Sometimes I have to sigh that no matter how beautiful your life is, you still cannot escape the changes of time. You have fallen, and countless people are waiting to replace you. Wealth is important, but it is the icing on the cake of life. Only by keeping health is the only one.
That day, I saw a beautiful colleague who had worked with whom I had worked together sitting on a stool at the door of the pharmacy. I thought I had recognized the wrong person. Time is really unforgivable. After retirement, she seemed to have lost all her life, dressed in disheveled clothes and had no face, which was completely different from before retirement.
During the chat, I learned that she was a cancer patient. During the epidemic, she thought she had a cold and coughed, but she dragged her to the hospital for examination. Later, she coughed up blood many times and felt something was wrong. She was diagnosed with "latest stage lung cancer" in the local hospital. She had no symptoms before the epidemic, and her family had no genetic history, and her annual physical examinations were conducted and no problems were found.
The doctor said, "The tumor is large and the surrounding adhesions are serious. It is not suitable for minimally invasive surgery. It requires a major surgery to open the chest before surgery can be removed." But she did not want to have a chest surgery in a local hospital. Despite her husband's strong opposition, she went directly to a tumor hospital in Beijing. She had minimally invasive surgery in Beijing a month ago, and only had three small holes about 2cm were opened on the chest. The operation was very successful!
After experiencing some things and suffering some setbacks, the real sorrow is indescribable. I don’t know how to say some things, but I can only digest them by myself. When I asked her, "Why didn't my husband come out to buy medicine with you?" Seeing that there were tears in her eyes but they didn't stay, I thought she wouldn't be able to express her difficulties.
She told me that after multiple consultations from experts, the "minimally invasive surgical resection" was finally confirmed. The right lung was completely removed, and after the operation, she had chest tightness, asthma, and even difficulty breathing. She came out to buy medicine because the pain was unbearable. She now had weak legs and had no strength at all. She had to go to Beijing for a review two months after the operation.
For her, mentality is very important. Most of the people who survive for a long time are positive and fearless patients. Soong Mei-ling suffers from breast cancer to live to the age of 106. Medical conditions are indeed an important guarantee for him to live long. The most important point is that her calmness and a peaceful mind play a certain role. I hope she is safe and recovered as soon as possible!
You can also see a person's essence clearly in the face of serious illness, whether it is kind or ugly. Her husband tried every means to prevent her from going to Beijing for treatment, thinking that she would waste money when she went to Beijing, and she wanted her to treat her in the local hospital. In fact, going to Beijing for treatment is a wise choice. You cannot perform such surgery in a local hospital. The medical conditions in small cities are indeed not good!
In fact, a woman who works hard on her own hard work is not financially independent, but because after many hard work, she knows that trees will fall, and everyone will run away, and only she is the most reliable. Tears cannot solve any problem, it will only make men more disgusted!
A few days ago saw a post in the college girl group: "If there is a next life, would you still be willing to marry your current husband?" I believe that most women will say "I don't want to!" Yes! Only after experiencing it can you feel it.
She has now written her last words, "After her death, she left all the two properties and deposits under her name, and all she left for her daughter, and all she left for her is an old house that is worthless." She understood her approach very well and suggested that she should go to the notary office to notarize it to avoid unnecessary trouble.
Couples are birds in the same forest, and they fly away from each other when disaster strikes." Couples are the closest partners in their relationship, but when disaster comes, it is also a test of people's hearts. If you encounter half of selfishness, it is very sad.