October is the golden season for harvest in the north. As the saying goes, three springs are not as busy as autumn. It was when the farmer was short of manpower and he seized the time to collect autumn grain. In the morning, a sad scene appeared in the house of Mr. Li in Beifang Village: The 80-year-old Mr. Li kept pushing his wife, Mrs. Han, who had just been remarried for three months, out, and yelled at her angrily: "You will go back to your baby girl's house soon, I can't put you!" clearly showed that the corners of his eyes were still wet, and a little reluctant came out of his eyes. Aunt Han, who was pushed, held his package and was pushed outside, simply squatted down at the corner of the room and kept saying: "I won't leave, I won't leave."
At this time, a woman about 60 years old walked into the yard and pulled Aunt Han up, directly scolding: 'I'm so immersed in life. I won't leave if I chase you away, and I won't serve this old animal when I go home. Let's go! Go home with me! " This is Guo Caiyun, the daughter of Aunt Han. Aunt Han couldn't pull her daughter, so she simply lay on the ground to resist. Uncle Li saw Aunt Han being pulled, so she came to protect her. As a result, Guo Caiyun directly scolded Uncle Li, saying that he cheated money and sex with , and was so old, he was not serious.
Uncle Li is an old man in his octogenarian who couldn't scold Guo Caiyun, so he picked up a stick to beat Guo Caiyun and acted as a gesture to hit Guo Caiyun. Guo Caiyun immediately ran away, running faster than a rabbit, and even threw the most ugly words in the world into Uncle Li's ears, saying that he was not Admitted defeat.
Why is this farce like this? Although it is common for the elderly to remarry, it is common for people to be over 80, and why are Uncle Li and Uncle Han married? Such a "residual marriage" is somewhat strange. Does Aunt Han's daughter want her mother and Uncle Li to live a good life? Why did they just get married for half a year, and, obviously, the mother does not want to leave Uncle Li, why did she break up the old couple? Why did Uncle Li come to chase Uncle Han shortly after getting married? Why did he regret marriage?
1 Unexpectedly, Meet the person who is close to the heart in the garbage
Uncle Li is 80 years old this year. When he was 35 years old, his wife died of a heart attack, leaving him with two sons and a daughter. In order to avoid the stepmother being bad to the children after remarrying, he refused the kindness of relatives, friends and neighbors who came to propose marriage and never remarried in his life. Although he has always been strong and cheerful, over the years, he knows the most about the pain of being a father and a mother. . Nowadays, the children have already started their families and have lived together for four generations. He has no concern for life. The children are grateful for their father's kindness when he was young and raised them. They call him home and are willing to support him in his old age.
However, Uncle Li doesn't go to anyone. First, he has been accustomed to living alone in his life over the years. Even if he encounters troubles that he can't think of, he can silently resolve them. The solution is to work more in the field, sweat all over, and put the elderly bought by his grandson on the ground. The storytelling inside can relieve his boredom. Often after a while, he sweats happily. When he comes, he still tightens his eyebrows. When he leaves, he has already raised his chest and whistles in his mouth. Second, he likes an independent and pure life and feels that he can freely control his time and life matters.
Aunt Han is 82 years old this year, and he has been in the countryside for many years. Working hard makes her body strong, but her legs are a little stupid, and she has no major problems. Her husband has passed away for more than ten years. After her husband passed away, Aunt Han lived alternately at her son and daughter's house, helping her children's house with little work. Aunt Han is naturally timid and is not used to living independently. Therefore, she has an easy-going personality and feels that being able to live in her children's house is a good destination for her.
However, two years ago, her son wanted to marry a granddaughter-in-law and needed to renovate the house. The son sent his mother to his sister's house on the grounds that he had no place to live.Soon, an accident occurred at my sister's house. The place where they lived was within the scope of relocation and requisition. My sister asked my mother to go back to my younger brother's house, because my younger brother's house was originally owned by her parents. But the son who had already renovated the house did not agree that his mother had come back and rented a shed house that was abandoned by someone in the village.
The honest and honest Aunt Han didn't dare to say anything because she was still fantasizing that one day her son would be happy and would take her home. She lived in a stormy hut in fear. She had no income and wandered around several nearby villages and went to the garbage dump to pick up rags. Most of the things she wears are from the garbage dump.
One day, she pushed a trolley with broken bags and wrapped in garbage, and at this time, the strong wind was getting stronger and stronger, and she suddenly blew the bags she packed with paper boxes, and the paper boxes were scraped everywhere. Aunt Han hurriedly closed it, but after grabbing the paper, the piece of paper was blown away again. Seeing that all the paper pieces were about to be scraped away, the fruits of hard work were about to be wasted, Aunt Han was so anxious that she started crying, crying while chasing. At this time, a tall man passed by Uncle Li in Paifang Village. The old man stopped his bicycle in front of her, covered the paper bag with a silk pocket, and said, "Look at you, you can hold it with a sack. Wouldn't the strong wind be over?" This person was Uncle Li. At this time, he had just bought soybeans and went home.
