hi, dear friends, I am Xin Yuai, the mother of an 8-year-old girl, a 30+ dream boy growing up on the road, I am back after resting for 3 months!
says it’s a rest, but it’s better to say that every moment, I’m doing what I want to do now!
Today, I will divide some of my experiences and feelings from the past 10 months into three stages to summarize.
The first stage: both have
This year, from the beginning of the year to the end of July, I conducted 1 reading club and 6 training camps all the way. The reason why I keep going all the way is because 10 reading clubs or training camps is one of my dream list in 2022!
reading club and training camp, from 0-1, I made up my mind for 1 month, and it only took me a week to do it. It was also from this thing that I understood: in the face of action, all preparations seem redundant.
At work, this year is a critical period for my career promotion. Since I was transferred to the post at the beginning of the year, I have known that the path I chose is not easy, but on this path, there is a state I long for.
For me, work is not only about work, but also about love, and a way to carry a sense of value and a sense of accomplishment.
As it turns out, my choice is extremely correct. In just a few months, my performance and achievements made my leaders look at me with admiration. I also gained more promotion opportunities because of this.
At this stage, I call it "both both" effort , because taking into account both work and side jobs, I can see the infinite potential contained in myself.
The second stage: Active rest
When the 6th training camp ended, I told myself: " I want to rest "!
First, at work, two new projects are about to be started, both areas that I have not covered before, so I need to learn a lot. In order to focus more energy, I decided to suspend the training camp.
Second, the training camp has gone through 6 periods, and there are many areas that need improvement and adjustment, so it is time to rest!
Third, I want to leave some quiet time for myself, besides working, stay away from my phone and live with my heart, this is the most important reason!
In the past 7 months, because of training camp, I spent no less than 5 hours on my phone every day.
I don’t want my time to be controlled by my phone, so I started to try to go home and put down my phone, and experience the fun of cooking for my family, the joy of accompanying my children, and the quiet time I brought to me without browsing my circle of friends.
html In August, in addition to outputting some diaries on WeChat Moments, they did not write formal articles, so they often receive "urgent" whip from Lulu . Haha... To be honest, this feeling is very warm, because on the road to growth, there are still people who care whether you are moving forward today.But I know very well that I need some time to "waste" at the moment, and even if I do nothing, I will enjoy it in my heart.
When I saw that there were friends in the group updated their articles every day, I was no longer anxious, but adjusted my mindset and adapted to my own rhythm.
Stay away from mobile phones, stay away from complicated information, live the current little life. This time when you return to peace will make you feel happy.
I found: The best state for a person is not that he can be free by self-discipline, but that he can be free and relaxed, and relaxed properly. To make himself comfortable is the best state!
The third stage: Focus on
Starting from September, I took the initiative to stop all self-media activities and began to prepare for the exam at the end of October with peace of mind.
Yu Minhong said: There are two ways to do things, one is to complete it in one go, and the other is to persist in doing it for a long time. The
exam belongs to the first type. If you complete it in one stage in one go, you don’t need to do it anymore.
Since this exam was very beneficial to my career promotion, I decided to do my best to prepare!
When the exam is over, I know that this time I pass is a high probability event. (I will write an article to share the review methods and experience later, hoping to give you some reference if you need it.)
written at the end
Growth itself is a road of ups and downs, and speed, endurance and concentration are required in the process.
No one can sing all the way. When you are full of energy and have more ability, try to move forward for a while. When you feel shortness of breath, slow down and move forward slowly.
There is no need to see where others are going, nor do you have to look around and wonder whether the road in front of you can lead to the end. All you have to do is to be firm in your goal and walk the road under your feet!
especially appreciates a view of Teacher Yu Minhong: "When two roads are standing in front of us, we just need to choose one, no matter whether it is a path that has been walked a lot or a path that no one has walked. As long as we persist, we can see different scenery."
As long as we can be self-consistent on this road, it is the best state of growth.
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