When it comes to marriage, many people will be particularly excited because this topic is always talked about and new. In ancient times, people often regarded "meet old friends in a foreign land, encountering rain for a long time, and having a wedding night" as the four joys of life, which shows how important marriage is in a person's life. So when you encounter such a life moment, the villagers in the village will always join in the fun. On the one hand, they want to give themselves some joy and bring good luck; on the other hand, they can enjoy a lingering and ask for a few wedding candies to eat. In addition, on the day of the newlyweds' wedding, bridal chambers have become an important part, mainly in some rural areas, and this trend has always been prevalent. The people who make the most fuss are usually Xin Huang's cousins, cousins, classmates, etc. In some places, there is a saying that the more violent the fuss is on the day of the wedding, the better the popularity of the family. If no one makes a bridal chamber when a family gets married, it means that the family is not popular locally. Therefore, various kinds of wedding news are often reported online.
Compared with rural areas, urban people seem to be less noisy when they get married, and the process is also very simple. Relatives and friends gather together to attend the wedding ceremony of the newlyweds, and they can leave directly after the ceremony. There is obviously less wedding atmosphere unique to the rural areas, so even fewer people go to the newlyweds’ bridal chamber. So, do you know what things will be placed in the wedding room when young people in the city get married?
Recently, the photographer was invited to follow up on the wedding of a couple. Speaking of this wedding, it is really: twists and turns. The wedding date was originally agreed on on National Day, but three days before National Day, the other party told him that it had been rescheduled because of the sudden outbreak of the epidemic. The other party said, let's change to the end of the month, but by the end of the month, there are still sporadic explosions around from time to time. It is unlikely that the wedding ceremony will be held in the original hotel in a short period of time, and the wedding date cannot be delayed infinitely. There is no way. Once the two families discuss it, they will set the wedding date on November 1st.
That's it, the other party postponed the wedding for a month, and my wedding was also postponed by one month compared to the original plan. Because you can't hold a wedding in a hotel, the whole wedding seems much simpler. First of all, the bride-taking team was very simple, with no groomsman, no bridesmaid, and no ceremonial master. Seven or eight relatives drove three wedding cars to form a bride-taking team and drove directly to the bride's house. Secondly, the process was simple. After the bride-taking team arrived at the bride's house, no one blocked the door and asked for red envelopes, and there was no too much cumbersome shoe-finding process. Basically, it was just a few greetings and directly carried the bride on the car.
Compared with other weddings and photographers, the process of shooting the newlyweds is relatively simple. Since there was no wedding ceremony, when the couple walked into the wedding room, the photographer also entered the wedding room. At that time, he just thought about taking more scenes and explaining to the couple in the future. However, when the photographer walked into the bridal chamber, he saw that the newlyweds actually put four big words on the bed with food: give birth to a noble son early. And these four characters are made of four different foods. The word "Zhao" is used for red dates; the word "sheng" is used for peanuts; the word "gui" is used for longan; and the word "zi" is used for lotus seeds.
According to traditional Chinese folk customs, the four foods of dates, peanuts, longans and lotus seeds are used to bless the newlyweds, which means "to have a noble son early", in order to seek a good omen before doing big things. Due to the Chinese language and culture, they have a special liking for homophones. The homonym of jujube means the word "early". Moreover, jujube is believed to be able to replenish blood and is a good thing for the body. Therefore, some people who pay attention to health often have red dates at home. Peanuts are also easy to understand. The birth in peanuts is the word "生" for fertility, and peanuts have a layer of shell. Only when they are peeled off can they see the fruits inside, which is exactly the meaning of fertility.
The cinnamon of longan is the homonym of "Qi" for Guizi. Longan is the dried longan . On the traditional Chinese wedding , longan means reunion and happiness, wealth and glory; the word "Lotus seed" corresponds to the word "Zi" for Guizi, and the word "Lotus seed" for lotus seed is the homonym of "Lian", which also means to tie the knot. The so-called "there is lotus on the lotus and lotus under the lotus" means "the good friend (lotus) is natural." Lianhe Lian also means blessing the newcomer to have a noble son.
At rural weddings, elders will mix these foods together and then sprinkle them on the newlyweds' wedding bed. In addition to the meaning of "being young children early", they also have the meaning of "a bed full of children". Therefore, the custom of sprinkling lotus seeds, red dates, peanuts, longans, lychees or chestnuts on the wedding bed is a marriage custom in our country since ancient times, and it is the greatest blessing and expectation of the elders in the family to the newlyweds. However, the difference is that in rural areas, there is a custom of making a marriage, so people will put these foods together and sprinkle them on the wedding bed, which will attract people to compete. But people in the city may have used food to put a few words because they did not have a marriage. Here, the editor wishes every new couple forever! Grow old together! Happiness and fulfillment!
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