.
Two months later we went to her friend’s wedding.
Maybe she was moved by the happy atmosphere of others. When she came back, she told me that she wanted to get married, and I was also in the forefront and proposed directly.
and then got married. I found that when I was in love, both parties showed the good side to each other, and there were many hidden dangers that had not yet appeared.
I am used to playing games on the sofa after get off work, and she must take a shower first when she gets home.
I was sleepy at 11 o'clock, and she had to go to bed until 2 o'clock in the middle of the night.
Her definition of love is very simple. You have to do whatever I ask you to do.
I have to take a shower, and I can only sleep when she sleeps. I vomited when I smelled it, but she liked it, but she liked it, and I couldn't hide it yet.
Her little sister applied nail polish to his boyfriend and posted it on WeChat Moments to show off. She also wanted to apply it to me and asked me to bring that thing to work.
All my salary has to be paid. Every time I go out to have dinner with my friend, I ask her to give me money.
My wife is not stingy with me in terms of money. She will buy limited edition sneakers and game consoles for me.
But I just don’t have the right to control it, and what I can get depends on her mood.
What I can’t stand the most is that she often talks about divorce.
Once we started arguing again because of a trivial matter. She said she couldn't continue and got a divorce.
I suddenly became popular and said that if you really want to leave, I have no objection.
She didn't say anything. I slept in the guest room all night, and neither of us mentioned the divorce the next day.
She made me breakfast for the first time. Because I was not skilled, the porridge was full of smell. I pretended to be satisfied and took the opportunity to negotiate.
Can't file for divorce anymore, I'll give me 2,000 yuan in pocket money a month.
After continuous running-in, we slowly found a way to get along with us. She did not hurt her little work, which is also a pleasure in life.
I don’t regret marrying her, and I think she is a good wife.
But if I were given another chance, I would never propose to her that day. At least I would have to live together for two months to see if I could live under the same roof.
Marriage can indeed accelerate the growth of two people, but the process is really tragic.
When my ex and I were talking about marriage, we were told that he had a history of familial genetic disease. Before
, he had been deliberately hiding it because he had to marriage examination before he decided to confess.
My family originally disagreed with us together, and after I knew it, I directly quit my marriage.
Later, I started blind dates. From 25 to 28, I always couldn’t meet the candidate I like.
I have no intention of investing in a relationship again. I just want to get married early and stabilize myself.
My husband's family is better than mine. He and his parents are both civil servants, have good personalities, and have no bad habits.
We met our parents for one month and spent another two months together. I felt that everything was suitable, so we got the marriage certificate.
I am actively promoting the marriage, afraid that he will regret it, and even more afraid that I will regret it myself.
My husband does not meet my initial fantasy of my partner. I like tall men who can bring me surprises.
But he is about 1.7 meters tall and I am allergic to romance. I take practical routes for gifts, car wash card, toolbox, etc.
I entered the marriage with a gambling mentality, so I didn’t have much demand for my partner.
But after becoming a couple, I found that my husband is quite treasured.
He has a vigilance and can't stand my hair on the floor at home, but fortunately, he cleans it silently every time without complaining, and I just can't do housework.
My dad has Asthma , and he has to go to the hospital for an injection in winter. Every time he gets picked up and sent him off.
The people around me are very satisfied with him. Every time I meet, I praise my husband for being careful and caring for others, and envy me for being a good marriage.
Another thing is that my husband is very generous to me on money.
After getting married, we both took the financial responsibility and he took the initiative to take responsibility for the daily expenses at home.
I bought a lot of things on Double Eleven this year, including more than 30 express delivery services of all sizes, and there were his and mine. He didn't say anything, and directly issued an intimate payment for me on Taobao.
My mother-in-law has always been unsatisfied with my job. She feels that her salary is not high and she often works night shifts. She wants me to quit my job and raise my body and have a baby.
He would speak for me in front of my mother-in-law and let her worry less. When she got home, she would tell me that if she wanted to change jobs, he could help me find it, or she could rest at home for a while.
I don’t want to quit because I am afraid of losing my voice. I don’t have a child and I am worried that if my marriage is unhappy, there will be no way out.
Now I think having a baby is good, and being a housewife won’t make me feel insecure.
Once you are determined to live with this person for the rest of your life, your previous shortcomings will be filled with advantages one by one.
No matter how much sweet words you say, you won’t be as good as the bowl of egg noodles that can warm your stomach after night shift.
After reading the story of the three of them, I think the result of the flash marriage is like opening a blind box.
This uncertainty is not much different from going through a long-distance relationship and getting married again.
The "flash" in flash marriage is just a concept of time, but the quality of a marriage is not determined by time.
The key is whether the other party is really suitable for you.
YOYO has not seen the whole picture, so she delivered her choice early and will definitely fall into a marriage dilemma.
He Zhi, who bets on marriage, can get a perfect ending because both parties enter the venue with sincerity to stay together for the rest of their lives.
Every intimate relationship has a common essence.
has romantic, sweet, metaphysical soul fit, and boredom, divergence, and material considerations in reality.
Whether to get married can be decided in one second, but a benign intimate relationship cannot be "flashed".
I really like the love letter written by Huang Jue to Maizi in "Goodbye Love 2":
"I am very annoyed, fate makes us regret meeting each other too late.
You should know me earlier and feel a more complete me...
I thank you, you entered the tiger's den alone and came bravely, I know that love has a next life."
I always feel that marriage itself requires a little bit of luck.
What is more important than when to get married is that when you enter the process of marriage, you can see yourself clearly while seeing others. After
, you can jump in bravely or climb out bravely.
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