text: Li Xiangning Picture: From the Internet
"You don't want to come in. You didn't want me at the beginning. It's been twenty years since, and it's hard to see you. Now I'm asking me to give you money. What do you think?"
Xu Yang is 30 years old this year. He works with his wife to do some wholesale business of vegetables and fruits. Although the conditions are not very rich, he also has a house, a car and a deposit. The two have an eight-year-old daughter, who is smart and cute, and the family of three is very happy.
A few months ago, my mother, who had been absent from Xu Yang for nearly 20 years, suddenly came to the door, saying that she wanted to borrow some money from Xu Yang, and that she was treating her stepdaughter.
Xu Yang felt hatred for his mother in his heart and ignored her. It was all his wife negotiated with the old lady, but Xu Yang's wife did not dare to make decisions and was reluctant to lend her the name of her mother-in-law.
If Xu Yang is the only one at home, no matter how his mother knocks on the door, Xu Yang will not say a word inside. Xu Yang's mother had to find the elders of Xu Yang's family and take her to the door together. So the scene at the beginning of the article appears.
Xu Yang's father died when he was over three years old because he was unable to treat the disease. At that time, he didn't understand what separation was like in life and death. He only remembered that his grandparents and mother were very sad, and her mother had been in the hospital for a few days because of this.
Later I heard from adults that it was because my mother was too sad and the child, who had been several months old, could not be saved.
After my father passed away, my mother took him with me, taking care of my parents-in-law while planting the ground, and also found a way to repay the foreign debts owed by her husband during treatment. The already poor family is even more poor.
This kind of life was frugal, and after more than three years, Xu Yang's mother remarried. The partner is also a widowed uncle, with two daughters. The younger daughter is younger than Xu Yang and her family is not much better than Xu Yang's family.
Xu Yang's only request for remarrying was to hope that the other party would help pay back the remaining debts at home. As for whether to take Xu Yang with her, she also thought very much, but considering the other party's conditions, she did not mention them, but the other party said it.
. Xiao Xuyang didn't know about these two problems back then.
Xu Yang's mother took Xu Yang to marry in the past few years and managed the family of four with her husband. Although it did not make the poor family improve much, it was smooth sailing and the whole family was having a happy life.
But the little sister and Xu Yang seem to be born with different horoscopes, and they will make noises when they meet. At the beginning, Xu Yang's mother and stepfather didn't take it seriously, thinking that it was just a fight and play between children.
But as they grew up, the couple found that their youngest daughter had gradually changed their personality, no longer likes to talk, no longer likes to laugh, and they became much silent, and the quarrel with Xu Yang also turned into a fight.
Children fight, neither side knows to admit defeat, nor do they know how to give in to each other, so the little daughter suffers every time. And Xiao Xuyang, who had not had much affection, did not change much through his mother's repeated preachings.
As the result of the trend became more and more intense, the younger daughter became more and more taciturn and weird in character. She was not only a cold-eyed person, but also a hostile attitude towards everyone around her.
They took their youngest daughter to the hospital for examination. The doctor said that the youngest daughter suffered from a rare mental illness. Based on the medical level at that time, the doctor said that there was no possibility of cure and that she needed to take an imported drug for life to control it.
With the conditions of Xu Yang's stepfather, he was already struggling, and it was even worse to maintain his youngest daughter's condition. Xu Yang fought with his younger daughter every day, and he often beat him to death.
As a last resort, Xu Yang's mother sent Xu Yang, who was already 11 years old, back to her original parents-in-law. But at that time, Xu Yang did not understand his mother's difficulties and paranoidly believed that his mother wanted him anymore. Since then, he was full of resentment towards his mother.
Everyone around him tried to persuade Xu Yang to understand his mother, but he never allowed others to mention his mother. After entering puberty, rebellion and paranoidness made him even more disgusted with his mother.
Xu Yang's mother went to visit him several times, and was hurt by Xu Yang's cold eyes and harsh words. Xu Yang's mother always left with tears. Since then, she has not dared to appear next to Xu Yang.
Xu Yang's mother, a rural woman with no education or ability, was insulted by her son again and again, and didn't know how to deal with and face it, so she could only escape and hide. When Xu Yang's grandparents passed away, she did not dare to go to pay condolences, and when Xu Yang got married, she did not dare to go to congratulate him. There was only one person crying in full regret.
After Xu Yang got married and started a business, Xu Yang's mother dared not appear in front of her son. One was that she had no face to face her son, and the other was that she was afraid that her son would misunderstand that she was greedy for his money.
Xu Yang's mother loves her sick stepdaughter very much and treats her as her own. She has been taking good care of her for so many years. Her husband works outside to earn money, and she takes her youngest daughter around for medical treatment at home. As long as she hears there is a little hope, she will spare no effort.
The eldest daughter has already started a family, but the family is not in good condition, so there is very little help to them. In order to raise money for the doctor for his younger daughter, Xu Yang's mother borrowed all her relatives and friends, and many families have borrowed it once or twice.
Xu Yang's mother also had poor nutrition, thin bones, and gray hair like frost dyed, which had fallen off and was very sparse.
However, the younger daughter's condition not only did not improve, but became more and more serious, and she developed into a stupid state and could no longer take care of herself. Even so, Xu Yang's mother still never thought of giving up, and she didn't even complain.
Although the people around him are very moved by the feat that this is not a real mother, they do better than their real mother. However, if they are not a poor person, they are really helpless.
Just when everyone thought they were desperate and wanted to give up treating their younger daughter, Xu Yang's stepfather, who had been traveling around for many years, heard that the current medical level was enough to overcome the mental illness of his younger daughter.
But while the whole family was happy, they were full of loss and helplessness. Where did the high medical expenses come from? And it cannot be cured or recovered by treating it once or twice.
Xu Yang's mother and the others had to beg grandpa to sue her grandma, but it was just a drop in the bucket. Xu Yang's mother had to go to her son's door. After being turned away again and again, she still refused to give up. She had an obsession in her heart that as long as her son was willing to help, her daughter's illness would definitely be cured!
Although she couldn't knock on the door of her son's house and couldn't get in, she had never been to the stalls in the market to look for Xu Yang. She said that people were coming and going in the market, afraid of embarrassing Xu Yang.
But my little daughter couldn't afford to wait for her illness, so Xu Yang's mother went to find the old man in the Xu Yang family to be a lobbyist. Even so, Xu Yang still did not let his mother enter the house.
But because his mother came to him one after another, it touched Xu Yang's cold heart. With the appearance of the elders of the family, Xu Yang was finally willing to know his mother.
After listening to the stories of the elders of the family, they watched the video of their mother apologizing to herself in tears. Only then did they truly know why her mother remarried, why she sent herself back to her grandparents, and why she hadn't met her for so many years, Xu Yang's eyes turned red.
Thinking of the hardships my mother suffered for so many years, Xu Yang burst into tears. He could no longer sit still, so he rushed out of the door, hugging his mother and crying bitterly. Looking at the mother and son who were weeping and crying in a hurry, everyone was rubbing the corners of their wet eyes.
With Xu Yang's operation and efforts, the situation of his stepfather's family has received greater attention from the government, and has also received help from more caring people in the society. His sister has now received three courses of treatment.
treatment effect is very good. His sister's mood is already very stable. She also knows that she can not only take care of herself in life, but also help her mother with some housework to the best of her ability.
The smile finally returned to Xu Yang's mother's face. The smile was very sweet and happy.
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