Maugh wrote in "The Shackles of Human Nature": "If you don't have enough income, half of the hope of life will be cut off. You have to be careful, be petty, become small and humble."
This is the biggest feeling when I read Yan Zhen's novel "What to Do", and I feel sad. Behind the text, there is always a moment that touches you.
"What to do" may be the torture of his soul by everyone who works hard in a foreign country. Life is so difficult, what should I do?
- How much impact does native family have on people?
The heroine Xu Jingjing in the novel "What to Do" was born in a small county town. In addition to her parents, she also has a sister.
My father’s work was not going well in his life, and his sister did not study well, and she was the greatest pride in the family. My father’s greatest expectation for her is: in the future, you must find a job with a staffing position. Can it be considered a job without a staffing position? Xu Jingjing agreed with the concept of
, and even felt deeply rooted.
"Has a staffing" has always been the focus of Xu Jingjing's job search, but a girl with no background in a small town can take root in a big city and live a prosperous life. Too difficult.
Everyone will tell her that relationships are important. She knew what her strengths were, and she had nothing except being tall and young, and having a promising diploma.
Faced with the first "olive branch" left by fate, she refused without hesitation, with her pride in it.
That was when he was a tutor in college and was in a bad mood in the face of the male owner. I repeatedly hinted to her that I could even provide her with a good job in the future.
At that moment, Xu Jingjing remembered her father and said, "A wallet fell off in front of her. Don't bend over to pick it up. As soon as you bend over, you will fall into the pit."
Xu Jingjing refused without hesitation. The man sent another letter and said, "Why should a girl give up the opportunity to grow up?" Xu Jingjing thought for a long time and finally replied: I believe I can grow up independently.
At that time, Xu Jingjing didn’t know how difficult things were.
The words my father said to Xu Jingjing also affected her life, no less than "having a stipulation".
book says: "In this era, the information age, everything is flowing rapidly. If a person is too serious and obsessed, he can only look at the back of others as he goes away."
Xu Jingjing looked at the passage of time. Although she was powerless, she became more and more courageous. She used her enthusiasm to change the fate of her parents, herself and her children. It is difficult to fight fate, and I want to cry. We have all had this feeling of powerlessness.
What is the way out for the second town of the tester?
The former Xu Jingjing was also a proud white swan. In the town, studying well is the greatest capital. She could receive envy from others, and at that time, she thought this was the wonderful beginning of her life.
But she didn't expect that the pride in the town was the highlight of her life, and she seemed to be unable to overcome it again, and even that kind of pride was enough to make her reminisce for her life.
Can you believe it? A person who is promising in the eyes of parents, teachers and students will one day live a very powerless life.
Those who are proud of themselves in small towns are as small as a speck of dust in big cities, even like a drop of water melting into the sea, silently. Even if you are proud, even if you are a treasure in the eyes of your parents, you are nothing in society. You are just an ordinary person, no different from all living beings.
Xu Jingjing has a deep understanding of the powerlessness of life. From being sophisticated to being unable to afford rent, we may have had such a period of time in reality.
There was once a friend who was a top student in the eyes of his relatives and friends, and his excitement was an insurmountable height.
After graduating from graduate school, he said that he no longer had that pride and tried his best to survive. After graduating from university, he lived in Tongtianyuan, Beijing. Tongtianyuan is known as the largest community in Asia, with 4 million people living in it. Even if he took the earliest subway, he might not be able to get on the bus. He was lucky that he would not be late in winter.
Xu Jingjing said: "How many times I have too many reasons to re-understand this world and hate this world, but there are always some people and things that I have brought back. Today you pulled me again. I am very grateful to you. There are a lot of people with hard hearts, and soft hearts have a very powerful force."
Once facing life, my friends also spoke boldly. Now he has slowly accepted reality. What is life? Life is the power to endure it again and again, and still grit your teeth and move forward. It won't give you a chance to breathe, you can only rely on yourself.
novel reads: "For the ideal in my heart, I have been self-disciplined for seven years. The one I have been waiting for in seven years, which makes me feel a little regretful, and I wonder if my seven years of self-discipline is worth it. This regret has not caused me much trouble. In the past seven years, there have been too many opportunities to play around, and I have not regarded it as an opportunity. For me, the destination of the soul is the most important. The soul has not started and entered the romance of gameplay. It is a performance of life and a disrespect for myself."
Xu Jingjing also had that confused period, but when she set her life goals, she tried her best and finally ushered in the darkness of the willows and flowers.
When reading the novel, I feel like tears are filled with my eyes. This is a person who has suffered all the hardships of life and slowly tasted the sweetness. In the days to come, Xu Jingjing is increasingly convinced that relying on her own hands can create the life she wants, and that process will be difficult. She chose, she was willing to go on. Even if you give birth to a child for one month, you must continue to return to work.
has such a belief, it is enough.
Which is more important, survival or love?
For life, Xu Jingjing has her own philosophy of survival.
After reading the novel, I even wondered, if Xu Jingjing had not had the obsession of herself, would she have lived a so-called "happy" life long ago? This idea was rejected as soon as it jumped out. If that were the case, it wouldn't be Xu Jingjing.
Starting with her boyfriend Zhang Wei, Xu Jingjing has fantasies about love, but this fantasy is broken. For the sake of her job and future, her boyfriend left her behind and went home alone, and then got engaged to the leader's daughter.
After suffering from love, Xu Jingjing did not give up on herself. In the most difficult moments of her life, she didn't even think about finding a rich man to marry her.
She hates the bad habit of eating in the second generation of rich classmates, does not like Boss Liu's vulgarity, and does not like the so-called arrogance of the leader. She looked down on no good marriage in the eyes of others.
