On Zhihu , I saw a question: "Who are you most afraid of answering? Why?" The answers under
are all kinds of.
Some people are afraid to answer the boss’s call because the boss always asks him to work overtime.
Some people are afraid of answering calls from their children’s teacher, which means that the child has made a mistake in school.
Someone is afraid to answer the call from his parents, and maybe someone is in poor health and is hospitalized after being sick.
One of them had the highest answer, and he said: "I hate people who usually ignore you and ask you for help whenever you have something to do."
hits the hearts of countless people in one sentence.
If you have such people around you, if you can stay away, stay away as soon as possible. There is a passage on
online that says: "Some people come to you to help and nourish you; while some people come to you to consume you and drag you down."
blindly tolerate, compromise, and accommodate those who keep consuming themselves is cruel to themselves.
The world of adults is not easy for anyone.
I have to do my best to manage my own acre of three-point land. How can I still have the energy to try my best to make sure for people who are not worth it?
The two most important words between people are: mutual.
If you cherish me, I will cherish you. If you help me, I will help you.
Otherwise, don’t bother each other and make peace with each other.
Kindness and enthusiasm are very expensive things, don't give it to the wrong person cheaply.
The rest of my life is short, so love yourself well.
wants to throw away the relationship, and throw it decisively; those who want to break it, hurry up.
is the only person who can save you from the quagmire.
A writer said: "Everyone who appears in other people's lives should surprise the other party like a gift; if you can't, you will reduce the appearance, which is also another gift."
I hope you can also stay away from those who consume you and leave time and love to yourself!
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