I saw a case: A netizen hired someone online to test his boyfriend, wanting to see if her boyfriend is loyal or not.
result did not disappoint. Her boyfriend passed the test and was very loyal and refused to step on two boats. However, after learning about this series of operations, he was very disappointed.
Because he thinks that when two people are together, they must trust each other, and temptation is breaking this layer of trust, which is a manifestation of netizens' distrust.
If a relationship is gone without trust, it will no longer have to continue.
Therefore, the temptation in the relationship is meaningless. We are happy in line with our expectations, but hurt the other person's heart. If we fail to meet our expectations, we will be sad.
and testing has no effect. If some people are good at acting, the answer given is in line with our expectations but do not love us, what is the point?
So, whether a person loves you or not does not need to be tested is hidden in the "details".
1. Go and see if he (she) can see your efforts
Liu Jing has a physical problem in the TV series " Little Joy ". breast is at risk of cancer, but she doesn't want her family to worry, so she went to the hospital alone without hiding her lover.
Ji Shengli After learning that his lover was ill, he has always been low-key and a clean official. He used his rights for the first time just to provide the best medical conditions for his lover.
This is love. When we give to a person, we can see it in the other person's eyes, and we will also give feedback on the good we give.
Hu Xueyan once said: "If you are willing to hold an umbrella for others, then others are willing to hold an umbrella for you. Everyone has no umbrella on rainy days. If you can cover up some rain, just cover it. This is also a wonderful way for me to not be wet even if I don’t bring an umbrella when it rains."
In a relationship, if we like someone in particular, then we will take the initiative to take two more steps towards each other.
At this time, if the other party sees that we have come over but have no intention of greeting us, then we need to stop our pace of moving forward.
Because we need to know one truth, that is, some things can be obtained through hard work, but love alone cannot.
So, love or not can be reflected in the details of rushing toward both directions.
2. Go and listen to whether he or she quarrels
When the relationship is in a stage of a passionate love period, due to the blessing of filters and the emergence of freshness, we will always easily see the best side of a person.
So, we will like it and think this is love.
But don’t worry about falling in love at this time, because that’s not all.
TV series " Know . When discussing love, he felt that when people get along with each other, they should see their lowest point, because only at the lowest point can they know whether a person is reliable.
When a quarrel occurs between a couple or a couple, it is the lowest point of a person.
If the other party has seen us angry, frustrated, and irritable, and still choose us unswervingly, then we can confirm our relationship at this time;
If the other party is quarreling, even if he is angry, he will not speak without restraint and will remain rational, then we can confirm our relationship at this time.
Many people always love someone from one side, and love includes beauty and badness. Only when a person's cultivation can still be reflected at the lowest point can you be sure that this is true love.
3. Think about the comfort he (she) gives you
In traditional Chinese families, there is always such a privilege misunderstanding, that is, two people will unconsciously think that "you are mine, you should listen to me, I am all for your own good" because of living together for a long time and spending time together day and night.
So, I want to possess you more and control you, otherwise you just don’t love me, otherwise I will leave you.
But true love is never like this. True love is that I love you, but you are also free and will not force the other person to be the same as you because of what you like.
will not use the banner of "I'm all for your own good" to meet your own needs and ignore the interests of others. Such love is uncomfortable and there is no love.
If you love someone, you will be introverted and you will definitely consider the problem from the other person's perspective. If you love someone, you will be tolerant and you will know how to respect him.
So, we can feel that the other party never interferes in what we like, and always supports unconditionally. When we have shortcomings, the other party will not dislike it, but is more tolerant. Only love like
can be called love, not stalemate, not sticky, and will not deprive others of their freedom and interests just by satisfying their own desire for control.
Of course, managing love cannot be separated from wisdom. After knowing that the other person loves you, you must also cherish the other person well. Don’t be fearless because of being loved. Good love has always been mutual support.
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