But, in the end, what kind of person did she choose? A young man who graduated from graduate school and delivered food.
You may be surprised by Xu Jingjing's choice. Because her life after marriage was also a mess.
But for Xu Jingjing, it is not like that.
novel reads: "Look for someone who loves you or someone you love? This ultimate soul-searching does not exist for me at all. I don't love someone, let everything else be aside. How can I survive that night?"
has no horizon, no matter how rich you are, it is not possible.
After experiencing past few years of wandering, Xu Jingjing knew the difficulties of the world, but the difficulties still exceeded her imagination.
went to the bathroom at night and stayed in front of the mirror for a while. She asked herself: Am I old? No. I am only in my early 30s, how dare I say this old name? However, time passes and there are traces.
Survival and love, Xu Jingjing has made a choice.
Ask yourself, can I be as clear as her in the face of the world? No answer. But, at least in reality, many people have compromised.
"What to do", just live according to your heart, don't regret, don't compromise, don't be discouraged.
Conclusion
"The air flow passes through my fingertips, I feel the movement of time, and my thoughts fly. The universe is so big, and the earth is just a grain of dust; the years are so long, and a lifetime is just a moment. What is there to worry about in the moment in the dust? I comfort myself like this and know that this kind of comfort is actually a kind of illusion. No matter how vast the world is, I can only return to the slightest in myself.This is the essence of life, and it is something that I really can’t think about. People can only live so restrainedly. As long as you are still alone, you have no choice. "
Life is difficult and full of difficulties. "What to do" lets you see that there are people in this world like you, trying their best to live. Life is full of mountains and rivers, the future is like the sea, the future is long, just work hard to be the best self.
Xu Jingjing said: "How many times I have too many reasons to re-understand this world and hate this world, but there are always some people and things that I have brought back. Today you pulled me again. I am very grateful to you. There are a lot of people with hard hearts, and soft hearts have a very powerful force."
Once facing life, my friends also spoke boldly. Now he has slowly accepted reality. What is life? Life is the power to endure it again and again, and still grit your teeth and move forward. It won't give you a chance to breathe, you can only rely on yourself.
novel reads: "For the ideal in my heart, I have been self-disciplined for seven years. The one I have been waiting for in seven years, which makes me feel a little regretful, and I wonder if my seven years of self-discipline is worth it. This regret has not caused me much trouble. In the past seven years, there have been too many opportunities to play around, and I have not regarded it as an opportunity. For me, the destination of the soul is the most important. The soul has not started and entered the romance of gameplay. It is a performance of life and a disrespect for myself."
Xu Jingjing also had that confused period, but when she set her life goals, she tried her best and finally ushered in the darkness of the willows and flowers.
When reading the novel, I feel like tears are filled with my eyes. This is a person who has suffered all the hardships of life and slowly tasted the sweetness. In the days to come, Xu Jingjing is increasingly convinced that relying on her own hands can create the life she wants, and that process will be difficult. She chose, she was willing to go on. Even if you give birth to a child for one month, you must continue to return to work.
has such a belief, it is enough.
Which is more important, survival or love?
For life, Xu Jingjing has her own philosophy of survival.
After reading the novel, I even wondered, if Xu Jingjing had not had the obsession of herself, would she have lived a so-called "happy" life long ago? This idea was rejected as soon as it jumped out. If that were the case, it wouldn't be Xu Jingjing.
Starting with her boyfriend Zhang Wei, Xu Jingjing has fantasies about love, but this fantasy is broken. For the sake of her job and future, her boyfriend left her behind and went home alone, and then got engaged to the leader's daughter.
After suffering from love, Xu Jingjing did not give up on herself. In the most difficult moments of her life, she didn't even think about finding a rich man to marry her.
She hates the bad habit of eating in the second generation of rich classmates, does not like Boss Liu's vulgarity, and does not like the so-called arrogance of the leader. She looked down on no good marriage in the eyes of others.
But, in the end, what kind of person did she choose? A young man who graduated from graduate school and delivered food.
You may be surprised by Xu Jingjing's choice. Because her life after marriage was also a mess.
But for Xu Jingjing, it is not like that.
novel reads: "Look for someone who loves you or someone you love? This ultimate soul-searching does not exist for me at all. I don't love someone, let everything else be aside. How can I survive that night?"
has no horizon, no matter how rich you are, it is not possible.
After experiencing past few years of wandering, Xu Jingjing knew the difficulties of the world, but the difficulties still exceeded her imagination.
went to the bathroom at night and stayed in front of the mirror for a while. She asked herself: Am I old? No. I am only in my early 30s, how dare I say this old name? However, time passes and there are traces.
Survival and love, Xu Jingjing has made a choice.
Ask yourself, can I be as clear as her in the face of the world? No answer. But, at least in reality, many people have compromised.
"What to do", just live according to your heart, don't regret, don't compromise, don't be discouraged.
Conclusion
"The air flow passes through my fingertips, I feel the movement of time, and my thoughts fly. The universe is so big, and the earth is just a grain of dust; the years are so long, and a lifetime is just a moment. What is there to worry about in the moment in the dust? I comfort myself like this and know that this kind of comfort is actually a kind of illusion. No matter how vast the world is, I can only return to the slightest in myself.This is the essence of life, and it is something that I really can’t think about. People can only live so restrainedly. As long as you are still alone, you have no choice. "
Life is difficult and full of difficulties. "What to do" lets you see that there are people in this world like you, trying their best to live. Life is full of mountains and rivers, the future is like the sea, the future is long, just work hard to be the best self.
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