Aunt Han was very grateful. After chatting with Mr. Li for a few words, he realized that Mr. Li belongs to this village. She wanted to return the silk bag to Mr. Li, but the strong wind had not stopped yet. Mr. Li said that a broken silk bag is not valuable, so I will use it for you. I followed Sister Han through my doorstep before entering the house by myself.
The next day, Aunt Han came to return the silk bag. When he entered the yard, he saw that Mr. Li lived in such an orderly manner, with melons and fruits. He thought to himself that he was really a living person. Uncle Li invited Aunt Han to sit for a while, and the two talked about their respective family situations. I feel that my words are very considerate and my temperament is very similar. When I learned that Aunt Han lived in a broken shed and his children didn’t come to visit him when he was sick, let alone buy a pill, he was very pity for her and told her that if there was any difficult thing, just say Zhihu, he will definitely help him. After that, Uncle Li was very concerned about whether Aunt Han passed by the house every day. If he couldn't see it for a day, he would be very nervous. Sometimes, after he boiled boiling water, he waited for Aunt Han to pass by, so he asked her to come in and drink a bowl of hot water. In the cold winter, this bowl of hot water allowed Aunt Han to experience the warmth of her husband and the happiness of her life.
Slowly, the two felt that neither could leave each other and they were concerned about each other. So they found an introduction person and decided to enter marriage. When the fire of life was shaking, they did not give up on this last encounter of love, supported each other, and walked the last journey.
2 Weird! My mother became a rake for making money
Uncle Li and Uncle Han wanted to remarry of course, their children had to know. Uncle Li's children had no objection because they felt that they owed their father what they had, and he had the final say in his old father's life in his later years, as long as they were happy, they would be fine. However, Aunt Han’s children did not think so. They asked the middleman about Mr. Li’s income, house, real estate, whether he had any deposits, etc., and suggested that if his mother remarries, Mr. Li must give him a betrothal gift of 100,000 yuan to the two of them. This must be met, otherwise, the mother would not want to enter Mr. Li’s house. But Mr. Li couldn't afford that much money, and Mr. Li believed that the two old men of were so old, just to find someone who could help each other, so that the room was a little warm and had no other ideas. He finally agreed to see that Aunt Han was so pitiful and his children really didn't care. And Aunt Han took the initiative to propose that he was willing to live with him. But thinking, after all, in name, it’s better to get some money and give your wife a face.
So, he found an intermediary and asked if he could be less, so he didn't have that much money. Finally, after bargaining, Mr. Li gave a bride price of 30,000 yuan.
On the day when he received the bride price, Aunt Han’s son and daughter were very happy and wrote an agreement with the old man. The agreement clearly states that the mother is retired by Mr. Li to endure the mother. Usually, if her mother is sick, Mr. Li will treat her mother to her. If Uncle Li dies before his mother, his children will take her away. The house returned to Mr. Li's children.
Aunt Han’s son and daughter left happily with the agreement and 30,000 yuan, and they were rarely happy. Because this business is really cost-effective. First, someone cares about the old mother. Eating, dressing, seeing a doctor, taking medicine is even more suitable than a nanny. Second, the old man was in good health and was very good at doing farm work at home and outside. He was obviously a long-lived man, which means that he, who was two years younger than his mother, would definitely walk behind his mother. Hehe, isn’t this a way to spend my old age and see me off? Third, it’s too worry-free, and I don’t have to worry about my mother’s affairs in the future. Aunt Han’s children were so happy that they had taken a huge advantage.
On the day when Mr. Li and Aunt Han got married, Mr. Li took out the new clothes he bought for Aunt Han at the market and asked Aunt Han to put them on quickly, saying, " Lao Han, in the future, you should never wear the clothes you picked up again. If you don't have money, we can open up more land, plant some yam , sell living expenses, and don't have to wear clothes thrown away by others. It's nothing else, you know the clothes. How many bacteria are there? Is it unhygienic? " "In the future, we won't pick up garbage anymore. Just sew and repair it for me, cook some food, do whatever you can. It's not easy for you if I don't cling to you."
What a simple word, like a warm current, pouring into Aunt Han's heart. She thought no one cares about her like this in her life. She used to be like a dead grass in the corner, fend for herself, and rely on fate. Now, she is respected like this and someone knows the good and bad news. She is so content. Excited tears flashed in his eyes. She felt that she was so lucky .
