Time is really useless. In a blink of an eye, Mr. Ding and I have known each other for 5 years and have been married for 1 year.
Our combination is quite strange: a writer from a rural town, a native Beijing programmer .
Many people who are not familiar with us will think: I will support us in our family, but in fact, I have always thought that Mr. Ding is my confidence.
I left the workplace and chose to work freely. Later, I started my own business because of him behind me. The stability and stability are my courage when facing risks.
This year's wedding anniversary, he arranged a trip to Xinjiang. On the plane to Xinjiang, I thought of a lot of clips about my marriage life this year, and I have some feelings that are still very profound. I will share with you, along with the beautiful scenery of Xinjiang.
1. Don’t regard marriage as particularly important, just like don’t regard the original family as particularly important.
When you focus too much on marriage or on your original family, even if it is okay, you will find a lot of things.
Relax, don't be nervous.
2. Marriage is a partnership between two people. If you want your partner to have a business, you will choose a man based on what standards. There is a high probability that you will not be wrong. Be rational and don’t be hot-headed;
3. In marriage, not everyone cares about wealth. Just like me, I care about comfort. The emotional support brought by comfort is very important to me, so don’t be bound by mainstream social values. Only by making choices based on your "needs", you will be really confident;
4. In a marriage relationship, whoever is strong will have the right to speak, similar to the fact that the partner is strong will own more shares .
There are very few true equal relationships. From the perspective of human nature, it is an unequal relationship that may last longer, so don’t expect true equality;
5. Marriage is indeed an invisible opportunity to change life to some extent. Win with wisdom and love, rather than destroying it with unreasonable and immature. Take it seriously and don’t play tricks;
6. Since two people start a business in partnership, do things in partnership, and resist the risks of life, don’t be too careful, and give all your efforts to do what you can do;
7. Marriage is like a partner starting a business. Risks are controlled first and happiness are enjoying the latter. Don’t believe the sweet words of the "partners". There will be no future words. If you don’t give in front, you won’t give in back.
8. Management of marriage requires a brain, a brain, a brain, a brain, a brain, a brain, a brain, a marriage, a marriage, a marriage. (Say important things three times!!!)
Men will tell you that you like silly and sweet, men will tell you that you like simple women, you should just act like him! ! ! !
At any time, you have a brain and will not affect your romance at all. On the contrary, you may obtain a better quality romance.
9. Believe in the world that there is sincere and passionate love and be grateful.
I am Sanyi, a student who has written for 14 years and published 6 books.
observes the world from a writing perspective.
accompany you to write your ideal life!
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