at the beginning:
There are always some men who will ask, what exactly do women want?
In fact, the answer is very good: it is just love and care.
Of course, some boys will say contemptuously: Women like rich men. In fact, if you answer this, it is very likely that there will be no love between you and the woman you meet.
Two people are truly in love, which will make you feel "feel" from the bottom of your heart.
Generally speaking, if a woman falls in love with you, she will feel dependent on you, and when she faces your love, she will also want to give you back; when she faces your love, she will also feel joy and excitement when she sees you.
On the contrary, men will be relatively rational in their treatment of love.
If you ask him what he feels about you, most of the time he will answer vaguely, very simple, and it will easily cause women to misunderstand: Does he don’t like me? Does he have no feelings for me?
In fact, if a man is sincerely dating you, his way of expressing love will often be more enthusiastic in his actions and let you see through his heart.
On the one hand, he wants to test how deep your affection for him; on the other hand, he is also examining whether you are suitable.
So, when a man makes the following "actions" towards you, there is no doubt that he already has a "deep love" for you in his heart.
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There is always a move to "protect you", and you see your fragility in your eyes
Love is never caused by fate.
Instead, two people take the initiative in getting along with each other and take the initiative to protect each other.
is like, it rains and the woman does not bring an umbrella. Just as the woman is irritated, the man called and said he is on the way to pick you up.
's initiative is the word "protective". Although it is simple, it is very sincere.
TV series " Step by Step 1", everyone is obsessed with Ruoxi and the Fourth Master who loves her and the Eighth Master , but there is another person, the Fourteenth Prince, whose feelings for her are actually significantly higher than those of these two people chasing the throne.
Because, all his actions when he was with her in the play were "protecting" her.
Ruoxi was sent to kneel down in order to plead for Thirteen. He came to her with food. He did not persuade her, but only wanted to reduce the damage she suffered physically. His strength was very weak, so he could only give her some food to "protect" her.
Then, he asked Kangxi to forgive Ruoxi again and again, and finally asked for an imperial edict. Later, in order to fulfill her wish to leave the palace, he risked being jealous of being Yongzheng , with Kangxi's imperial edict, requesting to marry Ruoxi as his concubine. The "protection" of
is actually because he sees her inner fragility and wants to save her from "water and fire", and does not want her to be involved in the deep affection in the power struggle.
He knew very well in his heart that the person she loved in her heart was never him. This helpless and entangled emotion did not stop him from acting.
When Ruoxi was his side concubine, he fulfilled her and respected her. As long as it was what she wanted, he would follow her wishes and try his best to satisfy her.
This love seems to be the most superficial, but in fact it is the most sincere.
So, when a woman is a man, she acts like "protecting you", don't doubt that your status in his heart will definitely not be low.
The high realm of love is actually that it can see through the fragility you hide. It will not be swaying or entangled, but will use the most direct actions to protect you steadily.
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There is always a move to "tolerate you" and tolerate your shortcomings one by one
says that men are not good at "tolerating" because they can endure for a while, but cannot endure for a lifetime.
especially in love.
However, a man must be tolerant of the woman he loves. Not only tolerate your timidity and vulnerability, but also tolerant and patient with you.
I still remember that this was the case when a friend pursued his wife.
They used to be a colleague. At that time, whenever he talked about his wife, he always looked happy.
Women love to watch horror movies. He is very timid and will secretly watch it before she says she can watch it to save embarrassment in front of her; women love to eat matcha cake in a cake shop, and he will always buy it and put it on her table during lunch break; girls like to take selfies, but they are actually quite annoying, but they also cooperate with all kinds of smiles and grimaces...
Finally, after several "tribulations", they chased the girl.
Nowadays, almost two of them have become the same mold. They both like to watch horror movies, eat matcha cakes, and post selfies on Moments...
can be seen that once a man is really good, he will take all the other person's preferences and assimilate himself.
However, it can also be seen that a man's "forbearance" seems to be enduring, but in fact he himself enjoys it. In his eyes, women's naughty, little entanglement, and little uneasiness have all become "little cuties".
Once he feels in love, he will like everything he sees when the other person does, and when he hears what she says, he will like everything he hears. He will also regard a forbearance as a confession of love for her, turning this forbearance into a deep love.
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There is always a move of "wrapting you", turning your guesses into invisible
A man, once he has love for you, he will want to devote his time and energy to you. Just like a cat, you have to stick together every day, and you feel panicked if you can't see each other.
If a man has a woman in his heart, his most common manifestation is to pester the other person.
No matter whether you like it or not, he longs to be with him. When playing games, even if you don’t like it at all, he hopes that you can sit by him and not walk too far. On WeChat, it is reported in 24 hours, saying hello in the morning and saying "good night" before going to bed at night; when you get together with friends, you must take you to attend so that his buddies know that you exist; even when you are bored, you must chat with you, listen to the same song, say some nonsense, and make jokes...
The arrival of love is actually two people who integrate into each other's lives.
The man's "hugging you" is actually because he longs for you to enter each other's daily life, understand more, interact more, and hope to see you at any time, and hope that you can have more intersections.
Especially when he is sick, he will look forward to you being by his side and taking care of him; when he encounters a trough and has trouble, he will hope to get your comfort and encouragement.
These "wraps" are the fragments of your time and the precipitation of love.
In fact, what people want to find in this life is just a person who entangles each other. Only by "entangling" can they rely on each other; only by "entangling" can they rely on each other; only by "entangling" can they rely on each other in their hearts.
So, women, don’t think he is silly, and don’t think he is so "hugging you" and has no masculinity. You must know that he treats you so much because he cares about you very much.
Conclusion:
In this world, love and love seem to be the arrangement of fate.
In fact, there are fixed numbers for clustering, dispersion and separation.
Come to you alone, bringing you a heart-warming feeling, endurance for you, tolerance for you, and peace of mind. These are the righteous fates between you, and you must also understand that if you owe, you will pay back, and if you give up, you will gain.
Don’t just ask for it without knowing how to give.
In love, what you need most is never a meeting, but after meeting, you can be "loved with each other" and after getting along, you can never leave.
The more you get along, the more you can understand each other and cherish each other, and want to give this person the limited time for the rest of your life. Then at this time, it can be said that you have fallen deeply in love with each other.
Still remember, there is a saying: I love you, I don’t have so many requirements or expectations for you, the only thing I want is that you love me with your heart.
Perhaps, this sentence is the true meaning of love.
people live for a lifetime, for decades, and men and women love each other means to work hard to each other, love the truth, and love openly.
Two people, both of whom said "I love you" in language, also expressed their love by "loving each other's actions". This is the most beautiful love in our life.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
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