Uncle Li and Aunt Han live a fun life, not inferior to young people at all. They carried hoes to the mountain and hoe the ground together, cooked fire together, watched TV series at night, went to bed early and got up early.
However, this beauty has just passed three months, and this tranquility has been broken.
3 Uncle Li meets the crazy demon "Slaying the Grace Dad" Take the card to
Since the remarriage of Mr. Li, two months have passed, Mrs. Han’s children do not ask about their mother’s condition. However, by the third month, the two sisters couldn’t sit still. They saw Mr. Li manage his life in an orderly manner, very capable, and have a way to live, so they guessed that Mr. Li was pretending to be poor and hide his wealth and fooled their mother. So the two sisters came up with a clever way and borrowed money from this stepfather.
At the beginning, the two sisters went back and forth, making up various reasons, such as grandson going to school, children being hospitalized, and urgently needed money for training, and they couldn’t be erased for a while. The horse circle at home wanted Xiu Yixiu and so on, borrow money from his mother. Of course, this is obviously asking for money from Uncle Li. At first, Uncle Li could satisfy them. He took out three or four hundred yuan a few times. After a long time, the savings in his hand were empty. When Uncle Li really had no money and showed dismay, Aunt Han's children kept saying: ' Mother was at a disadvantage. She would rather be a maid than come to this pit of suffering. " Seeing Aunt Han's embarrassed face, Uncle Li went out to borrow money from his neighbors, and once again borrowed money from his daughter. The daughter said, This is not a happy and worry-free life in old age, but this is a sincere wish to live a good life with you. This is a pit that cannot be filled in such a way that even those who open a bank cannot afford it. She suggested that the old father should stop at the right time. Don't be an ATM for unfilial children.
Seeing that Uncle Li really couldn't squeeze out the oil, Aunt Han's daughter Guo Caiyun called and cursed her, scolded her mother, and scolded her for having ulterior motives and occupying Aunt Han. Why did such a thing happen again? It turned out that they woke up and Aunt Han applied for special poverty relief, with the state helping him 3,000 yuan a quarter. They asked Aunt Han to hand over the payment card, clamoring that the money could not be taken away by her mother. At that time, I was confused for a moment that I forgot about my mother's application for subsidies.
So, the dispute at the beginning of this article emerged.
Uncle Li was extremely sad and angry. He raised such unfilial children for Aunt Han, and was also troubled by his marriage in his later years. After thinking a few times, he decided to let go of this relationship, separate from Aunt Han, and return to the original ecology of life. , however, he was worried that Aunt Han would return to the broken shed where she lived, and no one knew if she died, so he strongly suggested that she still go back to her daughter's house. No matter what, her daughter would not let her expose her body in the wilderness.
Uncle Han understood the painstaking efforts of Mr. Li, but she said that even if she left Mr. Li, she would never go back to her daughter's house. She had enough of her daughter's insults and her son's unwillingness to do so, and she would die in her own broken shed even if she died. In that way, at least I still have dignity. However, she still begged Mr. Li not to drive herself away. She said that no one in this world respects and cares about her like Mr. Li.
In order to properly handle this matter and protect his shaky happiness in his later years, Uncle Li, accompanied by his daughter, found the legal rights protection department. When the legal department of seriously explained to Aunt Han's children that mother's money and property is personal property and must not be illegally forced to occupy it, otherwise it would be a crime. Aunt Han's children's arrogance was extinguished.
Uncle Li and Aunt Han's life has returned to normal. In the past two days, Aunt Han took Aunt Han to the city to sell vegetables.Uncle Li decided to take out some of the money for buying vegetables and buy a new piece of clothing for Aunt Han.
Shanxi micro-review
People are old and have barren emotions. This is the real life state of many elderly widowed people. If you meet your children who are wise, you will also give you care and care for you, be a strong backing for your life, and support you through the last years.
If it is money-financial, it will only treat you as a money tree. What you care about is the money in your pocket, not what your emotional world needs. At this time, what you squeeze out is milk, what you swallow is hatred, and blood. No wonder some elderly people say that it is better to have no money than to have money to cause trouble. But once you really have no money, you feel disdainful and you have been lying around all your life. This feeling makes you doubt your once wonderful life. So, it’s all wrong to have money or not. But, in fact, it’s not you who are wrong, but those things that should be studied in depth.
So, be bold and be nice to yourself. Like Mr. Li and Mrs. Han, in his later years, he stood up and gave himself a bright light in his life. If this light is a marriage, then fight for it.
Please pay attention to the , who wish you could write about all the emotions in the world but were powerless, , , the world is so big, the mountain stream has feelings.
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