It is pitiful to all parents in the world. For us Chinese, as long as our parents are still alive in every stage of our children’s life, parents’ worries and direct participation are inevitable.

Poor parents’ hearts all over the world. For us Chinese, as long as our parents are still alive in every stage of our children’s life, parents’ worries and direct participation are inevitable. It is no exaggeration to say that more than 80% of young people have their houses, cars and marriages. I guess China has parents like this who will work hard for their children all their lives in the whole world?

Recently, a "typical" Chinese mother has caused heated discussions online. Ms. Zhao, who was only 46 years old, made her will early: her inheritance will only be passed to her son but not to her daughter-in-law.

Ms. Zhao said that her son is still studying abroad and she has made a will now because she is worried about the current view of marriage for young people. After all, many young people are getting married impulsively and regret it within a few days after marriage. The variables of this kind of flash marriage are too great, so I don’t want my son to divorce in the future, and their property will become the common property of the couple, and will be divided into the daughter-in-law after the divorce.

Ms. Zhao also said: "If they grow old together, these property will definitely belong to the couple, but if they really separate, I hope to protect their property." At the same time, Ms. Zhao also said, "This is a very simple idea for me."

It is estimated that Ms. Zhao’s family conditions should be very good. Her son is studying abroad and has confirmed such a will. I guess there must be at least one mine in the family?

But this is a joke about me. After I talked to my colleagues about this, she felt that this was actually a very "typical" concept of Chinese parents. Not to mention Ms. Zhao's family conditions, many parents in families are afraid that their daughter-in-law and son-in-law will touch their property. To put it bluntly, they are "outsiders". Even many parents feel unhappy when their children are not divorced, as long as these "outsiders" buy something for their parents, thinking that they have touched their own money.

It is undeniable that similar situations are indeed uncommon, and this is just a different degree, but it is quite surprising that such high-profile people like Ms. Zhao are quite high-profile!

Although many netizens do not like Ms. Zhao's approach, let's look at it from another perspective, Ms. Zhao's will is in line with the legal effect, and it is clearly telling you that it is much better than revealing various clues in life after marriage. What's more, nowadays, there are many couples who will sign a pre-marital agreement before getting married. The most typical example is Cecilia Cheung . She signed an agreement before getting married to Nicholas Tse : If you divorce in the future, you can want nothing, but the child must belong to her!

I just don’t know what Ms. Zhao’s “daughter-in-law” thinks about this matter, or I don’t know if there will be a daughter-in-law after the news of Ms. Zhao is exposed.

In fact, there is no way to evaluate right or wrong with parents' thoughts and ideas, after all, it is too common for parents to worry about their children. But I think what real people should think is why parents think like this. It is no wonder that young people’s marriage values are too "open", and some marriages can even be said to be like a joke. The marriage certificate obtained in the morning can be divorced in the afternoon. Even though there is cooling-off period now, it seems that it has not changed much!

You should know that love is a matter for two people, but marriage is really a matter for two families. If you want to get married, you really have to think about many practical issues clearly. As long as you are responsible to each other in love, you have to consider two families in marriage. If you have children, you will have more concerns. And we all know very well that parents will always participate in our lives. The only way to change this situation is to be "down-to-earth". We must seriously consider and have a good plan when dealing with marriage. In this way, parents can avoid unnecessary worries and avoid impulsive divorce.

In short, parents do not evaluate whether they are right or wrong in their worries, but they will never be unreasonable or unreasonable.Marriage is not a joke, so cherish it all!