We can easily label others, and we always define others based on personality and personality, but we find some external factors to help us excuse ourselves.
For example: if others are late, we will think that this person is too lazy and get up late in the morning; if we are late, we will say that it is a traffic jam on the road, or that the people at home are too slow, which has delayed our time.
For example: When someone runs a red light, we will feel that this person does not abide by traffic rules; if he runs a red light, he will say that he has something urgent and needs to be in a hurry.
For example: If someone joins our team, we will feel that this person is not of quality; if you go to the team, you will feel that you have taken advantage of a lot and can make yourself happy for a long time.
For example: If someone around us loses his temper, we will think that this person has a bad personality and a bad temper, and will also remind children to stay away from such people; if they lose their temper, we will say that we are victims and there is a last resort.
On the road, some people are driving around and honking, and we may even swear, but when someone is in front of us, we may also honk the horn.
When we see unkempt people on the street, we will say that this person does not pay attention to his image and is too sloppy; when a person sees a tattoo, he will label him as a bad person.
They are not abnormal, we are all ordinary people.
We always blame others too easily and tolerate ourselves too easily. If possible, please blame yourself with the heart of blame others and forgive others with the heart of forgiveness of yourself.
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