Zheng Youna got married. When she was 22 years old, she chose to marry a young man in the same town. The bride price was 32,000 yuan, which was OK for her. After all, in this small town, the average bride price was only 20,000 yuan.
Youna is the eldest daughter of the family, and she has a younger brother. Because of her family background, she dropped out of school and went to work when she was in junior high school. She worked in a factory and a clothing store clerk. In her words, she has been working for the first half of her life.
When studying, she had to cook for her home, three meals a day, but she didn't miss one meal. She couldn't remember when she started cooking.
My parents have to go to the field to work, and my younger brother is younger than me, so I also need to help take care of him. Zheng Youna lives a busy and fulfilling life every day.
So when she was 22 years old, her parents-in-law wanted her to work at the old property purchase station from home. She thought it was too dirty and wanted to do other jobs.
I couldn't find a suitable job for other jobs, so I just delayed it for two months and found out that I was pregnant.
In-laws are happy, and the whole family is immersed in the joy of welcoming a new life. Youna herself wants to work after giving birth to a baby.
Finally, the child was born and successfully passed the breastfeeding period. Youna's husband wanted her to find a job, or help her recycle the old goods at home, so that her mother-in-law could retire to help take care of the child.
But Youna was not happy, saying that the older generation would not be able to take care of children, and that the children would spoil them when they were taken care of by the elderly, and that they would not be close to their parents, etc., so they just wanted to take care of them themselves!
line, Youna's husband could not tell her, so he could only let her think.
can only work hard to earn money by working overtime, because he has a meager salary alone, and he has to pay his parents a living expenses every month, and his parents also subsidize their small family.
Youna has since started her life as a full-time mother.
Every morning, Youna gets up and cooks for the family. After eating, she takes the child back to her parents' home and comes back to cook at noon. She buys vegetables and makes them all. Later, she thinks that her mother-in-law just doesn't want Youna to get money.
drag the child back to his parents' home every day without any movement, and the child is reluctant to get close to his grandparents.
In the morning, my parents-in-law and husband went out to work on time and came back until five or six o'clock in the evening. When I came back, I wanted to hug the child. After less than an hour of hugging, Youna hugged her back to the house.
Because there is no income, my husband's salary is also limited, so Youna can only wait for her husband's pocket money of three or four hundred yuan a month, sometimes it is really not enough!
gave birth to two children for two consecutive years, and then took the children to elementary school. During
, I didn't work. I was not working except cooking and cleaning my home. When I paid the tuition every year, I was waiting for my parents-in-law to pay the tuition. My parents-in-law had already complained about her but didn't say anything.
Youna's cousin couldn't stand it anymore, so he talked to Youna.
Because this cousin introduced Youna's in-laws' family, her in-laws must have expressed their dissatisfaction with her in front of her.
"I do housework at home and take care of the children every day, and my husband goes to work to support the family. This is right. Moreover, grandparents are rich. Shouldn't they pay tuition for their relatives and grandchildren if they are rich? I have made contributions to this family." Youna said aggrievedly.
Seeing that Youna had this idea, my cousin didn't say anything else to her. Even if she said it, she wouldn't listen.
only leaves a sentence "It is a love affair for parents-in-law to help, and it is a duty if they don't help!" Although this sentence is unpleasant, it is a fact.
disguised leniency will only make oneself lose its competitiveness and become disconnected from this society. When your husband can stand on his own finances, you can do it full-time, but you can't look at the money in the pockets of the two elderly people.
. My cousin didn't say this sentence, so she could only end the conversation with a sigh.
No one can wake up someone who pretends to be asleep!
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