Marriage is the end and the beginning for a man. End the previous unruly, clean up your free heart, and start writing a new life and journey with a woman.
After marriage, go ahead with the woman you choose. Perform the responsibilities and obligations entrusted by marriage. On the way, there may be bumps and bumps, difficulties and obstacles; they may go further and further, and even part ways.
What is tested in life is not only the individual's ability, but also the ability to assist between husband and wife. No one knows what will happen on the way, which means the cooperation and tacit understanding of the two people along the way.
move forward all the way, and you can stop and watch, but don’t forget to move forward. Don't forget the woman who has been with you. So, at any time, take care of yourself and be clear about your role positioning. What can be done and what can’t be done. It is the most basic condition for a married man.
a few words tell a married man
1. Please treat your woman well
to be treated well. This is the most real idea of many women in marriage, and it is also what women’s parents want to say most when they give her to you. But life is not a fairy tale, and the ending is not all about living together happily.
The initial sweetness will be replaced by the mess of life, and the young girl who was overwhelmed by the time will gradually lose her color under the polishing of life; the slim waist that could be held with one hand at the time has become bloated; the little woman who was young and whispering has now become a Hedong lion in your eyes.
complaining, complaining, dislike, and promises to her when she got married have disappeared. Being treated kindly and kind is already a long way away.
is a very real example. I know a couple, and I have known each other for many years. I have witnessed their sweet love and their terminally ill marriage today. He has been married for 5 years and now his child is 3 years old. From his wife, they learned that since the child was given birth, the couple had slept in separate rooms until now. Women often take the initiative to show their love, but men would rather solve their physiological needs by themselves than touch women again...
Once a man was drunk and told the truth, he said nothing but said he was drunk without counting it. But in my opinion, what he said was the truth.
When giving birth, the doctor asked him to go in to accompany him to . He originally wanted him to witness the birth of the child and know that it was difficult for his wife. But in the delivery room, he saw his wife's unbearable side and her face twisted due to the pain. After coming out, he vomited! More importantly, he found that his wife had patterned belly, bloated waist, and sagging breasts because of her breasts...
He said that when facing such a woman, he really couldn't raise his sexual interest. It even feels a bit disgusting.
nausea? The man who said this may have forgotten that the bloated woman you disliked is also the one you once pursued for three matchmakers and six certificates to marry. She was once beautiful, but now she is disgusted by you. Don’t men know everything about her? Why didn't you do it?
2, Keep a distance from the opposite sex
Everyone has a circle of friends and familiar friends of the opposite sex. When chatting, you must grasp the right measure. This is the minimum respect for a married man to his wife.
No matter how generous a woman is in the world, she will not tolerate her husband and other women being in love with each other and talking about everything. No matter how good your relationship is before marriage, you must keep a certain distance after marriage.
Some men are like this. They have not cheated or betrayed, but they just like to be ambiguous with other women. There is no sense of measure or distance at all. You found that you said he, but he was full of quibbling, he didn't.
Indeed, he did not have any substantial cheating or solid evidence, but as a married man, he could not see his role position clearly, and he tried to tentatively on the verge of cheating, and denied it verbally, but if the opportunity came, he would cheat immediately. After reading this sentence, all impure relationships with the opposite sex are on the road to cheating!
Indeed, you are a married man, what are you talking about with others?
3. Don’t try to have extramarital affairs,
When the passion fades and the couple has not yet become affection, the extramarital affairs will be ready in the middle. If you can’t control it a little, it will make you fall into it.
After all, extramarital affairs are much more attractive than ordinary marriages. At the beginning, maybe they just want to have some fun and some excitement. But over time, the beginning of playing has become a burden, a thorn in life, and when you force you to make a choice, it is often not worth the money.
Two results of extramarital affair, one is that you think you have found true love and want to give up your family and choose. This situation is much more expensive for men than for women. Unless you really do whatever you want for love, or a man who gives up his family and children for extramarital affair is really stupid.
Another kind is really just a playful thing. I think I am charming, and I carry my wife on my back, coax my lover, and deal with the two women. I thought I could enjoy the blessings of all people, but in fact, such blessings are really not something that ordinary people can bear.
Something like this, and there are many examples of separation in the end. The price behind the moment of greed for a while is to spend a lifetime to repay. Some people are disgraced for this. Even directly rewrite life
4. The wife is your closest person
. Although the parents are close, they will leave you first one day. Although the children are good, they are getting farther and farther away from you. Therefore, only your lover and your wife are the ones who truly accompany you for the rest of your life.
The couples in life all move towards dullness with enthusiasm and finally transform into family affection. This is true when couples are together when they are young. Two people who are not related by blood will spend their whole lives to make up for each other.
The most common scenes in the hospital, when you are sick, the one who is accompanying you the most is your partner. The person you have been angry, resentful, and even want to change is often her who is with you when you are in the most difficult and lowest point. The place you call home is supported by her and you.
A home without a wife cannot be considered a complete home. Therefore, a married man must cherish the wife around you, she is the person you have with you for the longest and closest to.
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